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    1. Fifty Shades of Grey Keep Still Over the Bed Cross Restraint

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      1. Fifty Shades of Grey Keep Still Over the Bed Cross Restraint

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    1. Product Description

      Explore new styles of bondage play with this over the bed cross restraint, which allows ankle and wrist cuffs to be positioned both vertically and horizontally. A deluxe new spin on a classic restraint system, inspired by the Fifty Shades of Grey books.

      "I am naked and shackled, spread-eagled on a large four-poster bed." - Ana Steele

      Unguarded vulnerability or spread-eagled exposure? The choice is the Dom's, as they arrange the cuffs for maximum excitement. Double up the fun once more by securing your sub on their front - the versatile restraint allows for a wide variety of positions.

      The quality wrist and ankle cuffs feature a soft satin exterior, with the inside lined with faux fur for a truly comfortable experience. Fastened by secure, adjustable Velcro, the cuffs are simple for a partner to secure and remove, yet provide a highly effective restraint tool for the wearer.

      The restraint is easy to set up and requires no tools for assembly, just a double bed of any size. Place the black straps in a diagonal cross on top of your mattress with the wrist and ankle cuffs at each corner. Feed the thin grey straps around the head and foot of your mattress, taking care to ensure the 2 D-rings remain on top. Feed the straps through the D-rings and tighten.

      Part of the Fifty Shades of Grey The Official Pleasure Collection approved by author E L James. Supplied with a Fifty Shades of Grey branded blindfold and door hanger, this bed restraint set has everything you need for thrilling bedroom bondage play.

      Key Features:

      • Over the bed cross restraint set
      • Can be used for two styles of restraint
      • Faux fur-lined wrist and ankle cuffs designed for comfort
      • Detachable cuffs can be used separately to the set
      • Adjustable size can fit all double beds (not single beds)
      • Comes with a blindfold and door hanger
      • Part of the Fifty Shades of Grey The Official Pleasure Collection approved by author E L James
      • A great alternative to a spreader bar for legs-spread action
    1. How it measures up

      • Length: 80 inches
    2. How it feels

      • Contains latex: No
      • Material: Soft Strapping
    3. Essential info

      • Fastening: Velcro

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    1. Fifty Shades of Grey Keep Still Over the Bed Cross Restraint

      Explore new styles of bondage play with this over the bed cross restraint, which allows your wrists and ankles to be cuffed and positioned both vertically and horizontally. A deluxe new take on a classic restraint system, inspired by the Fifty Shades of Grey books.

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    1. Customer Reviews

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      1. Fifty Shades of Grey Keep Still Over the Bed Cross Restraint
      2. Fifty Shades of Grey Keep Still Over the Bed Cross Restraint

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    1. Elegance

      Reviewed: 22 June 2015 by Mrnw, a Bisexual Engaged Male

      We were excited to be chosen to road test this item. We didn't have any clue what we're we're going to receive, so when this came in the post we were so pleased! The first thing my OH said was "This is something I would have bought".

      When it comes to our toys, we don't like tacky or cheap and these restraints scream elegance! The packaging it comes in is the typical Fifty Shades style. It's discreet, yet it has a few hints of sexy.

      We couldn't wait to open it, so we took it out straight away. The material of the handcuffs is brilliant. The insides are so soft, you won't have to worry about marks on your wrists and comfort while playing. Also, the eye mask it comes with is much higher quality than most, so much so, that my OH uses it most days for just sleeping.

      The restraints were a bit of a faff at first trying to figure out how they are meant to fit. However, once we had done it once, it is pretty simple the next time. Once the restraints were set up, it was extremely easy to use. The cuffs can be quickly clipped on and off for you to change your partner's position with ease.

      The material that made the cross, which lay on the bed, would have ideally been adjustable as it was a little loose and got in the way.

      The product would suit anyone - new or a seasoned pro to bondage - as it's so simple, yet it's such high quality. I would definitely recommend this product to anyone interested in restraints.

