Position of the Week: Lazy Lovers

by Emma

on 13 Oct 2023

Lovehoney - Position of the Week - Lazy Lovers

Laid-back mornings are made even better with Lazy Lovers. Perfect for a weekend lie-in, this position allows you to get up close and personal with your lover. While they are granted direct access for penetration, you hold on tightly to their hands, controlling the pace of your play.


The giving partner lies on their back with their legs spread. Facing the opposite direction, the receiving partner squats over their lover and then lies on their back between their legs with their feet on either side of their arms. The receiving partner can use their feet as leverage to thrust, while the giving partner holds their lover’s hands to support their body weight during penetration.


Lazy Lovers allows you to effortlessly connect with your partner, by positioning you perfectly between their legs for easy access to their most intimate areas. Since your heads are at opposite ends, this position is a fantastic way to even out any height and weight differences.


If the receiving partner has a penis, they can use a vibrating stroker to match the thrusts and mimic oral pleasure. If the receiving partner has a vulva, they can try using a bullet vibrator for external arousal while the giving partner takes care of internal stimulation.

Make it even better

Loop your lover into the fun by giving them a toy to play with, too. A vibrating butt plug is great for adding a backdoor buzz to the mix, while a vibrating cock ring can send sensations soaring for both of you.

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Written by Emma. Lovehoney Editorial Team
Emma joined Lovehoney in 2022 and is the content team’s Welsh writing wizard. Emma is passionate about gender inclusivity and loves learning about all things lingerie and sex toys. Emma pens the ever-popular ‘Position of the Week’ blogs and can often be found pondering the length of a King Cock dildo.

Originally published on 13 Oct 2023. Updated on 17 Oct 2023