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8 Best Sexy Card Games for Couples
Phones are switched off, candles are lit, and you’re enjoying a cosy night in together. But what next? Whether you’re newly dating or comfortably cuffed up, adult card games are a playful way to build trust and reconnect as a couple, especially when that spark needs a little kindling.
In this round up of the best sexy card games for couples, you’ll find loads of ideas for your next date night – from exploring new sex positions and practicing dirty talk to trying light bondage. Each of these couple’s games has been highly rated and thoroughly reviewed by Lovehoney customers to bring you only the best in the game.
It's easy to overthink foreplay sometimes. We don’t always know what to do or how to make it feel fun, sexy, and natural. With a good sex game, you can explore new things together in a low stakes way – whether it leads to laughter, foreplay, or simply enjoying intimacy without sex.
In this article, you’ll find sexy games for:
Exploring new positions: Lovehoney Oh! Kama Sutra Playing Cards
Slowly turning up the heat: Monogamy: A Hot Affair Game
New couples getting to know each other: Lovehoney Oh! 52 Weeks of Date Nights Cards
Practicing your dirty talk: Lovehoney Oh! Talk Dirty Playing Cards
Exploring oral sex: Oral Fun Board Game
Building trust and connection: School of Life Compatibility Game
Trying light bondage: Lovehoney Oh! Hot Knots Game
Throwing in your weekend bag: Sexy 6 Foreplay Dice Game
Try something new together
With the mood set and no distraction, you're ready to get sexy and playful! Here, you’ll find our customers’ top-rated couples’ card games, board games, and dice games.
We’ve chosen eight games across different categories, so you can find one that suits your relationship stage. With spicy prompts, dares, and playful challenges built in, each of these couple’s games turns you on and the pressure off.
Best for exploring new positions
Shuffle the deck and take turns drawing from 52 Kama Sutra-inspired sex positions, each illustrated clearly so you can follow along with confidence. Whether you turn it into a flirty card game or simply flick through for inspiration, you might discover a position that changes your usual rhythm, deepens eye contact, or quickly becomes a new favourite.
What customers say: "Very hot demonstration photos on the cards! My partner and I thought we had already tried a lot of positions, but this gave us so many more to experiment with. Fun to play games with the cards, or just to flick through them."
Best for slowly turning up the heat
This adult board game builds arousal by guiding you through three levels of intimacy, starting with playful prompts before progressing into more daring challenges. Roll the dice, move around the board, and draw cards that might ask you to share a fantasy, give a teasing massage, or explore a new sensation together. The gradual escalation makes it a great choice for when you want to increase your confidence, deepen connection, and let the tension simmer rather than rush straight in.
What customers say: "My wife and I enjoyed the challenges and thought-provoking questions... This is definitely a game you will want to play over and over. Highly recommended for couples ready to take their relationship to the next level!"
Best for new couples getting to know each other
This deck of date night cards sparks meaningful conversations to help you get to know each other better. Take turns drawing a card and answering prompts that might explore your past, your values, your turn-ons, or what intimacy means to you. It’s a low-pressure way to build trust, especially for new couples who want to connect before things heat up.
What customers say: "They’re interactive and unique in their concept... Many of the cards will reignite your childhood excitement and joy, with the ideas of building forts and having indoor picnics in front of the TV... It’s lovely not always having to think of things to do yourself!"
Best for practicing your dirty talk
If you’ve ever wanted to try dirty talk but find yourself lost for words, this couples card game gives you the prompts to help build your confidence. Arranged like a standard pack of cards, the phrases range from beginner-friendly to more daring as you move through the suits. Take turns drawing a card and saying the line, acting out the instruction, or combining a few to create your own scenario. Find the words that feel right for you, experiment with tone and let your confidence grow naturally.
What customers say: "I played this with my partner a I don’t know when I’ve had so much fun playing cards! Both of us were winners and loved it anytime we “lost”. Just reading them brought a fabulous spark!"
Best for exploring oral sex
This couples' board game puts oral pleasure front and centre, mixing adult trivia with frisky, task-based challenges. Roll the dice and move around the board, landing on squares that invite you to answer a cheeky question or complete a teasing prompt. The variety keeps each turn feeling unpredictable, while the race to the final square builds anticipation with every move. It’s a light-hearted way to focus on giving and receiving, keeping your play exciting right up until you’re ready to take it further.
What customers say: "There is a lot of variety in the cards which keeps every turn feeling fresh and the games always last just long enough that you are dying to move things to the next level... The board, cards and play pieces are all high quality, which you sometimes can’t guarantee for sex games."
