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      1. Bondage Boutique Expandable Spreader Bar
      2. Bondage Boutique Expandable Spreader Bar

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    1. Spread 'em

      Reviewed: 05 September 2019 by craig66534, a Straight Married Male

      Arrived on time discreet packaging as always...

      Me and the wife took no time in unboxing and setting this up. This doesn't come with cuffs, but luckily we have our own.

      The way that I can control how far her legs are apart is amazing, and it's so easy to throw the OH around with this. It adds a new level to our sessions.

      We love tying each other up, and this is a very good addition to our collection!

      Would highly recommend.

    2. Overall Rating
      7 out of 10 stars
      Pros
      Quality. Ease of use.
      Cons
      It doesn't come with cuffs.
      Bottom line
      Great product.
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    1. Great intro piece

      Reviewed: 16 March 2018 by Rimmer1234, a Straight Going Steady Male

      This was our first bondage equipment purchase.

      The cuff quality is excellent. But is not as secure as we would like. The cuffs are connected by spinning clasps so movement is not as restricted as we hoped for. This product works best when you buy wrist cuffs to go with it we generally only use when having oral sex as being a little rough it doesn’t hold up.

    2. Overall Rating
      7 out of 10 stars
      Pros
      Cuffs.
      Cons
      Flimsy.
      Bottom line
      A nice addition.
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    1. A bit awkward to use

      Reviewed: 20 February 2015 by Spankers, a Straight Married Male

      This was our first purchase from Lovehoney and was bought as my wife wanted her ankles tied. It certainly got us both in the mood when we found out it had been delivered.

      As our cuffs didn't fit, we used ribbon. This was a bit fiddly and slowed things down a bit.

      It was easy to assemble and strong enough to keep her legs apart, but got in my way whilst going down on her and during sex.

    2. Overall Rating
      7 out of 10 stars
      Pros
      Easy to assemble and store.
      Cons
      Got in the way whilst on the bed.
      Bottom line
      Best used whilst stood up.
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    1. Pleasure Spreader

      Reviewed: 11 February 2015 by LittleSwitchBitch, a Bisexual Married Female

      I put this in my tester list hoping to be picked as we have never tried one, and luckily for m ,I was. Thank you. :)

      Before I continue with the review, I wanted to love this, and I do, but it does have its flaws, and as a result I have found it a hard item to review, so you'll have to bare with me.

      First thing I did was, I ordered cuffs as previous to the bar arriving we never used them. We picked up the beautiful Dominix Braun ones, both ankle and wrist, which arrived with doube-sided clips which are compatible with the bar.

      As all LH deliveries, it arrived well packaged and discreetly sent in a brown box. The bar itself was separated into three pieces, each individually wrapped in bubble-wrap and all wrapped up again together to protect items well in transport.

      After undoing many layers of bubble wrap, I was evenually greeted with bar and two locking pins. I examined the quality of it and all seemed to be perfect. If I had to be picky, I would prefer the loops on the end to be finished better, as they have a just weleded look, though this doesn't affect the quality of the bar itself.

      It has 8 holes in total and it's fully expendable to 34 inches. The bar itself is 23 inches when shortened. I attached the bar into each of the holes to make sure they all lined up, and unfortunately this is my first issue with this bar. The end hole on one side didn't line up, meaning it can't be made fully extendible (well, this one can't anyway), but this isnt a bad thing, as I found it becomes more flexible when fully extended, so using it in the second hole is perfect anyway.

      Cuffed up, my OH attached the bar onto my ankles and got me to walk around wearing it while blindfolded for his entertainment. It does its job, as it restricts movement as your legs are fairly extended, but because as it has detachable cuffs, they can swing around on your ankles, as the cuffs aren't attached directly to bar. But all this is a good thing for the observer as you struggle move and you can use cuffs of your choice. My OH likes this bar as my legs normally straighten out as I cum and the bar allows him to stop this from happening, allowing him complete control and manipulation of my movements.

      Lying on a bench, my OH cuffed my hands using the bar, which was fully shortened and allowed quite a lot of movement, but not too much either, just the perfect amount to feel tormented. In fact, I enjoyed it as much on my wrists as I did my ankles. We need a second spreader bar.

      At the start of my review, I said I purchased wrist cuffs too, as when I got the email to test this I spotted where the locking pins were placed and they had O-rings on them, which I thought would take the weight of my wrist cuffs, but unfortunately the pins are far too loose to allow this. They keep in place while being pulled against, but don't when being pulled at. I really wanted to use the bar in a standing hogtie position.

    2. Overall Rating
      7 out of 10 stars
      Pros
      Being restricted,kinkiness of using the bar.
      Cons
      Both sets of O-rings on the bar.
      Bottom line
      Everyone into kink needs one. Not sure if this one is it though!
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    1. It's okay

      Reviewed: 24 August 2017 by Lemon twist, a Straight Going Steady Male

      I love the idea of this item and it is a great item. However, there is one massively issue with this item. Once your in the mood you then have to fiddle around by taking out the pin and then put them back in, which can be a bit of a mood killer.

      But there is some good points too. Once it's on the fun is endless. I prefer to use this with a blindfold and handcuffs tied to the bed posts with my other half. I like the way that she moves about being tickled and teased and she loves it too.

      You have complete control over her/him. There's no escaping it and you can do what you want with whatever you want.

