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His Top Six Sex Sins

Tracey Cox
by Tracey Cox on February 03, 2012 15:59 0 comments  |  Add a comment
His Top Six Sex Sins

1. Rushing into it.

A few pathetic fumbles to check if she’s wet does not make her ready for you to plunge on in. Unless you’re both fired up for a quickie, keep that penis away until you’ve paid some lip service and at least inserted some fingers to check she’s lubricated and ready for you.

Ditch The Chat Up Lines On National Flirt Day, Says Sexpert Tracey Cox

Alice Little
by Alice Little on February 02, 2012 10:20 0 comments  |  Add a comment

Tracey Cox Pocket SuperflirtHappy National Flirt Day! It's the day that thoughts turn to Valentine's Day - and snaring that perfect hot date.

So what's the best way to impress a date? Tracey Cox, author of Pocket Superflirt (£5.99), says there is no such thing as a failproof chat up line.

"There is no chat up line that's going to work in every situation! Just start a conversation with something that's appropriate to the situation you're in. And if you do have something extraordinary to say, save it for about five minutes in. We're too busy looking, not listening in those first 60 seconds. Deciding if we fancy someone and getting clues about them from their posture, clothes and body language..."

"You're better off worrying about your body language and whether you're standing nice and tall, smiling and making eye contact than you are what's coming out of your mouth."

Check out the brand new Tracey Cox Official Facebook Page for more of Tracey's insights into relationships, and her best hints and tips.

Can I get Viagra on the NHS?

Julie Peasgood
by Julie Peasgood on January 28, 2012 09:24 0 comments  |  Add a comment
Can I get Viagra on the NHS?

I’ve had several questions recently about the use of Viagra. One was from a lady in her mid-60s, with her husband in his early 70s. They still enjoy a fulfilling sex life, but he now needs a little help – but she feared their doctor would say they’re too old for Viagra.

Simple Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Tracey Cox
by Tracey Cox on January 27, 2012 09:18 1 comment  |  Add a comment
Simple Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Dare to do the clichés: Like chocolate body paint poured on and licked off. The reason why they’re clichés is because they’re often what people want to do, but are too scared to.

Start a ‘sex jar’: Each write down 10 things you’d like to try. Rip into separate points, fold and put all of them into a jar. Pick out one a week to try. (Insist on pre-approval if you think ‘lure the hot 18-year-old next door in for a threesome’ will simply be repeated by your partner.)

Send sexts: “I’ve been thinking about you inside me all day”; ‘If you want it right now, I’m in the upstairs bedroom’; ‘Remember when we did it on the beach? The kids are asleep….’ Or, when you’re feeling particularly horny (and they seem like they’d be receptive), ‘I want you to fuck me. Hard’.

Shave each other’s bits: It’s a laugh….and sexier than you think!

Have phone sex... from the other room. Call and tell them they have to do exactly what you say. Get them to go to the bedroom, take off their clothes, fondle themselves, lie down on the bed and start masturbating. Then walk in to finish the job for them.

Getting Deep and Meaningful - Some Thoughts on Deep Throating

Julie Peasgood
by Julie Peasgood on January 15, 2012 12:00 0 comments  |  Add a comment
Getting Deep and Meaningful - Some Thoughts on Deep Throating

Deep throating refers to taking the entire erect penis into the mouth and entrance of the throat. You don't need to be a porn star to do it, but be warned - it is a skill and it does take some practice. And make sure you deep throat a partner you’re really comfortable with - someone you trust, who is also patient, as it’s you, the giver, who sets the pace, not him...

Seven Steps to Giving Him Great Oral

Tracey Cox
by Tracey Cox on January 13, 2012 11:57 0 comments  |  Add a comment
Seven Steps to Giving Him Great Oral

1. You need access to his testicles, anus and perineum as well as to be able to grasp the base of the penis and slide the other hand up and over. In other words, you need room. Also make sure you’re not at an angle where your hand’s going to end up in a weird position and get twisted or cramped.


Sex Tricks to Try: Sacrificial Lingerie

Julie Peasgood
by Julie Peasgood on January 07, 2012 13:37 0 comments  |  Add a comment
Sex Tricks to Try: Sacrificial Lingerie

There’s something wild and wonderful about tearing each other’s clothes off - and I’m talking literally. I once had a memorably lustful exchange with a boyfriend who burst in on me in a theatre dressing room, and ripped open the tight Victorian bodice that was part of my costume. As the twenty-odd tiny fastenings pinged across the room, I did for a nano-second think what a pain in the arse it was going to be sewing them all back on, but this was soon eclipsed by the heady euphoria induced by his wanton, button-popping desire.

That was an unexpected and spontaneous moment, but there’s no reason why with some sexy lingerie you can’t plan a bodice-ripping scenario of your own...

Six Tips for Giving Her Sensational Oral Sex

Tracey Cox
by Tracey Cox on January 06, 2012 13:49 2 comments  |  Add a comment
Six Tips for Giving Her Sensational Oral Sex

1. Use the flat of your tongue, not the tip of it when you go down on her. Use the tip and your tongue will be knackered out in about five minutes. It feels too hard on her end (especially at the start) and if you flatten out your tongue as much as possible, it covers a bigger area and feels deliciously soft and squishy.

I love my girlfriend, but she rejects me and now I feel dirty when I try to touch her.

Tracey Cox
by Tracey Cox on January 01, 2012 15:14 2 comments  |  Add a comment
I love my girlfriend, but she rejects me and now I feel dirty when I try to touch her.

The real issue, I suspect, lies with your partner. I’m guessing she grew up in an environment where sex was seen as ‘dirty’ or shameful.

I'm not too interested in sex and I'm quite shocked at Lovehoney - but I do need help.

Julie Peasgood
by Julie Peasgood on December 31, 2011 10:43 0 comments  |  Add a comment
I'm not too interested in sex and I'm quite shocked at Lovehoney - but I do need help.

Give yourself permission to experiment now, and take time to discover your sensuality. Light some candles, have a long soak in a bath with fragrant oils, (and a large glass of wine if that helps you to relax) and explore a little solo stimulation, to become familiar with your body and its needs.

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