1. Shouganai User Profile

    I'm a transgender male that's been undergoing HRT for almost 4 years and had top surgery on 03/09/18, intending on having a full hysterectomy and no genital reconstruction. AMA. :> My partner is a gay cismale, and we like to have a lot of BDSM related fun.

    My kinks are DD/LG lifestyle elements, Pet play scenes, rough treatment, and playing outdoors/in public.

    My partner's most beloved kink is being put in chastity, and sometimes sissified or put in cuckold situations.

    I struggled with body image issues that deeply effected my self confidence for years, and that's actually how we got into kinky sexual adventures: I knew I could play a little wilder if he couldn't see me, so what started off as a simple blindfold quickly evolved into actively pushing our limits in the BDSM world.

    (Spanking ? Candle wax ? Consensual torture ? We're into some questionably taboo stuff, too... but hey, we've learnt to always give something a go twice ! Once to realise it won't kill you, and a second time to actually enjoy it. :p ).

    Speaking of limits though, my personal limit is scat play. I personally just don't see the appeal (maybe because I'm a germaphobe, though for some reason I have a hand fetish yet feet disgust me- oh well, everyone’s different).

    We're both hoping to discover even more about ourselves through LoveHoney. :)

    Reviews

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    Date See the product Read the review Reviewer Rating
    23 Nov 2017 Perfect Fit Buck-Off Buck Angel Suction FTM StrokerPerfect Fit Buck-Off Buck Angel Suction FTM Stroker It sucks... Shouganai 8 out of 10
    29 Oct 2017 Lovehoney Unisex Strap On Harness BriefsLovehoney Unisex Strap On Harness Briefs Gender and Sexuality exploration just got even better Shouganai 10 out of 10
    25 Oct 2017 Lovehoney Classic Silicone Slimline Medium Butt PlugLovehoney Classic Silicone Slimline Medium Butt Plug Can't beat classics Shouganai 10 out of 10
    25 Oct 2017 Bondage Boutique Black Rose Pleasure Collar and Lead SetBondage Boutique Black Rose Pleasure Collar and Lead Set Lead the way Shouganai 10 out of 10
    20 Oct 2017 Tracey Cox Supersex Flexible Anal Douche 250mlTracey Cox Supersex Flexible Anal Douche 250ml Gentle, Clean, Comfortable Shouganai 10 out of 10
    8 May 2017 Bondage Boutique Blackout Mask with Ball GagBondage Boutique Blackout Mask with Ball Gag Not feeling your best? Shouganai 10 out of 10
    8 May 2017 DOMINIX Deluxe Cat Claw Skin ScratcherDOMINIX Deluxe Cat Claw Skin Scratcher Tiny fingers? Read this first Shouganai 8 out of 10
    8 May 2017 Master Series Powerful Twist Nipple SuckerMaster Series Powerful Twist Nipple Sucker Not what I was expecting... Shouganai 1 out of 10
    8 May 2017 Lovehoney Pumped Up 7 Function Vibrating Penis PumpLovehoney Pumped Up 7 Function Vibrating Penis Pump Unisex use possible Shouganai 10 out of 10

    Posts

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    Date Message Where?
    30 Jul 2019 Would you rather?
    Vegetables. WYR orgasm so hard you pass out, or not orgasm at all ?
    Off-Topic Chat & Games
    30 Jul 2019 Would You Ever... Part 6
    Nah, the only fantasies I haven’t tried are for a good reason ! WYE grow out all your body hair with no trimming or shaping (or shave it all, if...
    Off-Topic Chat & Games
    30 Jul 2019 Have you ever ? Part 2
    Nope, and chose to remove mine so never can, either ! HYE done something super romantically cheesy, and if so, what ? (e.g. laying under the Christmas...
    Off-Topic Chat & Games
    30 Jul 2019 Big Birthday COMPETITION- Week 4!! Bigger and Better than EVER
    COMPETITION ENTRY : First you’re small, then you’re pink, then you’re red, then you’re dead. What am I ?
    Inside Lovehoney
    13 Nov 2018 Cosmetic surgery?
    Congratulations on your weight loss ! Now, as someone that’s had major surgery and been around a lot of others that have too (Not tummy tucks...
    Off-Topic Chat & Games
    28 Sep 2018 Pander to me! .. PRODUCTS ONLY
    Sorry for double posting, but will the “Oinkz Silicone Corkscrew Pig Tail Butt Plug” ever come in pink ? Or a similar product in pink ? That’s a...
    Inside Lovehoney
    28 Sep 2018 Pander to me! .. PRODUCTS ONLY
    Whoever mentioned a devil tail buttplug, I’m so down for that, too ! (Adoring the nun costume and pumpkin/ghost cock rings- pity there aren’t any solo...
    Inside Lovehoney
    28 Sep 2018 Why is a wand so magic?
    I was a slow convert; they’re usually marketed as a female toy... I had no IDEA what I was missing out on ! People often think a wand is just that- a...
    Inside Lovehoney
    17 Sep 2018 Word Association (Part 11)
    Tan lines.
    Off-Topic Chat & Games
    17 Sep 2018 Would you rather?
    Stand on the table; I can’t stand cold pee ! WYR wake your partner up by giving oral, or be the partner woken up by receiving oral ?
    Off-Topic Chat & Games
    17 Sep 2018 Get it off ! Support thread V2.0
    Wishing you luck ! But you’ll look beautiful regardless. :) Just venting into the void here, but gosh I wish there were stockings to fit me. Being...
    Off-Topic Chat & Games
    17 Sep 2018 Would you rather?
    Probably take them off; it’s more exciting and I wouldn’t smell like pee for however long. :’) WYR only be able to diet or only be able to exercise ?
    Off-Topic Chat & Games
    17 Sep 2018 Ask for Angela
    Bumping the thread because it’s super important and useful. (Wish there was a male version, like ask for Andrew/Angelo or something similar, so both...
    Off-Topic Chat & Games
    17 Sep 2018 Word Association (Part 11)
    Swim
    Off-Topic Chat & Games
    17 Sep 2018 Would You Ever... Part 5
    If it were legal or part of some event, yes. WYE wear a toy inside you all day at work/uni ?
    Off-Topic Chat & Games
    17 Sep 2018 Should I shave my pubes?
    It’s all down to personal preference, but I’d encourage you to try it at least once or twice. I usually shave and then maintain short hair through...
    Sex Tips & Talk
    17 Sep 2018 Peoples Thoughts on Male Lingerie?
    I adore male lingerie, and I completely agree with a lot of the products available being... not the most flattering. From LoveHoney I’d recommend you...
    Lingerie & Clothing
    15 Sep 2018 For Fun: What Job Role at Lovehoney would you do and why?
    I’m unsure of what the official title is, but I’d love to work in the department that designs toys and clothing/lingerie; I’d hope to be part of a...
    Off-Topic Chat & Games
    15 Sep 2018 What's your fantasy
    Whoever said a decent lie in made me snort. 😂 Uh... for me, most of my fantasies get a bit dark and are certainly not as fun or sexy as in my head so...
    Sex Tips & Talk
    15 Sep 2018 Would you rather?
    Rather rim OH. WYR have themed Christmas Day sex or themed Hallowe’en sex ? (Costumes, props, the lot).
    Off-Topic Chat & Games

    Wishlists

    Date Wishlist name Items
    6 May 2017 Transexyal Treats 13
    9 May 2017 "SEX TOY TESTER" 0
    10 Oct 2017 Lingerie 12

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