    2. Overall Rating
      6 out of 10 stars
      Pros
      The control and strength of the item.
      Cons
      The fiddliness.
      Bottom line
      It's okay.
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    1. Good buy when on offer

      Reviewed: 29 November 2019 by StrawberryBubblegum, a Bisexual Married Female

      I got this on special offer and would say it’s a good buy at around the £25 mark but not at full price due to some of the downsides.

      The good:

      Works in terms of being a length-adjustable spreader bar.

      Can (well must as it comes without them) use your own cuffs - for me this is much better than having fixed ones as you can use favourites and vary the feeling in different scenes with different types of cuff.

      Can build up to wider spreads without needing multiple bars.

      Dismantles for storage and discreet travel.

      The bad:

      No spare pins and the pins seem very easy to lose so packing away and storing is always a bit stressful.

      The rings on the pins look like you could attach further cuffs to them in the photos, but in practice I don’t find them sturdy enough.

      Putting it together is a bit fiddly and there’s no markings to help you find where to align the pins so good eyesight needed.

      Some notes:

      I was initially sent a faulty product, but LH sorted a replacement quickly and with no hassle. I was disappointed at first as you always wanna play right away, but long-term I’m kinda glad as I got to keep a set of spare pins and, as above, this is handy.

      LH ordering and delivery was great and swift as always.

      If you do lose the pins, you could still use it with string or something (though it might not be as good), but just to note, it isn’t fully useless without them.

      Overall:

      I'm glad I own it, but it has enough faults that I’ll probably want another spreader bar at some stage.

    2. Overall Rating
      5 out of 10 stars
      Pros
      Wide range of adjustments. Sturdy once put together. Easy storage and travel.
      Cons
      The pins are fiddly, easily lost and not sturdy enough to attach further cuffs to.
      Bottom line
      Useful item but I think there’s too many cons to justify paying full price.
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    1. Dom liked it, but I was not as keen

      Reviewed: 09 February 2015 by LilHorror, a Bisexual Single Female

      To start things off, my partner and I have never tried anything like a spreader bar before, so this was a pretty new experience for us both.

      So when I was contacted and was told I was being sent this cool new piece of equipment in exchange for a honest review, I jumped at the opportunity.

      As normal, my package arrived on time as promised. It was a plain brown box that was tightly sealed up with brown tape. Inside the box I found the usual white paper padding along with the spreader bar separated into three parts and wrapped in bubble wrap and a strong plastic covering. This also came with the Bondage Boutique sticker and label. This packaging was a little difficult to open, so I had to cut it with scissors.

      I was pretty let down by the packaging. This is what I would consider a luxury bondage toy that deserves a little more than bubble wrap. It would be much nicer had it came with a box. I would not give this as a gift, the way it first arrived. I no longer expect much from BB when it comes to packaging. Luckily their products are very high standard and somewhat make up for it.

      Once my partner and I had everything open and were ready to put it all together, we decided to give the metal and build quality a quick inspection. The metal seems very strong and sturdy and not likely to bend or become misshapen even with constant use.

      It arrived in excellent condition. It has been polished to a nice shine and had no chips or scratches along the metal. Once all the bars have been put together, it also has quite a nice weight to it.

      When it comes to putting this bar together I am having a constant struggle. I can never easily fit the pins in and it always takes me a good 10 minutes. This can really kill the mood, so I suggest that you practice a few times putting it together before using it.

      I had not at first realised that is bar does not arrive with cuffs that attach to it. You will have to make sure that you own a pair in advance. I have the Bondage Boutique four poster bed restraints. The cuffs that arrived with that were detachable and fitted the spreader bar just fine.

      When my partner (my Dom) first put the bar on me we were more or less just messing around. We both wanted to know how wide apart it could make my legs, and to be honest I was quite surprised. I am pretty darn short so to me it was not long until my legs were pretty far apart.

      My Dom loved this bar on me, he told me this repeatedly. Sadly, I on the other hand was not as comfortable as I would have liked to have been. I felt the bar was more in the way rather than a kinky bonus.

      Regardless, I kept it on for a little while longer since my Dom liked it so much. Again it was the same during sex. My partner loved it while I felt it was more in the way. My partner wanted this toy to help with his new fantasy of forcing me to orgasm. Since we already owned a wand all we needed was something to keep me from closing my legs to the wand once I had enough.

      We thought this would be perfect, but we were wrong. Since the cuffs are not a actual part of the bar and only clipped in I was able to close my legs down to my knees. This wrecked the fantasy a little for my partner.

      When it comes to cleaning it is pretty simple, just a wipe down with a little soap and water. Though, to be honest, I don't see why you would have to wash this that often. Unless of coarse you are doing water sports or happen to ejaculate on it.

      Overall, I was not overly keen on this product. My Dom liked it far more than I did. The metal and build quality are both very good and you are getting what you have paid for. I don't think this bar will brake any time soon at all. I was also let down by the packaging, but other than that I do not have much else to say about this product.

      I would recommend it, but urge you to measure out the spreading lengths first because a person with short legs is going to have a different experience to someone with long legs. So you have to make sure everything is going to be suited to you.

      Maybe with some better suited cuffs, I would have had a better experience. We plan on buying a new set of higher quality cuffs to see if it makes a difference. At this moment in time, it's anyone's guess how it will go, but from what we have experienced so far I am not a keen as my Dom, but I am willing to give it a second chance.

      Overall 4/10 from me and 8/10 from my Dom.

    2. Overall Rating
      5 out of 10 stars
      Pros
      It is very sturdy. It will last a long time!
      Cons
      I felt like it got in the way.
      Bottom line
      Not bad at all. I would recommend.
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