    2. Overall Rating:
      10 out of 10 stars
      Pros
      High quality, comfort.
      Cons
      The main cross wasn't adjustable.
      Bottom line
      High quality, elegant, comfortable.
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    1. Wasn't a right fit for our bed

      Reviewed: 26 June 2015 by PurpleHeart, a Straight Engaged Female

      After our recent and first experience with bed restraints, we were both more than excited to own this FSOG set.

      Just as every other product from the line, the box is a pleasure to the eye, sleek, black and discreet. And in it we have another black box, which contains the set. It gives the same luxurious feeling you get from the high-end Lelo packaging.

      What's in the box is a leaflet with a brief guidance on how to put it on the bed and a little bit of advice on bondage play. Great for beginners!

      You also get a hanging door sign, with "Grey at play" and "Mr. Grey will see you now" on the sides respectively. It's a little bit too much with the FSOG branding for me, but I can imagine fans of the book would find it much more fun during playtime.

      Since we were expecting only a restraint system, it was a nice surprise to find a blindfold included, which actually covers our eyes perfectly. We've had a few blindfolds before and they've always failed, so this one gets used a lot now.

      We loved the idea of being able to restrain each other's hands and legs, either spread, or up and down. Variety is the key to happiness, right?

      The way it works is you spread it over the bed (not under). This is important to note as you'd have to take it off and put it back on every time you want to you use it. It's simpler than any other set to set up - you only need to get the grey straps under the top and bottom of the bed, tighten them and ta-da! You're ready to go.

      Once this was done, we were left a little bit disappointed, as the X (black) straps can't be adjusted (they were left a bit loose), neither can the length of the straps which the D-rings for handcuffs are attached to.

      This shouldn't be a problem for a bigger bed, but ours isn't one of them (it's about 75'x65'). I'm very short - 5'2 - and the best position to get me actually restrained was hands up and legs spread. I simply had too much room for movement otherwise. With his 6'2", nothing really works too well.

      We had some better success with just the handcuffs, though. They are soft inside, maybe a tiny bit too hard, and a tiny bit too big, for my tiny wrists, but very good anyway. It's easy to use them for a hog-tie or to attach them to something else. This part of the set was what got him most excited. :D

      The material used is thick and strong, and will last years and years. It's also very simple to wash.

      I'm really sad to say this set didn't work well for us due to not being adjustable enough. However, this doesn't mean it won't for someone else. I think a bigger bed would definitely suffice to make it what it should be.

      For the rest of us, I can whole heartedly suggest the "Lovehoney BASICS Bondage Bed Restraint", it's fully adjustable and works a treat!

    2. Overall Rating:
      6 out of 10 stars
      Pros
      Sturdy, different positions possible, great blindfold, the handcuffs.
      Cons
      It was too big/not adjustable enough for our bed.
      Bottom line
      If you have a bigger bed, by all means go for it!
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    1. Exciting confusion

      Reviewed: 23 June 2015 by atropos, a Bisexual Single Female

      I received the Fifty Shades of Grey Over the Bed Cross Set from the wonderful people at Lovehoney to try and test out. For all the positives, I came out from testing with, unfortunately, completely mixed views.

      I haven’t really much come across the Fifty Shades franchise, but I love the toys and equipment that has come out of it! The cross set came boxed in a medium-sized box and turned out to be heavier than I had imagined.

      The theme of the colours seemed to be black and silver with slight hints of red; rather luxurious looking. The box had a picture of the restraints and on the side, a 1-line quote from the book and an image-based instruction of how the restraints work.

      Inside the box you’ll find the restraints, along with an instruction booklet with instructions in English, French, German and Spanish, a blindfold and a ‘Do Not Disturb’ sign.

