Doc Johnson TitanMen Intimidator Anal Plug 10 Inch

You know you are getting old when financial considerations play a major part in your choice of sex toys, but when a LH forum member explained that this was so big it would be unlikely you would ever need another toy, well that made perfect sense to me. My baseline anal toy is six inches, the husband's cock is seven. What do I do about increasing the sizes if I so choose without spending a small fortune on separate toys for one inch increments? Enter (ahem) this little beauty.

And it is beautiful. It looks like a little gothic Christmas tree. It's weighty, shiny, smooth and it smelt soooooo good when I got it out of the packet that it was almost a shame to stick it up my bum. But I did anyway: bit of lube up my bum, bit on the toy, and away I went.

I must say, once I had taken the head in for a moment there I thought I had made a terrible mistake and bitten off more than I could chew. This was partially self-inflicted as I've never been very good at doing prep for anal and do just tend to dive straight in. My poor bum was in shock and I just had to crouch there for a while. Once my bum had had a cup of tea and biscuit and generally calmed down, with gentle movement I tentatively was able to get moving, as much grinding as riding. I had been concerned about how I would keep the toy in place without a suction cup, but as it is so heavy on its own there was no chance of it going anyway as I gradually drove it into the mattress.

What followed was a rather exceptional experience of edging with a wand and a whole-body trembling orgasm. By the time I had finished I had somehow slid just over half way down this plug and had a whole new definition of the meaning of the word 'full'.

I might be down over halfway already, but I still imagine it will take me a long time to get all the way down, and even if I did, then I would be in the realms of fisting capability anyway, so no need for further toys. To me, the design in this respect is so very clever and practical and worth it's weight in gold. It's easy to clean as the ridges aren't that deep. It has to live in my underwear drawer as it is so big it can't fit in with the rest of my toys, and it attracts fluff like nobody's business, but I don't care, I love it.

This is a really good buy for experienced anal play and much more comfortable in use than it may appear.

Although it is long, it soon adjusts to the anal muscles and provides a gentle stretch. Not suitable for complete beginners. It's flexibility is its best aspect, in my opinion.

I’m not new to anal. I’ve had it a few months. I have to say since getting this, I am able to take large sized toys now. This is excellent if you love to stretch, or just want to practice and do anal exercise. Which is what I do, as I want to stretch to the base eventually.

I’m a lover of black toys so seeing this when browsing was a must have for me. I have no issues with the material. It is quite heavyweight, so I find that using it in a squatting position works best as it’s weight will keep it grounded for you.