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    1. Product Description

      Men have always valiantly struggled to elicit the female orgasm but rarely will a man ask: "What do I do?" Now, the answer can be right on the tip of his tantalising tongue.

      She Comes First is an encyclopaedia of female pleasure, with dozens of techniques for satisfying your female partner and illustrated step-by-step instructions that will ensure orgasmic success.

      In his much-lauded sex manual, clinical sexologist Ian Kerner gives a thorough background into female pleasure and offers advice on the tried-and-tested oral sex techniques that make climax a cinch.

      Demystifying the stages of female sexual arousal, this book explains the physical signs of pre-orgasm and climax and breaks down the cunnilingus process into steps. The result? A simple guide to getting her off, whatever your skill level.

      "Readable and friendly, and resolutely women-centric... Perhaps it's time we paid more than lip service to the idea of true sexual liberation, and perhaps She Comes First is just the soft of talking point we need to get us started." 'The Guardian'

      "An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah!" 'Playgirl'

      "As we all know, or should know, sex is about sharing - emotionally and physically. However, there's a group of people who fail to understand this important balance. They're called 'Men'... Although blokes are fully aware that oral is a standard requirement for any modern relationship, most haven't cottoned on to the fact that it should take longer to perform than polishing off a Mr Whippy." 'Cosmopolitan'

      Key Features:

      • Cunnilingus guide written by clinical sexologist Ian Kerner
      • How-to guide on improving your tonguing techniques with clear step-by-step instructions
      • Encyclopaedia of female pleasure with tips for ensuring the big O
      • Tried and tested techniques to try on your partner
      • "Get yourself a copy of Ian Kerner's manifesto She Comes First and make sure your boyfriend reads it too." - Suzi Godson, The Times sex columnist

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    1. A very useful learning tool

      Reviewed: 14 January 2017 by DeusRapture, a Bisexual Single Male

      This book is so good. It is highly informational and even has routines for beginners and intermediates to try.

      If you have a partner who you would like to learn a little more before heading 'down there' I'd highly recommend this book. This book promotes a healthy way of looking at performing cunnilingus and has a wealth of knowledge to help both beginners who are nervous about doing it for the first time, and intermediates who wish to learn a little more to please the women in your life.

    2. Overall Rating:
      10 out of 10 stars
      Pros
      Very useful to learn more and the routines are great too.
      Cons
      It can be a little long, but it's worth the reading time.
      Bottom line
      A little long but it's worth reading, valuable information.
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    1. So Happy We Found This Guide

      Reviewed: 08 April 2016 by liebenstieben

      I got this book for my boyfriend last year so that we could both become a little more informed on all things oral sex.

      The book is really well written, easy to read, and not at all vulgar. I also really like the cover, which leaves something to the imagination. It's broken down into two parts: the first focuses on understanding the female anatomy and the second focuses on technique. I have to say I learned a lot. The author organizes all the information in a very clear way, so it's super easy to refer back once you've read the book.

      At the end of the book, the author builds all of his advice into a single, full routine. I will say, that while it's probably great, the routine is very long and therefore it would probably be very difficult to memorize, so I never expected my boyfriend to give me a full delivery of it. However, the general advice given is so good, that I definitely noticed an improvement in the sex after we read it.

    2. Overall Rating:
      10 out of 10 stars
      Pros
      The writing style, the book cover, the advice, information on anatomy.
      Cons
      Nothing.
      Bottom line
      There's no need to be afraid of oral sex with this book on your shelf.
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    1. Reading this should be mandatory

      Reviewed: 24 November 2011 by RedCheeks, a Bisexual Single Female

      I first got this book around two and a half years ago. Having had pleasant experiences with someone who had taken the time to educate themself on the subject matter and seeing just how effective a little knowledge could be, I decided to look into picking up a similar book. Knowing that men can be easily offended I figured it was worth having a good book on the subject on hand so I could casually loan it out if necessary.

      After a little searching for books on the subject “She Comes First” came the most highly recommended and for good reason. After waiting patiently for the book to arrive I was glad when it finally came. The book itself has a wonderful cover. It very elegantly represents the subject matter without being vulgar or pornographic.

      It is written by a man called Ian Kerner, who explains that after years of suffering with feelings of sexual inadequacy caused by premature ejaculation he set about finding other more fulfilling ways to please a woman. It is clear to me that his search was not in vain.

      He clearly knows the subject matter inside and out, literally! He explains in simple but extremely accurate terms the complete stages and sexual responses that lead a woman to orgasm.

      Additionally he talks a bit about the history of female sexuality. He tells the reader about the origin of some of the confusion and myths surrounding female anatomy and orgasms. After giving it to my current partner to read both he and I agree that his technique improved greatly.

      My one and only issue with the book really is that the author gears the entire thing towards orgasm, and says a number of times that you shouldn’t start a session of cunnilingus without making her cum. While we all love orgasms, sometimes I just want a nice bit of play without the pressure of orgasm hanging over the whole situation.

      Other than this smallest of problems I think it is overall very well written and a great source of information for anyone who wants to know just how to please a woman.

    2. Overall Rating:
      10 out of 10 stars
      Pros
      Well written, informative, clearly laid out techniques.
      Cons
      Maybe a little too orgasm focused at times.
      Bottom line
      Even the most advanced cunnilinguist will find they still learn a trick or two.
    3. 1 person found this review helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes