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What Is a Bondage Set

A bondage set, also known as a BDSM kit, is a collection of toys, restraints, blindfolds and other equipment which can help you explore scintillating new sides of your sexuality.

The B in BDSM stands for bondage. So anything that includes tying, restraining or binding yourself or someone else for erotic pleasure.

In full, BDSM stands for ‘bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism’.

But just because you’re curious about bondage doesn’t mean you also have to explore the rest of this provocative acronym. Bondage is a spectrum that you get to set your own limits on.

From gentle, sensual satin ties that’ll hold your curious lover’s hands together, to firm leather cuffs that’ll leave a sub unable to move under your expert touch. BDSM kits let you explore the pleasure of being in, or completely losing, control.

BDSM Kit Options

When it comes to choosing your bondage kit, you’ll want to think about:

The look and feel of the pieces
The exact items you want to play with

If you’re new to BDSM, you may want to try a smaller kit that’s made with softer materials and looks more approachable. A beginner’s BDSM kit will typically include a blindfold, some form of handcuffs, ties or restraints, a feather or light flogger, and maybe even a gag (if you are lucky).

If you’re more experienced, you can find more extensive collections that will include all of the above as well as chastity belts, sex toys, collars and clamps.

These larger kits tend to come in darker colours and stiffer materials for couples or individuals who know exactly what sensation they’re craving and how to go about getting it.

Beginner BDSM Sets

If you’re looking for a beginners’ BDSM set, then you’ve come to the right place. Here are a few recommendations for getting started.

If it’s your first time using bondage:

Avoid tying knots: Stick to ribbons, handcuffs or things that are simple to release. Nothing kills the mood more than someone getting stuck (when they’re not meant to be).
Introduce sensations one at a time. For example, stroke your partner's arm gently whilst they’re blindfolded and see how they respond, before immediately breaking out a flogger.
If coming up with ideas or scenarios is what’s holding you back, then try a kit that includes a game that will help you unleash your kinky side.
The first time you venture outside vanilla, do it with someone you trust - not after a drunken first-hinge date!

Without further ado, here are our top beginner bondage kits:

Lovehoney Oh! Get Started Tie & Tease Kit

Our sexpert-curated Tie & Tease Kit will help you explore bondage and enjoy taking control for the first time.

The silky blindfold and soft bondage restraints are an approachable but effective starter bondage set. Combine that with a feather tickler and the scenarios for the new ways you can stroke, caress, and tease are endless.

Of all our BDSM sets, this is a classy entry into a sensual sexual experience.

Bondage Seductions Sex Game

If the thought of coming up with your own scenarios or suggesting things to your partner is what stops you in your tracks, then look no further. Our seductively simple bondage game has everything you need to get started with BDSM.

Roll the dice and let chance decide whether you'll be spanked, blindfolded or otherwise pleasured.

A soft satin blindfold, 2 black satin restraints and a flogger combined with 36 bondage seduction cards lead to infinite possibilities.

You may even surprise yourself with the sexual sensations you’ll want to try.

Bondage Sets for Couples

Getting a new bondage set is a fabulous way of injecting a spark into your sex life. Bondage sets for couples are the gift that keeps on giving, as you never know when you’ll be in the mood to try a new combination.

If you’re desperate to buy a beginners bondage set but need some tips on bringing up the idea with your partner, look no further than our guide on introducing bondage to your relationship.

Lovehoney Red Hot Passion Couple's Pleasure Kit

This 6-piece starter kit is a great way to start getting kinky in the bedroom for a confident couple. The scuffs and ticklers will leave your body shaking, ready for the nipple clamps and vibrating bullet to take you over the edge.

Did we mention you’ll be blindfolded the whole time as well? Who knows what your partner will think up to do to you next…

Lovehoney All You Need Bondage Kit (20 Piece)

This bumper 20-piece kit is bursting with toys, bondage, and accessories that can take your BDSM journey to the next level.

With all levels of play covered, you can progress one step at a time from bullets and blindfolds to clit clamps and anal beads.

Relish the sound of their muffled moans underneath a breathable ball bag, before taking it off to hear them groan when flogged full force.

The only thing you need to provide is a safe word (and lashings of water-based lube).

Soft Bondage Sets

These soft bondage sets are perfect for anyone who wants to dabble in BDSM, but is a bit put off by the idea of leather and uncomfortable restraints. So whether you’re looking for a beginner bondage set or know from experience you prefer the softer side of BDSM here are our top picks.

Bondage Boutique Midnight Special

If you’re looking for soft bondage, then look no further: we’re talking lace, satin and rose gold with this elegant starter bondage set.

The cuffs are elastic, so a great but approachable way to start experimenting with restraints. Meanwhile, the silky nipple pasties and blindfold give you plenty of fun options to explore stripteases and power play.

The least intimidating, yet most sensual experience you could ask for.

Bondage Boutique Metallic Fantasy Bondage Kit

We made this bondage kit with comfort at the top of our priorities.

Think faux fur, adjustable straps and padded cushiony softness. This three-piece set includes a ball gag, restraints and blindfold that have all been lined with faux fur to create the softest BDSM experience.

A step up from tying your partner up with a shirt or belt - that can still be unfastened with just a rip of Velcro.

Soft, sleek and charming metallic blue to keep things playful.