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Ever gazed at your favourite vibrator and wondered what generous genius dreamt up its shape and amazing orgasm-giving powers? Where would we be without our favourite setting, the speed we know will skyrocket us to orgasm, and the toy we keep on standby by our bedside? From its very basic beginnings in Joseph Granville's doctor's surgery, to the flashy, bells-and-whistles varieties we now know and love, no sex toy has a more colourful history than the wand vibrator. We've delved into our X-rated history book to bring you the edited highlights. Enjoy!

While they may not have 12 different types of orgasm to explore, there are still plenty of ways men can turbocharge their orgasm for a mind-blowingly good jizz fest.

Although women might not hesitate to invest in a sex toy to improve their orgasms, men don’t always offer themselves the same courtesy, and many aren’t comfortable sharing tips to enhance their orgasms.

Read on for how to help yourself, or the man in your life, to have incredible, super-charged orgasms with a few tips, tricks and tweaks to their routine.

Why a Massage Wand Vibrator?

'Cause they're magic!

As well as being magical, wands are wonderfully versatile and can be used for all sorts of play, from romantic massage right through to kinky fetish fun (and everything in between).

They're a great non-intimidating introduction to bedroom accessories, particularly for couples who'd rather steer clear of anatomical toys, and offer loads of play options without looking like a body part.

Plus, with just a couple of attachments in your midst, a wand can bring the pleasure of several toys, in one neat package.

This allows you to explore a whole world of pleasure, without dedicating your whole wardrobe to sexy products.

(Not that there's anything wrong with that!
*Admires bedside unit spewing with dongs*)

What is Orgasm Play?

Orgasm play (or control) is the act of taking charge over how, when and if an orgasm will take place during intimate play.

Orgasm control can be explored during solo masturbation (sometimes referred to as "edging", "peaking" or "surfing"), but is often used as a tool for submission during BDSM and power play scenarios.

During couples' play, orgasm control is usually broken down into two main types: 'Orgasm Denial' and 'Forced Orgasms'.

Not sure what that means?

Read on to find out their true definitions, why you might like to try it, and how.

Wands: The What? The Why? The Where and How?

Magic Wand vibrators are packed with some of the most powerful motors on the market for out-of-this-world, all-over-body pleasure.

For many people, wands are a staple in the old sex toy box, but for others they are still a mystical mystery.

These days wands come in all shapes and sizes, colours and with an array of features, which can be a bit overwhelming if it's your first wand purchase.

So we want to help you by going back to basics and answering all of the most asked magic wand questions.

Let us know if you have any more questions in the comments section below.

Looking for a gift you can both enjoy?

Sex toys are a great way to introduce exciting scenarios and sensations to your love life, whether you want to add spice to date night or spoil your long-distance lover.

Take a look at our top 10 Best Sexy Gifts for Couples, and add one or two to your basket for an unforgettable shared experience.

If you're looking to add another dimension to solo fun or couples play, take a look at our range of vibrators for men.

It’s a comedic trope that we’ve all seen before – the fake orgasm.

Some argue that Meg Ryan’s infamous diner scene in “When Harry Met Sally” takes the cake, but my personal favourite has to be when Elaine comes clean about her orgasms in “Seinfeld”.

The fake orgasm is a simple gag that gets an easy laugh from a television audience. The reality is that the motivating factors for faking an orgasm are far more complex.

So what counts as a fake orgasm? Why do people do it? And how, once you've started, do you stop doing it?

Well, the answers may not be what you would expect...