Chelle

Chelle Lovehoney

Chelle, a member of Lovehoney's Editorial team, is a multi-published adult author who believes great sex starts with having the confidence to explore your fantasies in the bedroom.

A bondage and kink enthusiast, Chelle is also an advocate for BDSM education, and when she’s not writing blogs for Lovehoney, you'll find her planning for her next erotica novel.

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Learn Your Love Language: Acts of Service

Ever been called a people-pleaser? Do you show love and affection by doing nice things for your special other? If you like ironing your partner’s shirt, making their sandwiches for the work day ahead, cooking up their favorite meal or just simply giving up your time to carry out a visual action you know your partner will appreciate – then it may be that Acts of Service is your love language.

Exactly 30 years ago, author, pastor and marriage counsellor, Gary Chapman, released his New York Times best-seller bookThe Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate”.

Sharing his personal insights into our relationship behaviours, he identified that there are five different ways in which we give and receive love and affection with our partners. Since, his theories have become vastly recognised across the globe – and one of those concepts is the Acts of Service Love Language.

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Position of the Week: Pop the Cork

See in the new year with a bang and let the sparks fly in the bedroom with this up-close face-to-face position. Holding, kissing and caressing one another makes this position intimately perfect.

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Secret Santa Gift Guide

Just like Christmas, the most exciting part is often the lead up to the big moment, so why not add a little spice into your Secret Santa gifting this year? After all, does anyone really want to rip open a pair of novelty socks?

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How Trying New Foreplay Ideas can Improve your Sex Life

Foreplay. A hotly debated topic - some of us love it, and some of us just aren’t quite so convinced. But done right, and the build-up to sex can be just as good, if not better than the main event!

Sadly, foreplay has a tendency to be overlooked. Sometimes this can be because it feels awkward (especially with a new partner), or because it can feel too contrived. Particularly if things have become a little bit too routine lately…

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How to have amazing nipple play

Nipples are amazing things and, guess what? Everyone's got 'em!

As a super-sensitive erogenous zone, the right kind of stimulation can create mind-blowing pleasure for you or your partner.

So, whether you’re a nipple play fanatic looking for some tips and tricks or want to try this titillating technique for the first time, we’ve got you covered.

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