Spareparts Hardwear Theo Strap-on Harness

This was my first harness purchase, and I uhm'ed and ah'ed over it for ages. Of course it's expensive in comparison to other 'similar' products, but you know what... it's worth every penny!

I love the design. As an FtM transguy the overly feminine designs are often over the top. The cinches are brilliant, meaning that you don't have to readjust all the straps every time you want to put it to use. The construction is sturdy and of excellent quality, and the ring is superbly made. I really couldn't find fault with this product, even if asked to.

I was concerned before it arrived that it would be bulky, but it really isn't. I was concerned also that being quite small around the waist, it would be obvious that the harness had extra material, but it's all kept neatly tucked away behind the scenes to the point where I couldn't actually tell you how much extra it could be let out. Oh, and if you'd prefer not to have the little pearl button things never fear, you can just unclip them upon its arrival!

I've been using my latest Cyberskin purchase from Lovehoney in the harness, and it's like it was made for it. It sits perfectly in the pouch and ring and against your body. I honestly couldn't be more pleased with this harness.

Fast delivery (as usual from LH). Having been frustrated with our first harness and dildo kit - which to be fair was a bit of a cheapie - we decided to invest in a decent quality item.

It was immediately obvious that this harness was indeed very good quality. My wife put it on and straightaway looked incredibly sexy.

After a bit of fiddling we sussed out the adjustments. One particularly good feature is the main size can be set then left unchanged when putting it on and off. Just a simple but effective tensioning system holds it in place.

She reports it's very comfortable with no problems like chafing or rubbing etc. In use it supported our new Tantus Silk dildo very well and proved very easy for my wife to "steer" in the desired direction.

We actually got the plus sized but there is heaps of slack left in the straps so I assume we would have been okay with the standard. We will probably cut off the excess as they are unnecessary.

I reluctantly bought this product after reading the glowing reviews and thinking to myself if it's that good it must be worth the price tag but...

I was wrong :(...

On receipt I thought looks good, looks comfy and couldn't wait to try it out with my fiancé BUT...

Looks can be deceiving...

It was comfortable to wear, even under day to day clothes. In fact you forget you're even wearing it. That I must say is the only positive - but it's not for fashion it's for PERFORMANCE!

When trying it out with Wildfire Realistic European cock With Balls we found it very disappointing

The harness did not provide control or stability when in action and sadly was a major letdown in the bedroom.

One thing I want when I buy an item at this price is to feel like the strap-on and harness is a part of me, we are one, and this my friends does not achieve this whatsoever.

I reverted back to my £30 harness which provides synchronicity between my movements and when penetrating my fiancé.

I have to stay it when using the spare parts it really made sex feel like we were to amateurs who didn't know what went where, and everything was upside down, inside out and backwards.

Final words I would never recommend this product, sorry guys.

Thank god for Lovehoney's returns policy, it's gone back in the post today.