How to Have Sex in the Shower

How to Have Sex in the Shower

by Lovehoney

on 5 Mar 2019

Everyone has attempted to have sex in the shower or bath before, often with less than desirable results.

The slippery surfaces, awkward angles and lack of space are often contributing factors to shower and bath sex going wrong and, let's face it; no one wants to end up with a cold metal tap becoming lodged in their delicate parts.

With this in mind, we've put together some top tips for making bathroom sex infinitely easier and more enjoyable.

Rub-a-Dub-Dub Dildos in the Tub

BASICS Suction Cup Dildo 6 Inch

One of the best things about shower sex is that wet tiles make playing with suction based toys a doddle.

Simply stick the Lovehoney BASICS 6 Inch Suction Cup Realistic Dildo on the floor or wall of the shower for hands free fun.

We have a range of suction cup toys to choose from, in a range of shapes of sizes. For a really unique experience, treat yourself to Lifelike Lover Ultra Realistic Double Penetrator Suction Cup Dildo - for some bubbly double-trouble!

Getting Heady

Sex in the Shower Waterproof Suction HandcuffsMost women have experimented with using a shower head to masturbate, but did you know that this strong stream of water also feels great for him too? Whilst getting sexy in the shower, adjust the temperature of the water to the perfect level and direct the shower head to the underside of his penis. This will stimulate his sensitive frenulum (the banjo string, to most of us) and also encourage blood flow, giving him a bigger, stronger erection!

Female ejaculation and showers go together like cheesecake and more cheesecake. One of the big factors that hold women back when it comes to squirting is the worry of getting the bed wet and the mental block that accompanies it. By lying down in the bath or standing up in the shower, you can please your G-spot and gush away to your heart's content without needing to worry about the clean up. This Lovehoney Multispeed Slimline G-Spot Vibrator is our favourite toy for G-spot stimulation and luckily it's also waterproof.

Good Clean Fun

Lovehoney Oh! Sex Bomb Sexy Surprise Bath Bomb for HerThink you can't take your vibrator in the bath with you? Think again! There is an amazing range of waterproof vibrators on Lovehoney and some of them are purposely made with your water-based pleasure in mind.

Treat yourself to a pampering session with Sliquid Balance Soak Limoncello Bubble Bath and pop in a Lovehoney Oh! Sex Bomb Sexy Surprise Bath Bomb for Her, which hides a sexy surprise finger vibe for fun in the tub. People with penises may also enjoy the Lovehoney Oh! Sex Bomb Sexy Surprise Bath Bomb for Him, which is hiding a vibrating love ring inside its fizzy delights.

For more power, you can even bring your rabbit underwater with you. The Lovehoney Power Play G-spot Rabbit Vibrator and many others can join you for any aquatic activity.

Keep it Slippery!

Lovehoney Indulge Silicone LubricantWater has a habit of washing away your body's natural lubricants so you'll need something that will keep you wet for your entire sex in the shower session. Silicone lubricants are brilliant for this as they're water resistant and long lasting. Simply dispense a little into your hands and rub into your body.

We love Lovehoney Indulge Silicone Lubricant for staying slick in the shower. Just remember, silicone lubricant and silicone sex toys don't mix!

Need more help?

You can Contact Customer Care, who will be able to help you find the perfect toy. You can send an email, telephone or live chat to an experienced advisor 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

The other great place to look for people's advice on the best sex toys for couples is on the Lovehoney Forum, where our community is on hand 24/7 to give their opinions and tips.

Contact Lovehoney Customer Care | Visit The Lovehoney Forum

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Originally published on 5 Mar 2019. Updated on 27 Aug 2020