Position of the Week: Babe Bendover

by Violet

on 30 Jun 2023

The Babe Bendover is a strap-on sex position perfect for those looking to add a touch of power play into their usual antics. Not only can you achieve incredibly deep penetration, but the giver gets one heck of a VIP view all-session-long.

Babe Bendover


The receiver stands with their back to the giver, who then penetrates them with the strap-on dildo. The giver holds their partner’s hips while the receiver leans forward onto their hands, putting their legs behind their partner’s.


The giver runs the show and is in complete control of the depth of penetration, angle and pace - they can also stop or slow down to edge their partner towards ecstasy.


Introducing a mirror while getting down to it is a quick and effortless way to up the spice factor. Not only do you get to see your bodies from a whole new perspective, but the added visual element could really push you over the edge.

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Written by Violet. Lovehoney Editorial Team
Violet joined Lovehoney's writing team in 2019 as our lingerie aficionado.
Violet is also an avid sex toy collector and co-host of The Sexual Happiness Podcast

Originally published on 30 Jun 2023. Updated on 21 Jul 2022