Position of the Week: Sidewind Her

by Lovehoney

on 26 Apr 2020

Why is everyone loving the Sidewind Her? Let us explain. She gets to lie down and relax into it, while he can shift into full carnal control and enjoy being a puppet master of her pleasure, with full access to all of her external and internal erogenous zones.

Position of the Week: Sidewind Her


She lies on her side and raises her top leg to welcome him in. He straddles her with his legs in a kneeling position, either side of her resting leg, as she wraps her raised leg around his waist to draw him in.


She can prepare for maximum G-spot attention as he slides into his position of power and gyrates, thrusts, winds and grinds away. His bent-over position means his hands are free to roam to her breasts, clitoris or even her anus to really ramp up the sensations and really deliver on the blended orgasms.


This sex position lends itself to a multitude of sex toys, so you can really go to town on accessorising it to give it that extra oomph for both partners. A vibrating cock ring will help keep him harder for longer, while enhancing his and her sensations with intense vibrations throughout the session. A handy little bullet vibrator within easy reach can be picked up by both him or her to add extra tingle to the stimulation of her external sweet spots, and is small enough to not get in the way of penetrative sex.

Make it even better

If you want to get all bases covered, why not try adding a little butt based fun into the mix with a butt plug? Designed to be worn by both him and her, he can enjoy stimulation of his prostate and she can indulge in the sensation of feeling 'full', as well as extra attention on her internal clitoris and G-spot.


This position can be adapted for female-female couples with the use of a strap-on dildo. It's also a great position to try for anal sex (and add a male masturbator into the mix if the receiver has a penis).

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Originally published on 26 Apr 2020. Updated on 18 Jan 2021