1. 10 Sex Positions for Gay Men and MLM Relationships


    You on top, them on top, everyone on their sides... We've all got our go-to sex positions, but don't you find that sometimes, you'd like to try something a little more... unexpected?

    When it comes to shaking up your sex routine, there's no easier or faster way to add some spice than by switching out your position play.

    With that in mind, we've pulled together 10 top (and bottom) sex poses that allow you and your same-sex partner to easily experiment with both penetrative and non-penetrative sex.

    Looking for a little extra 'je ne sais quoi'? We've also included our top toy suggestions to make each pose even more explosive - as it were.


    1. Missionary

    It may not top the list for innovation, but there's no denying that missionary is popular for a reason. Face-to-face means up close and personal, thrilling and intimate. Penetration isn't necessarily required, either: you can also explore frotting (penis-to-penis contact) in the missionary position.

    How: First take the time to warm up – use lubed fingers to relax the anus of the partner being penetrated and take your time so you're both fully aroused. When you're ready, be sure to use plenty of lube and enjoy.

    With: Lovehoney Delight Extra Silky Water-Based Lubricant


    2. Bumper Cars

    Up for a challenge? In this rear-entry position, the partner on the top has gravity on their side while they plunge into the partner below. For added stimulation, slip on a penis extender that enhances your length or girth, or wear a textured penis sleeve and see how long you can last!

    How:Face the opposite direction to your partner, with the penetrating partner on top, and thrust away to your heart's content.

    With: Lovehoney Twin Teasers Textured Penis Sleeves (2 Pack)


    3. Spooning

    Not only is it great for cuddling, spooning can be a great position for slow-but-sensational sex. This versatile position is highly enjoyable both with and without penetration, and adding a bullet vibe to the mix can heighten your excitement even more. Use it to explore other erogenous zones like the nipples or stomach.

    How: Curl around your partner and grind your hips together. If you're not penetrating them, try sliding your penis between their legs or ass cheeks for a different thrill.

    With: Lovehoney Power Play 10 Function Bullet Vibrator


        4. Riding Grind/Pole Stroke

        In one corner: the riding grind, a position that combines the intimacy of missionary with the depth of doggy-style. In the other corner: the pole stroke, a non-penetrative position where partners rub their penises together while face to face. Well, don't feel obligated to choose – start out strokin' poles before moving into a hard'n'fast riding grind.

        How: While facing one another, a partner kneels on the other's lap, giving great access for deep penetration or quick frotting. Wear a cock ring to help pump up your staying power if you're planning on making a night of it.

        With: Lovehoney Get Hard Stretchy Silicone Cock Ring Set (3 Pack)


        5. Doggy

        A classic for a reason, doggy-style allows for deep, controlled penetration. If you've ever fantasised about adding a third person to the mix, why not mimic that sensation by adding in a stroker as well? The partner on their knees can become the middle of a highly satisfying sandwich.

        How: One partner gets on all fours – or another comfortable position with their booty in the air – and their partner penetrates them from behind.

        With: Fleshjack Boys Colby Keller Lumberjack Butt


        6. 69

        Bring things right to *ahem* a head with oral for both of you! This is a great way to give what you get: try matching them motion for motion for totally synchronised sensations.

        How: Splash on your fave flavoured lubricant, then lie on your side opposite your partner and pleasure them orally.

        With: Lovehoney Cherry Flavoured Lubricant


        7. Rimming

        Speaking of oral, it doesn't all have to be about the peen. The entrance to the anus is full of sensitive nerve endings that can feel amazing when licked and sucked.

        If you're someone who chooses to douche before playing, we recommend doing so at least an hour before you get started so you can relax and enjoy the moment.

        How: Make sure you're clean and comfortable, apply a little flavoured lube, and enjoy.

        With: BASICS Anal Douche 225ml


        8. Butt and Grind

        If you're someone who likes to see the results of your handy work, this is the position for you. Whether you're penetrating your partner or rubbing against them, you've got a great view of your penis at work while you play.

        Add a butt plug or prostate massager to increase the excitement for either (or both) of you.

        How: One partner lays flat on their stomach and the other kneels behind them, sliding their penis between their partner's ass cheeks without penetrating them (at least to begin with).

