Mystim Big Bend It E-Stim Prostate Massager and Prober

The Big Bend It is a high quality prostate stimulator made in Germany from super clever medical grade platinum that is not only velvety smooth but also conducts electricity along the sides of its shaft.

The Lovehoney site mentions “two rows of electrical conductors” but doesn’t say where these are or the size (yet!). For those that want a bit more information, basically the left and right hand sides of the bulbous insertable part of the toy have a continuous electrode that runs from the neck before the handle to the tip. These electrodes are fairly wide, which is generally considered favourable in electro stimulation. It also means the handle is not electrified instead it presses into your perineum once fully inserted.

Insertion is super smooth thanks to the great quality silicone and lube. At 7.5 inches long it’s not small in length, but fortunately, combined with the graduated girth and bendable “flex and stay” shaft, is easily manageable. If at first you don’t succeed, you can adjust its curve to fit your anatomy ensuring it presses in the right places. It is quite a firm toy and just from P-spot pressure it is very stimulating. The cleverly shaped handle is extremely ergonomic and offers good control.

The packaging, instructions and after-care are very clear and useful. I would strongly recommend inserting the wires into the toy before inserting the toy as trying to locate two 2mm holes where you can’t see them is extremely tricky!

As the wire plugs are just pressed into the holes, care needs to be taken to ensure the wires don’t get pulled out during play.

The “Bonnie and Glide” lube and the “Godfather” conductivity gel are surprisingly good. It’s just a shame there isn’t more of it in the pack!

The conductivity gel makes a significant difference to the depth of the sensations. I guess it's because the electrodes are on either side and not directly on the prostate the gel bridges the gap and gives better sensation. A whole variety of sensations are achievable from the controller, from a mild tingling to a deep vibrating feel. On pulse modes, muscle contractions mean the toy feels like it is being slid in and out hands-free. As it's a 2mm socket, I would suggest that its compatible with any 2mm estim device - although the instructions state only use original Mystim accessories.

Like most electro stim, it requires some time to get to know what is most enjoyable, but once you find what works for you it is incredible to hand control over to the estim unit and watch the effects.