Gender-Neutral Sex Toys for Every Body

Gender-Neutral Sex Toys for Every Body

by Eleni Gabrielides

on 19 Jun 2019

Gender Neutral Sex Toys for Every Body

I've been very excited about the move towards creating gender-free and adaptable toys – making gender-neutral sex toys allows pleasure to be accessible to everybody, and broadens the scope of possible experiences.

Giving people the room to explore, unbound by labels or inaccessibility, allows them to prioritise self-love, pleasure and exploration on their own terms.

A little while ago, resident Lovehoney sexperts Jess Wilde and Annabelle Knight produced a fantastic video showcasing some Gender-Neutral Sex Toys for Every Body. It gives plenty of inspiration on how toys can be adapted or used differently to suit different people.

As a pansexual gal, body-neutral toys are a fantastic way for me to create a collection that can be used (safely, with condoms) with any and all of my partners, including myself. It’s also really important to me that my toys don’t resemble genitals to ensure that future partners are never put off by having unwanted body parts in their sexy space.

Here are 5 of my top picks.

1. G-Spot Vibrator

      Mantric Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator

      Mantric Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator

      It may look and sound gender-specific, but hear me out. This toy is SO much more than its name. The silicone is ultra-soft, making it an absolute pleasure to glide over the skin, on any part of the body.

      The 7 vibration settings can stimulate the nipples, neck, ears, clitoris, thighs, balls, bum, and so much more! NEXT, you can penetrate with this toy. Not only is its curve the perfect shape for G-spot stimulation, it also has a flared base which makes it safe for butt play and prostate stimulation. The base also gives it a mechanism to attach to a harness for strap-on play. This toy is adaptable, orgasmic and life-changing.

      What you say:

      "Honestly, this is by far the best vibrator I've ever owned." - Dirtywife

2. Bullet Vibrator

      Rocks Off Rainbow 7 Function Bullet Vibrator

      Lovehoney Power Play 10 Function Bullet Vibrator

      The classic bullet is a staple for me, and was my first ever sex toy! I am forever grateful for its existence. This little dynamite is the perfect addition to any kind of play for added external stimulation.

      Like the G-spot vibe, this toy can rumble over any inch of skin and send you to the heavens. The 10 different settings are enough to suit anyone with... well, skin! Don't be fooled by its size, it packs a punch and is small enough to slip between bodies or into a pair of knickers.

      What you say:

      " Great for anyone, this can be used everywhere on the body. Everyone should have one of these!" - A person with a vagina

3. Butt Plug

      Tracey Cox Supersex Beginner's Butt Plug

      Tracey Cox Supersex Beginner's Butt Plug

      This petite, candy-pink butt plug makes me so, so happy. It's super cute and speaks to the millennial princess in my soul.

      Also, I can use it to introduce all of my lovers to butt stuff, because it's perfect for beginners. Sure, the pink may not be for everyone but I like it, and butt stuff, and putting it in other people's butts.

      What you say:

      " It is lovely and soft and a great size for those wanting to explore anal play for the first time." - nikki0621

4. Bondage Tape

      Lovehoney Red Bondage Tape

      Lovehoney Red Bondage Tape

      As far as I'm aware, I feel like most forms of BDSM are/can be gender neutral. At the very least, any kind of bondage can be performed with any kind of body. For me, this tape is a very approachable style of bondage and it's all because of the self-adhesive design.

      You read right, this tape doesn't stick to anything else except itself. No skin pulling, hair ripping or furniture-marking with this toy. Plus, it's reusable after a quick wash with warm water and soap. The tape is big enough to wrap around any body part so can be used as a restraint or as an entire outfit.

      What you say:

      "Such a versatile thing, restraints, toy holders, blindfolds, gags. It does it all, plus there's no pulled hairs or sticking to anything it shouldn't." - lmbbml

5. Nipple Suckers

      Lovehoney Perfect Pair Silicone Nipple Suckers

      Lovehoney Perfect Pair Silicone Nipple Suckers

      PSA: nipples need more attention. Anyone with nipples (most of the population) can enjoy this gorgeous pair to create extra sensitivity, increased circulation, nipple erection and even a big "O".

      I really like this set because it's not as intimidating to look at as nipple clamps, but does a similar job. They're cute, fun and a great way to explore a new sensation.

      What you say:

      " Great for solo play! Felt pleasure straight away. Give it a little squeeze and if you want a more intense suck all you've to do is squeeze a little harder for intense pleasure!" - amygirlo96

Eleni is a health communications student from Sydney. Her favourite topics to communicate are sexual health, gender and sexuality; she spends her time smashing taboo topics everywhere she goes.

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Originally published on 19 Jun 2019. Updated on 5 Aug 2020