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The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio by Violet Blue
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Fantastic Read - Greatly Improved My Game
Reviewed: 19 March 2016 by r00die
Before getting this book I wasn't a complete novice, but I knew there was something there that needed improving as I have never been able to make my partner cum during oral sex. In fact, if I'm perfectly honest, I didn't spend a lot of time down there (poor guy).
If I am honest, I bought this book on a whim one day and wasn't sure that it would help me at all as a lot of books I have read are more pictures than substance. I am telling you now - Best whim ever!
I really enjoyed reading it - I was learning new things and putting them into action to great effect! Every time my partner caught me reading it after the first couple of chapters he got this goofy grin on his face. I now am more confident giving head and because I can see him enjoying it more I certainly am happy to give him pleasure this way.
'The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio' is informative, thought provoking, funny and a well-rounded guide to giving head, I would certainly recommend it to anyone - already have to my friends.
Buy it - you won't regret a thing!
- Funny, informative, thoughtful, factual, easy to read.
- Bottom line
- Does what it says on the tin!
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Reviewed: 01 November 2015 by Bananase, a Bisexual Single Female
A coherent and informative take on a difficult-to-approach subject.
As a complete beginner with all-things-penis, this allowed me to blow my boyfriend's mind with my preemptive skills. He couldn't believe it was my first time!
I honestly don't know what I'd have done if not for this book; it prepared me for an unfamiliar world in a friendly and interesting manner.
There are so many techniques and strategies to go about pleasuring a man that I never knew about!
- Informative, to-the-point, interesting.
- No faults!
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The Ultimate Guide indeed
Reviewed: 22 December 2014 by margaret.t, a Bisexual Going Steady Female
I was kindly asked to review this book by the Lovehoney team and - it took a while, but here it is, finally.
Why did it take me so long? Because I really wanted to breathe the book in, to feel it with my own and through my partner's body. And that's something no one can have enough of.
But let me start from the top.
Cleis Press is the publishing house behind most of the sexuality, sex education, LGTB and erotic literature on the market. They represent notorious authors such as Tristan Taormino, Violet Blue and many others. I would truly recommend any of their books and am inpatient to get yet another one of their best-selling titles!
Violet Blue has many books in the sex guide genre under her belt, and all of them are received very positively and passionately by the audience. And there is a reason!
The book is written in such a non-intimidating and honest way, with such ease, wit and style, that it can't leave you aloof. Truly intriguing and passionate, yet informative and thorough!
This is the second edition of the book and it has been issued in 2010. I have to say that almost everything is still up to date! It's 250 pages, paperback, plain paper, almost no illustrations - so you really get a lot to read, and learn! No chit-chatting!
I have to admit that when I received the book to review I thought "Hmmm, do I really need this? What possibly could I learn? Is there something that I don't know?" After all I am not a teen, I've been going down on men for more than 10 years, and it's a truly beloved part of my sexual repertoire! And I've been told I was doing it remarkably well! It turned out that there were some things that I didn't know, and that could help me take my oral performance to the next level!
This is just the ideal book for beginners, but even if you've done it many times, on many partners, for many years - chances are there are still some tricks you don't know, you haven't thought of or were reluctant to try. I would recommend this book not just to rookies, but for anyone who thinks there is some room left for improvement.
The first chapter is definitely an introductory one and covers your and your partner's emotions, fears, attitudes and how to get more comfortable to get or give fellatio. Then there are chapters just for men that address hygiene, grooming and many other concerns, and an anatomy lesson, and not a boring classroom one, but very practical and easy to take in. STDs and health risks are widely covered as well.
There are plenty of ideas and techniques on how to start exploring the world of oral sex, if you've never gone down on a man - strap on fellatio, experimenting with your own fingers, etc.
The book teaches, in a very sex-positive way, how to communicate with our partner, how to build trust, how to move forward in our sexual encounters, it definitely doesn't just focus on the mechanical part. Oral sex has a huge emotional and psychological component (as any other form of intimacy) and so does this book. Anything that has ever crossed your mind - will be probably inside.
It gives you tons of tips for foreplay, erotic massages, handjobs, deep throating, rimming, prostate stimulation, anal penetration, power exchange, temperature play, and a glimpse on BDSM, incorporating some sex toys in your oral sex routine.
It goes even further - the author shares dozens of useful links, resources, videos and further literature for you to explore.
There are two trademarks of this book: readers' quotes - thoughts and experiences people had and shared with the author. They're a little like the Lovehoney forum or reviews we value so much. Sometimes it's just nice to hear that others feel the same way as we do! The second "bonus" you get with the book is the erotic sex stories by Alison Tyler after each chapter. Mmm, they did get me off and I blame it on some that this review came so late.
Reading this book will be hard because you will get so excited and even horny at times, that all you will want to do is give oral pleasure to your partner. And isn't this one of the main goals of such guide? Teaching you to have pleasure by giving pleasure!
This book made me love fellatio even more, and I didn't even think such thing was possible!
P.S. And I am looking forward to getting the Cunnilingus one by the same author! Yum!
- Language: open, positive, appealing and non-intimidating! Deep and meaningful!
- Takes off slowly, but you might just skip some parts if you know them.
- Bottom line
- The most thorough A to Z book on fellatio. No chicklit malarkey.
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