Having a child creates a violent upheaval in your sex life. Things do return to normal but it takes effort and a very long time.
As much as it’s awful being pressured into sex, it’s not so great being constantly rejected either. He may have decided it’s not worth trying anymore.
Your mood, how much foreplay you’ve had, how turned on you are, how much you’ve had to drink – there are dozens of reasons why it can happen.
The obvious and easy place to start is to look through some good general sex books for ideas.
Give a ‘criss-cross’ position a whirl! You lie on your back with your knees bent. He lies on his side beside you.
The prostate gland is inside his anus but it can be massaged externally as well as internally.
An ideal sex bed would have no headboard or footboard so legs and arms and heads can loll over the sides if you fancy it.
Actually, not all women do have sensitive nipples – and it’s the same deal with men. Some men’s nipples seem directly linked to their penis.
If it happened in his teens, I wouldn’t worry too much about it. Lots of guys experiment, especially if they’re boarding at a same sex school.
Generally the sooner you get help, the more chance you’ve got of solving problems and the less damage they will cause long-term.
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