      The blindfold is a rather basic polyester one with a silky feeling inner side and a softer outside with a ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ tag and elastic head band. The ‘Do Not Disturb Sign’ is a card affair with ‘Grey at Play - Do Not Disturb’ on one side and ‘Mr Grey Will See You Now - Please Enter’ on the other; both with ‘The Official Pleasure Collection - Approved by E L James’ notes on both sides.

      Personally, I will never use the sign, but I will definitely use the blindfold. I can imagine that in a time of roleplaying, a couple would love using both of these items.

      Moving on to the restraints... The restraints are made of a black webbing cross, which fits across the top of the mattress and is fixed around the head and foot of the mattress by a grey webbing strap at each end. It's really a very handy way to easily fix restraints in place in a non-permanent and 'easily removed and hidden' way.

      Attached to the black cross webbing were a range of D-links (with even one on the grey webbing straps) and four cuffs, all fully adjustable and gloriously lined on the inside with a soft furry fabric, which contrasted well with the slight roughness around the edge of the cuff. You can move the cuffs around to suit your needs/wants and take them away and use other items if you wish.

      Putting the restraints in place, the instructions (included in the box) say only that the restraints cannot be used on a single bed. My double bed was ready and waiting! My one-woman crew started to eagerly strip the bed of all paraphernalia; pillows and duvet.

      Finally, it was on to trying to unravel and properly place the straps ready to fix in place. I found that setting it out ready was a good way to do it rather than fixing it in one clump and hoping for the best.

      The grey straps, which go around the top and bottom of the mattress, are lovely and long and will fit the vast majority of beds as they are fully adjustable. The only downside with the grey straps was getting them in place through lifting the mattress with one hand and sliding it under with the other on both sides and then getting on hands and knees to see and reach under the bed to properly adjust the strap to a good tautness.

      A bit of a pain for one - fortunately strong - person, but I ended up far too exhausted after wrangling the straps and mattress to even consider play. Really, it's a job for a couple to do together. Sexy, eh? One thing I did find was that you really need full access to the bed to put these restraints in place. Move aside any bedside tables or other bits and pieces. I wish I had before starting - ouch!

      Moving up to the head of the bed, I finally noticed a slight problem with the restraints. My bed, an average double, was far too short to bring the central crossed black webbing to a taut point and ended up with masses of length left over. This made movement far too easy and in fact rather uncomfortable with the cuffs in entirely the wrong places.

      On another bed with perhaps a few extra feet in length, it would have been a perfect set-up. This, unfortunately, wasn’t specified in the instructions. The black cross straps don’t appear to be adjustable, so would have to be stitched to take off some of the excess; not what I personally want to be doing and, given the material, very hard on any needle being the stitching by hand or machine.

      Overall, I’m very impressed with the product. A lot of thought has gone into the design, packaging and the whole thing is very well made. However, I’m disappointed in the sizing issues of the main crossed central webbing, which is integral to the use of the restraint.

      I had very much looked forward to using this item, but I will have to think hard about how I can really make this work for me. I will definitely still use the blindfold and cuffs separately as they can be used with many of the toys I already have.

      My final note really is about the tidying away of this toy. It's bloody difficult. With all the straps and cuffs getting in the way it can be near impossible to put back into the box in under 30 minutes and without a full pack of elastic bands (or in my case, hair ties).

      I'm still trying to find a solution between it all coming out in one giant knot or taking ages to neatly pack it away.

    2. Overall Rating:
      6 out of 10 stars
      Pros
      Easily fixes to the bed.
      Cons
      Black central cross far too big for normal double bed.
      Bottom line
      Fantastic (unfortunately unrealised) potential for kinky bondage times.
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    1. Indecipherable Instructions

      Reviewed: 21 June 2015 by Sum Sub, a Straight Married Male

      The FSoG Overbed Restraint system is, I think, a genius idea presented very badly. Either that or I am not understanding this restraint set.

      The set comprises a number of lengths of nylon which are stitched together to form an X with parallel horizontal straps for any number of spreadeagled positions.

