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  1. The Lovehoney Guide to Attending a Fetish Club for the First Time

    No man or woman is born rubber clad into a world of goddesses and gimps. The fetish scene and the clubs that frequent them were just as alien to me once as they may be to you today. It doesn't take much more than a killer outfit, a can-do attitude and an open heart and mind to take your first steps into the public fetish scene. In fact the only other weapon missing from your arsenal is knowledge. If you're intrigued by the scene but tentative about attending an event, this blog should provide you with all of the basics you need to get you from curiosity to club night.

    Marcus T - Fetish Photographer : My First Time At A Fetish Club

    Marcus T is a club night photographer who is on the press list for most of the fetish nights in London, including Torture Garden. Originally attracted to the aesthetic of the fetish scene, he found himself experimenting with fetish clubbing alongside his partner and now considers scene players as his closest friends.

    Amy Day of Am Statik Latex : My First Time At A Fetish Club

    Amy Day is a 23 year old fetish fashion prodigy. She is the sole proprietor and designer for Am Statik latex, a company she launched in December 2009. She studied fashion at the University of Bath where she first started experimenting with latex design in 2008.

    Amy is also a regular attendee at fetish events in London and became a scene pin-up after her first ever fetish club experience, which didn't exactly go according to plan:

    We're making room for our Christmas stock! Check out the sex toys sale section for five fab vibrators at just £1.99 each. They make great stock fillers and Secret Santa presents, too!

    It's time to grab a sex toys bargain! Check out the sex toys sale section for five fab vibrators at just £1.99 each.

    O' My Natural LubricantWhen talking about blowjobs, Sex And The City's Samantha Jones once said: "Honey, they don't call it a job for nothing."

    Quite right, too. Blowjobs provoke different reactions in different women. For some it's a sure-fire way to blow their man's mind. For others it's a series of gag-reflexes, feelings of suffocation and nausea at the thought of swallowing sperm (especially if it's quite sour tasting – this can happen with guys who regularly smoke and drink). For me, it depends on who I'm with and what mood I'm in.

    Some friends of mine even go so far as deciding whether to give head based on the size of the guy's penis. Their reasoning for this? "Women have small mouths and if the guy's penis is too big, we'll just end up gagging." I can understand the point they're making, but it doesn't have to be that way. The secret to giving your man great head is finding a balance between making him feel totally engulfed without making you feel suffocated.

    Lubricants such as ID Glide and Astroglide can help off-set the side-effects of lower oestrogen says Suzi Godson in The Times's Body & Soul section.

    "Because oestrogen and testosterone play such a big a part in libido, women who decide not to take HRT sometimes experience a dip in their sex drive. One of the most common side-effects of declining oestrogen -- lack of lubrication -- is one of the easiest to rectify," she says before recommending that readers buy their lube at Lovehoney.

    "There are millions of lubes on the market from basic KY Jelly to high-tech superlubes such as AstroGlide or ID. You will find extra slip and slide makes everything much more fun."

    Friday, we went out and got drunk, came home and cooked and then just crashed in bed. I know, I know. It seems as though I'm becoming an alcoholic… I have drunk too much recently… Not good but will be sensible next week. Honest.


    Today Shane and I engaged in an activity that is a fave with both of us… A nice long an relaxed oral sex session. I really love it when he goes down on me and I think he has such a beautiful cock! What can I say? I'm a very lucky girl.


    Anyway, although Shane's precome tasted delicious, neither that nor his come tasted of apples I'm afraid to say…

    Lubricants such as ID Glide and Astroglide can help off-set the side-effects of lower oestrogen says Suzi Godson in The Times's Body & Soul section.

    "Because oestrogen and testosterone play such a big a part in libido, women who decide not to take HRT sometimes experience a dip in their sex drive," says Suzi. "One of the most common side-effects of declining oestrogen -- lack of lubrication -- is one of the easiest to rectify."

    This week, you will be playing a naughty game with your partner to enhance your dirty words vocabulary. Quite simply, the game will involve exploring each other's erogenous zones and combining your erotic exploration with sexual commands.

    Before starting this game, set the mood by having a candle-lit bath with your lover. Make sure you are both immaculately clean by the time you step out of the bath so that you are both confident in letting each other explore some of the most intimate areas of your body.

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