        With: Lovehoney Booty Buddy Silicone Butt Plug


        9. Mutual Masturbation

        You've probably wanked before and chances are you've got some special moves you use to drive yourself over the edge. Well, sharing is caring. In this position, you can use your personal favourite mini stroker or todger-teasing techniques on each other for a smashing shared session.

        How: Settle into a comfortable position side by side and tease their cock with your hands or favourite toys.

        With: Tracey Cox EDGE Good Head Mini Stroker


        10. Reverse Cowboy

        Lean back and let your lover ride your rod. You can wear a vibrating cock ring to add vibrations that you can both enjoy, or they can wear one to add even more pleasure to their experience – or, for maximum oomph, you could both wear one.

        How: Sit or lie in a comfortable position. Your partner, facing away from you, lowers themselves onto your penis and controls the depth and speed with their hips.

        With: Lovehoney Bionic Bullet 5 Function Vibrating Cock Ring

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    Comments (28)

    • Kevin: June 23, 2019 13:53
      What is the best move
    • Lee mason: August 08, 2019 11:50
      These positions are great!
    • David simmo: December 19, 2019 09:18
      69 and butt and grind for me
    • Nick: December 28, 2019 13:39
      Wow I’m feeling horny! Can’t wait to see my lover tonight! Think we’ll start with a number 9 from the list, then I’ll surprise him, take control and move to a number 4. Throw in a number 10 maybe then curl up and go to sleep in a number 3. He’ll be well blown by the time I finish lol!!
    • Lee Mason: December 28, 2019 13:49
      He’s a lucky guy Nick!
      Sorry Deano, I’m in the UK unfortunately mate ??

      I want to try all the positions ??

    • Jack: January 02, 2020 20:17
      Lee mason you want to try all of them ? ??
    • Adam: January 26, 2020 21:32
      I want to try number 2 and 8
    • Andrew H: February 22, 2020 07:23
      Spooning, rimming, and 69, are my favourites for relaxation it's definitely the spooning as your holding your partner close to your chest and think about our love for each other it's wonderful
    • Lee Mason: March 01, 2020 16:30
      Hi Adam
      Like you I want to try 2 and 8 but 10 intrigued me as well.

    • Paul cox: March 22, 2020 16:15
      Tried rimming last night with my new partner absolutely loved it best ive had
    • Ben: March 31, 2020 19:48
      Spooning is best ??
    • Paul G: April 11, 2020 13:19
      Love to try them all
    • Kevin mather: May 23, 2020 15:47
      Is there any more positions for gay men and any more advice
    • Adrian Dunbar: June 02, 2020 03:11
      I would love to try every position there xx
    • Zeeshan: June 03, 2020 03:53
      Always love doggy style but I wnna try all
    • Gary: June 13, 2020 21:41
      positions 1 3 6 9 - yes you have guessed it all about the penis - frotting is best. think
    • Zeeshan: June 15, 2020 04:34
      Last night I try spooning with my love amazing
    • Adi: June 24, 2020 02:36
      I am a sissy virgin and would love to try every position there
    • gary: June 24, 2020 06:42
      To be honest I am virgin too- just hadn't got the guts you have to admit it - realise I have been missing out so much - but the future awaits !
      Great to finally admit to myself - I am gay.
    • Jd8899: June 27, 2020 17:41
      Nice postitons
    • Adi: July 01, 2020 10:15
      I am wearing knickers now so would love all positions done on me ????
    • Elliott: July 05, 2020 18:40
      Small spoon after a busy day... awesome..
      But tried a few the other positions too..

    • Gordon Mackie: July 12, 2020 19:19
      Reverse Cow Boy is best watching him bouncing up and down.
      Yea not seeing the delight on his face is a shame however listening to his moans and sexual growns sure makes up for it
    • I agree with you hun xx: July 15, 2020 06:00
      I agree with you hun xx
    • Matthew: July 15, 2020 08:11
      Wow, can't wait to try some of these positions with my boyfriend!! Positions 3,4,5,6 and 8 are the ones I can't wait to try!!!
    • Ray Cross: July 16, 2020 23:18
      I love number 8 because you can go to and from doggy style with ease
    • Claire Elverson: August 29, 2020 01:54
      I hate to sound dumb but what is mlm relationship mean?
    • Andy: October 04, 2020 22:11
      I'm a virgin love looking at they positions all I need is a man to practice with well UP for it lol xxx