Position of the Week: Dinner Date

by Emma

on 16 Feb 2024

Position of the Week: Dinner Date

This dinner date is set to put any restaurant meal or take-away to shame. Dive headfirst into a delicious cuisine that specialises in one partner receiving incredible oral sex and the other partner being put in charge of wowing their lover with a whole new kind of service etiquette.


The receiving partner lies on their back with both legs raised up, using their hands to support their lower back. The giving partner kneels with their knees facing the receiving partner’s shoulders. They lean forwards so that their face is between their lover’s legs and places their hands on their partner’s waist for support.


Dinner Date is up there with one of the most rewarding oral sex positions for both partners. The increased intimacy opens the receiving partner up to be fully ravished with attention. It also invites the giving partner to taste, learn and explore what licks, sucks and caresses give their lover sensational pleasure.


Why not enhance the pleasure platter with an oral sex condiment such as flavoured lubricant? With so many delicious flavours on offer, you’re sure to find one that makes your dining experience extra mouth-watering.

Make it easier

If you or your partner uses a mobility aid, this position can be easily adapted to have both partners lying fully on their backs or seated. Just make sure to have plenty of lubricant close by, so you’re not fumbling around when you’re ready to play.

Make it even better

Although one partner is very much on the receiving end of intense pleasure in this position, it doesn’t mean that the other partner can’t jump onboard the orgasm wagon too. A clitoral suction stimulator or male masturbator is brilliant for stimulating your external and internal arousal areas. You could also pop in a vibrating butt plug for some truly amazing anal pleasure.

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We're working to make sure that everyone is represented on our website, regardless of who you love, so we'll be using a variety of gender depictions in our Position of the Week posts. This will include straight, gay, lesbian, and gender neutral couples, but all positions will have details in the description of how to make them work for your own relationship dynamic.

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Written by Emma. Lovehoney Editorial Team
Emma joined Lovehoney in 2022 and is the content team’s Welsh writing wizard. Emma is passionate about gender inclusivity and loves learning about all things lingerie and sex toys. Emma pens the ever-popular ‘Position of the Week’ blogs and can often be found pondering the length of a King Cock dildo.

Originally published on 16 Feb 2024. Updated on 15 Jan 2021