• Cleopatra's Crystal Pleasure ClipThere's a fine line between pain and pleasure, and any S&M hottie will love this pretty beaded clamp

    As I talked about on Friday, being alone doesn't have to mean the end of your sex life.  On the contrary, for men on their own, it can be a time when they finally develop greater control over their orgasms, increase their stamina, and experience prostate stimulation for the first time.  Whether you want to learn to control your responses, enjoy stimulating body parts beyond your cock, or just get yourself into the best possible shape for when you are having partner sex, there are many things that you can do alone so much better than you can with a partner...


    Here then are 5 ideas and tips for enjoying your solo flight:

    Feelztoys Damien Silicone Vibrator

    To celebrate the arrival of the fabulous new Feelztoys range of silicone toys we're giving away a free tube of Mystery ID Juicy Lube 125ml worth £8.99 with selected vibrators.

    Made from premium silicone, all Feelztoys sex toys are soft, hygienic, odourless, non-porous and phthalates-free.

    But be quick, these vibes are selling like hot pies. You can see the complete Feelztoys range here.

    Live! The sex toy you can use with an iPod!Live! The sex toy you can use with an iPod!
    Share the music and share the love with the world's first music-activated vibrator for couples.
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    Vibrating love ring: the perfect toy for couples!Vibrating love ring: the perfect toy for couples!
    You'll want to use the vibrating Supersex Love Ring time and time again! Another best-seller from TV sex expert Tracey Cox.
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    Smoothshave Intimate Area Shaving PackSome men may like a full bush, but sometimes the smoother you are the faster the orgasms!

    Dreamgirl Gold Digger Dress

    Make your intentions clear at all the parties you're heading to this Christmas.

    Wriggle into this super-sexy Dreamgirl Gold Digger Dress, slip on the glorious dollar necklace, pop on the miner's hat and dig for gold!

    Made of dazzling gold stretch lamé it's actually a very versatile dress. Slip the miners' tools out of the loops, take off the hat and necklace, and you've got a fabulously sexy evening dress.

    You can view the complete Dreamgirl range here.

    Ask Birdie...

    Oh, Sex Toys. So tempting, but how do you know what to buy? What works? What doesn't? What is even OUT THERE to try? You have questions, I have answers (most of the time...)

    Dear McBirdie,


    A problem here. My boyfriend and I have sex once a week (rarely twice). Well, although he is very nice to me, it's just not enough. I get sexually frustrated on day 3 and cannot stop but pick little fights about things that bother me a little. Getting my frustration out this way seems to help in a sick way.

    I tried all the hot games with him. It does not work. He is just comfortable the way things are. And, yes, he is aware I want more sex. He says: "We are working on it. But my little fights kill his mood.

    The thing is if we had more sex I would not fight EVER. What should I do?

    Thank you,

    Frustrated

    A well lubed finger is your ace card during oral sex

    Who's Been Naughty Christmas Vibrator
    Ho, ho, ho! Cunningly disguised as Father Christmas this festive fellow tosses off its hat to reveal itself! Yes – it's the Who's Been Naughty Christmas Vibrator!

    Santa might only come once a year – but this multispeed, waterproof Yuletide vibe will make you come as many times as you like! Written along its shaft is: 'who's been naughty or nice' – and you won't care once you feel the powerful vibrations taking you on a sleigh ride to ecstasy!

    And because it's Christmas, we're giving away a sensational, knee-tremblingly powerful Lovehoney Magic Rabbit worth £9.99 free with every Christmas Vibe.

    Double your pleasure! It's a great gift for a partner or friend – or a lovely treat for your own stocking.

    Love watching your man in action? This move will make you weak at the knees

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