Position of the Week: Chairleaders

by Lucy

on 24 Sep 2021

If you’re feeling like you need to reconnect with your partner on a physical and emotional level, The Chairleaders position will help you do just that.



The partner penetrating with their penis or toy sits in a (very sturdy!) chair with their feet flat on the floor, while the other partner sits on their lap, facing them. The receiving partner then rests the backs of their knees on their partner’s shoulders, with their calves and feet on or over the back of the chair.


The Chairleaders position is deeply intimate and an ideal position for lovers of deep penetration at a languid pace. Get into position, stare into each other’s eyes and nuzzle in close to go as deep as you like.


A position enhancer such as the Bondage Boutique Plush Sex Position Restraint with Cuffs is designed to make positions that are slightly tricky-to-maintain, a cinch. Ideal for keeping the legs of the receiving partner elevated, it also features wrist and ankle cuffs to introduce an element of kink – perfect if you want a gentle introduction to bondage.

Make it even better

Enhance the deep penetration position with the addition of external or internal vibrations that both partners can delight in. A vibrating cock ring, wearable couple’s vibrator or vibrating butt plugs could be just the thing to give you both that extra zing!

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Written by Lucy. Lovehoney Editorial Team
If you think that an exciting sex life starts and ends with Missionary then Lucy, who has worked at Lovehoney for over a decade, is here to enlighten you with her ever-popular ‘Position of the Week’ blogs.
Lucy also loves making the world of sex and sex toys easy to learn about, and you'll often find her with her head in a book researching her latest A to Z guide

Originally published on 24 Sep 2021. Updated on 15 Sep 2021