Best for building trust and connection
A thoughtful, conversation-led game that gives you and your partner space to talk about what shapes your relationship. You might be surprised by what you discover – whether it’s shared fantasies, different ways of handling stress, or surprising similarities you hadn’t noticed before. For more established couples in long-term relationships, this helps open up and have honest conversations in a fun, structured way.
What customers say: "If you're looking for a light-hearted dinner party game, or something to "get you in the mood", this probably isn't it. Instead, this is a really good 'deep conversation starter' with someone new or even a partner of many years. The instructions give you several ways to play, and the simple yet provoking statements on the cards makes it easy to self reflect."
Best if you’re new to bondage
If you're curious about bondage but unsure where to start, this beginner-friendly card game will give you a bit of structure. Once you’ve read the safety guide, you take turns drawing from the 52-card deck and act out the suggested scenarios, using the included satin blindfold and adjustable ties. You can even introduce power swaps with the ‘Switch’ cards. A low-pressure, non-intimidating option for couples interested in exploring light restraint or sensory deprivation.
What customers say: "This was our first time sticking our toes in the BDSM pool! Really good fun and great to get you talking to each other about what you enjoy. Tried a couple of new things which was what we were hoping for. Great value for money. Worth a go :)"
Best dice game for a sexy weekend away
Small enough to slip into your suitcase, this set of six love dice encourages spontaneous foreplay fun during your steamy holidays. You roll all six dice at once to decide who’s in charge, what you’ll be doing, where, and how, with up to 720 possible foreplay combinations to keep your play unpredictable. With the potential to land on slow kisses in the kitchen or playful teasing in the bathroom depending on your roll, it’s a beginner-friendly way for couples looking to make their foreplay last longer.
What customers say: "My partner and I bought these a bit sceptical as to how dice can spice up your sex life. But these little gems gave us an excellent night of foreplay, hitting a different outcome every time to keep things interesting! Great for couples or just to spice things up, would definitely recommend!"
One of the best things you can do for your relationship is to be intentional about quality time. It shows your partner that they’re a priority for you – and deepens your connection as you share positive experiences together. Here, you’ll find tips for having the best date nights.
Schedule regular date nights
According to Annabelle Knight, our sex and relationships expert, anticipating sex can make it even more enjoyable. That’s why she actually recommends scheduling sex – no matter how unsexy that might sound!
“Plan [sex], get it in your diary, and earmark it as a sexy special time,” Annabelle says. “That will build positive anticipation, releasing lots of feel-good chemicals and making you feel extra special and sexy when that moment finally happens.” Planning a regular date night also means intimacy won’t feel rushed or left to chance.
Connect without screens
If you’ve made the effort to plan a night in, give each other your full attention. Lovehoney research into how screen time affects intimacy found that 54% of Brits use their phones during dinner, and 10% admit they’d even use them during sex, showing that distractions can creep in more than we realise.
“Phones have quietly become the third wheel in so many relationships,” says Annabelle. When we’re constantly connected to our screens, we disconnect from each other – we stop noticing those small, intimate moments that build closeness.”
Turning screens off for the evening and focusing on each other keeps you in the present moment, which can make sexual experiences feel more intense and satisfying.
Explore all kinds of intimacy
Intimacy isn’t just about sex followed by a quick kiss and rolling over – it’s about feeling heard, safe and physically close with your partner outside the bedroom too. That can mean lingering cuddles, a slow massage, or just sitting together and listening to each other without rushing.
If you’re in a sexless relationship, simply making time for each other and allowing yourselves to be vulnerable by sharing non-sexual intimacy can help build up your emotional and physical intimacy.
And sex doesn’t stop after orgasm, Annabelle remind us. Making sure you talk to your partner, touch them, and sharing what felt good before going to sleep can keep you feeling close long after the moment itself has ended.
Try a sober date night
You might have been looking forward to having a giggle together over a glass of wine all week – and we’re all for it. But we’ve discovered that most Brits find sex more enjoyable when sober. In our research, around half of Brits say they appreciate the moment more (53%) and are more like to orgasm (47%) when sober.
Trying an alcohol-free night in every now and then can make it easier to tune into each other and help build anticipation. It’s the same thinking behind sober dating – connection first, everything else follows.
Try new experiences together
Sometimes a little novelty can go a long way to keep things fresh and fun. A shared experience can shake up your routine and give you something new to laugh about, talk about and look forward to.
Consider activities you might both enjoy, whether that’s a couples sex game and some aphrodisiac chocolates or something more PG like a game of padel or some pottery painting. That sense of discovery can also spark curiosity, which often spills over into your love life in ways that feel playful rather than pressured.
