Top Sex Toys for Disabled Users

The best sex toys for disabled users, as chosen by you.

There's no one-size-fits-all way to experience sexual happiness – and with so many sex toys, bondage items, and sexy accessories at Lovehoney, your path to pleasure is practically endless.

That's why we've gone through a quarter of a million of our customer reviews to find the finest recommendations for differently-abled pleasure.

If you have a disability that makes intercourse, foreplay, or masturbation tricky, you may find one of our top sex toys listed here can enhance your sexual happiness.

Best for: discovering new positions

Bondage Boutique Sex Position Enhancer Chair

By far the toys that receive the highest ratings from our disabled reviewers are position enhancers like this one. Durable and practical, it's usable in many different positions to reduce muscle strain and provide extra bodily support.

What customers say: "I suffer from a chronic pain condition that leaves my muscles and joints feeling stiff and sore, so I am always on the lookout for new ways to both spice up my sex life and ease any associated pain. [...] This seat allowed me to enjoy positions I previously could not enjoy and even allowed me to experiment with entirely new ones."

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Best for: ease of movement

Lovehoney Magic Bullet 10 Function Silver Bullet Vibrator

There should be a bullet in every toy box: these tiny vibrators are light yet powerful enough to thrill almost any external erogenous zone. Battery-powered with one satisfying speed, this bullet is a quick and easy way to amp up foreplay, solo play and sex.

What customers say: "Perfect for those who might struggle with insertable toys because of movement issues or disability, as it can be moved easily with one finger."

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Best for: effective support

DOMINIX Deluxe Sex Position Wedge

This cushion supports your body in pleasurable positions for as long as you need. Equipped with sturdy loops for attaching restraints, the pillow also doubles as a bondage accessory. Its wedge-shaped design lifts the receiving partner's pelvis, placing them in an optimal position for precise stimulation and orgasmic release

What customers say: "It has definitely made different positions easier if your flexibility or muscle strength is not as good. We've also found you can go for longer because you have the support in the position"

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Best for: hands-free stimulation

Lovehoney Venus Butterfly 10 Function Hands-Free Vibrator

Hands-free or remote controlled toys like this one remove the need to press or hold a vibrator in the same position for a long time. Instead, after positioning the toy, you or your partner hold onto an ergonomic remote and explore vibration patterns that are sure to delight.

What customers say: "I suffer with fibromyalgia, which can make it difficult to do much or anything for any length of time, so this you came in handy to keep that spark. [...] This has become an every-time essential."

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Best for: gravity-defying support

Bondage Boutique Deluxe Fetish Spinning Sex Swing

Sex swings take the idea of body support to a whole new level. They're sturdy enough to take your whole body weight and fully adjustable so you can enjoy complete comfort and great sex.

What customers say: "It really helps my wife because she is paralyzed from the waist down. [...] Fixed so many things the day it was hung up I'm not sure I could function right without one! Wouldn't want to."

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Best for: heightened sensations

Lovehoney Ignite Pleasure Balm 30g

If you have reduced sensitivity in some places, then balms like this could be great. Orgasm balms tingle the skin and heighten sensation when applied on sensitive areas like the nipples, the head of the penis, and the clitoris.

What customers say: "I think for anyone with decreased sensitivity (I take strong pain meds which can 'numb' me down there if I get my timing with a sex session wrong), this would help very much - it does for me anyway!"

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Best for: combining bondage with lower body support

Bondage Boutique Plush Sex Position Restraint with Cuffs

A lot of our disabled reviewers haved talked about sex aids that take their weight and let them relax into a position. This is another restraint that does just that – using your own body weight, it lets you raise and keep your legs in the air without the need to strain your muscles to hold them in place.

What customers say: "My arthritis is in my hips & knees, with my back problems to it means a lot of positions are out of the question but this 'restraint' allows you to relax into the position so takes the pressure off your hips & lower back which is a huge help."

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Best for: sensual massages

Lovehoney Oh! Sensual Body Massager

Sensual massages are intimate, relaxing and sensational, and everyone should be able to enjoy giving and receiving them. This handy tool makes it easier to knead your lover's muscles for longer.

What customers say: "If you aren't confident in using your hands when massaging, or if you have problems that stop you using your hands (such as arthritis), then this little beauty is for you."

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Best for: maintaining pelvic strength

We-Vibe X Lovehoney Jive App Controlled Rechargeable Vibrating G-Spot Love Egg

While you enjoy We-Vibe X Lovehoney Jive's sensual stimulation, you can also rest assured that you are toning your pelvic floor at the same time. Choose from 10 rumbly vibration patterns, or hand over the controls to your partner and let them choose the intensity to send you spiralling towards climax

What customers say: "This is definitely the best love egg I own! I’m a massive fan of G-spot toys and this one is wonderfully designed so that it isn’t uncomfortably big, but it still manages to stimulate my G-spot."

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