Sex Positions

Benny was a bottom for years before he really had that 'wow' moment with anal sex.* “I came out at 19 and started sleeping with guys around then,” he explains. “I did some self-experimentation and anal was always just… nice enough. Not amazing but not awful.”

It wasn’t until he took his pleasure into his own hands, exploring his sexuality in a safe environment and taking more control in the bedroom, that he discovered how great anal sex could be. He says, “finally [I had] one of those mind-blowing orgasms, to the point where I thought to myself: Good Lord! I’ve been doing sex wrong!”

No matter what kind of sex you’re having or how seasoned you are, safely exploring new things will keep your sex life fresh and full of pleasure. So, whether you’re looking for anal penetration positions to spice up your sex life or guidance for your first time, you’ll find tips and techniques right here.

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Get ready to ride: this steamy sex position is a classic for a reason. Offering total control for the partner on top, incredible views for the partner underneath and deep penetration for both of you, the Reverse Cowgirl is a whole lot of fun. It’s also much simpler than it sounds.

And if you thought this position was just for heterosexual penis-in-vagina sex, think again: Reverse Cowgirl can be reimagined for all couples and genders — and tailored with toys to stimulate your favourite hot spots. So, let’s get into all the dirty details… Giddy up!

Here’s a sex position that’ll have you both looking like a snack: it’s the Pretzel! A tasty treat for you and your partner, this move is just as delicious and not nearly as complicated as it sounds; an easy twist on the classic Missionary position.

Occasionally known by true connoisseurs as the Pretzel Dip, the Pretzel sex position is well worth a try if you’re looking for the deep penetration of Doggy Style with extra intensity thanks to steamy eye contact. Oh, and angles that give good, solid G-spot stimulation. Tick, tick and tick!

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Fantasising about having sex with a woman, watching lesbian porn, and actually having sex with a woman are all pretty different things. Plus, every woman you have the pleasure of… well, pleasuring, has a unique body and desires.

So, whether you’re a baby queer discovering sex as a gay woman for the first time, or a vagina veteran in need of some fresh inspiration, welcome. With new techniques and sex positions in your repertoire, you’ll get an even better understanding of your and your partner’s pleasure… keeping the honeymoon period going and going.