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4 Sexy Things To Try Before You Graduate

4 Sexy Things To Try Before You Graduate

I love trying new things sexually. Love it.

There’s no denying the thrill of a first time in any sexual activity, and not just the quintessential ‘First Time’.

There is nothing wrong with a bit of experimentation, be it a tweak on something you already do, or an extreme step if you are the more adventurous type.

Since I have dabbled in various experiences sexually - some just once, some which have become a favourite thing of mine - I thought I’d share with you the four things I view as being fun, accessible for all experiences.

Uni is the perfect time to experiment and find out even more about what you enjoy in (and out) of the bedroom, so make the most of this period of excitement and freedom!

Hopefully you’ll be brave enough to give one of them a go, no matter your relationship status.

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Why Everyone Should Own A Realistic Dildo

Why Everyone Should Own A Realistic Dildo

As someone who has owned and used sex toys for the majority of their sexually active years, I am a huge advocate of all types of toy and see no problem in possessing and enjoying them.

With such a large range on the market, there truly is a toy out there for everyone.

That being said, as the title of this article suggests, I am here to shout loud and proud about the fabulousness that is:

The realistic dildo.

Although many people would consider this a toy box staple, there are many others who are yet to be convinced.

Why does it have to look so realistic? Surely if it doesn't vibrate, it's not worth it? Why does it have balls?

Well, I'm here to enlighten you as to why these toys deserve a place in everyone's bedside drawer.

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The Top Anal Sex Myths: Debunked!

Top Anal Sex Myths Debunked

Anal sex is a divisive topic. Some people love it, some people hate it and some people just dare not try it.

If you have already formed your opinion of love, hate or meh through having a go at it, then by all means, you do you and continue to enjoy or avoid anal sex at your whim!

However, if you are someone who has yet to step into the waters, have a think about why you haven't made that leap.

Is it because you feel you need more education before making the decision to say yes? Is it because you've heard rumours of horror stories and are now vehemently put off? Or perhaps you just don't see how it could be pleasurable?

If you answered 'yes' to any of those questions, then here I am to offer some help and debunk common anal sex myths and misconceptions...

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5 Signs You Shouldn't Go Home With Them

5 Signs You Shouldnt Go Home With Them

Instant attraction can be a wonderful thing. You lock eyes, there's an instant frisson that gets your heart pumping, and you begin to wonder what it would be like to take things further.

With consent and safety precautions in place (these are of the utmost importance, especially when dealing with someone who is essentially a stranger), there is no reason you two can’t enjoy a night of mutual fun.

However, even if they appear to be exactly the kind of person you're looking for, that doesn’t necessarily mean that going home with them is the best idea. I know that with hormones high, especially if it has been a while since your last sexual encounter, there is a temptation to ignore the signs and throw caution to the wind.

Unfortunately, this could end in a disappointing evening in some way. It can be hard to take a step back and evaluate the situation logically, but watching out for these warning signs will hopefully nip any potential for disappointment or disaster in the bud…

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Want to Become a Sexting Pro? Here's How!

Lovehoney Student Sex Advice

We’ve all had those moments where we aren’t physically with someone, but we can’t help but think of all the sexy things we’d love to be doing with them right then.

Whether it’s a partner of years or just someone really hot who you’re casually talking to, the urge to get them as turned on as you are is an exciting thought.

Sexting is an awesome tool for setting the mood and making your intentions known. However, not all of us are pros at this particular activity, and expressing yourself sexually via the written word can often come less naturally than expression in physical form.

It has been a learning curve from when I first started engaging in sexting a few years ago, but as someone who feels they have come a long way and become more comfortable over time, here are my top ten do’s and don’ts to make sexting an exciting, enjoyable and non-intimidating experience every time.

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Waiting For Sex: Does the 3-Date Rule Still Apply?

Waiting for Sex Does the Three Date Rule Still Apply

We all know there are supposedly those unspoken 'rules' regarding sex and dating, and while some of us subscribe to them, others regard them as a complete fallacy.

Even for those that have no interest in restricting themselves and their love lives to those imaginary rules, the topic of "when should I?" pertaining to sex can often make one pause for thought.

But in a world much changed from what it was a mere few decades ago, we have to wonder if these beliefs are still relevant.

Casual and non-traditional relationships are much more widely accepted, and being open about individual sexual needs without necessarily needing a relationship has become as easy as clicking a button on your phone.

So, is it still 'best practice' to wait 3 dates before sleeping with someone you want a relationship with?

The best way I can express my views on the matter is to take you through some of my past experiences and their varying results…

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