      The nylon is pretty soft and supple, and we did not find it all scratchy. As far as I can tell, the restraining straps are black, and the securing to the bed straps are grey.

      The set comes nicely packaged in a magic box - it's one of the boxes that it will never ever go back go into, no matter how hard you try.

      The instructions are a tiny piece of thin card folded into four concertina-style. There are brief instructions in several languages on one side, and some pictures and a more detailed instruction on the other.

      This is where I have massive problem with this product. The brief instructions aren't enough to be able to fit the set first time round, and the detailed instructions keep referring to D-rings, but there are so many D-rings on this set that it's pretty confusing as to what D-ring I have to do what. The instructions also refer to a "slider". Now either my set is missing that, or well, there isn't a slider.

      So, after 30-40 minutes reading the instructions and looking at the lengths of nylon, and the diagrams, we though sod it, let's just see if we can get it on the bed.

      We managed to, by one of us lifting up the mattress, and the other running the grey nylon under the bed, and fastening the D-rings, no not those D-rings, nor those ones, nope not them ones... Yes! those ones. We did this at both the foot-end, and the head-end of the bed, so we had the grey straps running under the mattress, and the black ones forming a boxed X on top of the mattress.

      I'm not sure if this is quite how it works, it's hardly over bed, but maybe by over-bed what they really mean is under-and over! I'm not sure how a solely over-bed system would work.

      The instructions say it won't work on a single bed, and to be honest, on our standard double, they were very loose, so if how we fitted it was correct, then I would say a king or super-king would be more suited.

      So, the instructions are very very poor, but leave those aside and just get it on the bed, what are you left with?

      Well, a set of restraints which don't afford an awful lot of movement in the legs, but do in the arms, if you go for the fully spread-eagled option. This set also allows for arms and/or legs restrained together; so it's pretty versatile.

      The cuffs, however, are genuine genius. They are super soft, and fasten with Velcro, and well, they will fit super-thin and super-chunky wrists and ankles alike. The Velcro runs all round the cuffs, meaning they fasten loose or tight, and very versatile. Despite much struggling, we were unable to get out of them. They are full detachable from the set, and can be used on their own too. Big thumbs up here.

    2. Overall Rating:
      6 out of 10 stars
      Pros
      The straps are soft, the cuffs are brilliant.
      Cons
      Instructions - tiny font, difficult to read, confusing and unclear, unhelpful pictures.
      Bottom line
      Won't get much use, our Bondage Boutique underbed system is much easier.
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    1. Not great

      Reviewed: 24 June 2015 by DeadBoy, a Straight Going Steady Male

      This set comes well packaged, with the cross set, a blindfold, a door hanger, and instructions included.

      I read the instructions, but still found this kind of tricky to get onto the bed, and my girlfriend had to help me with it.

      The grey straps go around the mattress and are adjustable, so will fit most mattresses (we have a futon so our mattress is thinner than most and the grey straps still fit well). However, the black straps that make a cross across the mattress are too long and not adjustable. Our mattress is standard double size in height and length.

      Having nylon straps underneath her made my girlfriend uncomfortable, and I tripped over one of the grey straps.

      I recommend a lot of foreplay before actually strapping one of you into the set, as the position is very exposed. While fine for penetration, it's not a position I particularly like seeing my girlfriend in, and we found it awkward for foreplay.

      My girlfriend says the cuffs and blindfold are comfy, and they all stay on well. The cuffs are easy to get on and off as they close with Velcro. Some light gets through the blindfold, though, and it's possible to peep under the bottom. Everything in the set is really high quality.

      Overall, we haven't had a great time with this set. It didn't fit our mattress well. Having it over the mattress seemed clumsy, and made it uncomfortable. The fully stretched position wasn't for us. It is good quality, though.

    2. Overall Rating:
      5 out of 10 stars
      Pros
      Great quality.
      Cons
      Over the mattress made it clumsy and uncomfortable, not a good position for foreplay.
      Bottom line
      I doubt we'll be using it again.
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