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    Malteser81 [sign in to see picture]
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    lol...... as my OH would say MM, just enjoy the film =)

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    Alicia D'amore [sign in to see picture]
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    Malteser81 wrote:

    lol...... as my OH would say MM, just enjoy the film =)

    Does your OH say that because you're pedantic too?

    WandA goes on and on about films being unrealistic - it's funny to see him advising the opposite....all in the name of sex I guess ;)

    Adx

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    Despina Rose [sign in to see picture]
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    WandA wrote:

    MasqueradeMinx wrote:

    Watched the secretary last night.

    I like it but I dont if that makes sense.

    Like:

    • A good portrayal of s/d relationships and the struggle behind them
    • Very sexy
    • Well written

    Dislike:

    • The whole employee/employer relationship
    • The 3 day thing is a big downfall for me.

    I dont believe the 3 day thing would work because:

    • As she had to pee she would have a serious rash after 3 days, her skin would most likely be bleeding as well.
    • 3 days without drink is a very serious thing and would likely mean hospitalization.
    • She would have needed to poo as well so the dress would be an complete mess.

    If he honestly cared for her he wouldnt have expected her to wait 3 days. A day yes, but not 3. 3 days is very serious to health, s/d relationships are supposed to be about true caring, 3 days isnt caring!

    Hmmmm, bit too literal in the interpretation I think MM. Most films are generally unrealistic to some extent and I'm one of those annoying types who does point hem out when I notice but you just have to look past them if you're going to enjoy it.

    Alicia D'amore wrote:

    Malteser81 wrote:

    lol...... as my OH would say MM, just enjoy the film =)

    Does your OH say that because you're pedantic too?

    WandA goes on and on about films being unrealistic - it's funny to see him advising the opposite....all in the name of sex I guess ;)

    Adx

    I did enjoy the film to a certain extent. Everyone seems to say that is a realistic portrayal, I am simply pointing out the faults and unrealistic aspects of the film. Due to these, I cant enjoy it as much because I feel it is exaggerated. The rest of the film is good, the acting is good and the d/s theme is good but the 3 day thing is a huge downfall for me. If the time was shorter and it was more realistic I would give it an 8 or 9 out of 10. With the 3 days, I give it a 6 or 7. That is my opinion and I said what I disliked about the film.

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Alicia D'amore wrote:

    Malteser81 wrote:

    lol...... as my OH would say MM, just enjoy the film =)

    Does your OH say that because you're pedantic too?

    WandA goes on and on about films being unrealistic - it's funny to see him advising the opposite....all in the name of sex I guess ;)

    Adx

    And as you're aware I'm not a big film watcher.

    The films I do like are the ones where I don't notice or they're so good I overlook them!

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    Malteser81 [sign in to see picture]
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    Alicia D'amore wrote:

    Malteser81 wrote:

    lol...... as my OH would say MM, just enjoy the film =)

    Does your OH say that because you're pedantic too?

    WandA goes on and on about films being unrealistic - it's funny to see him advising the opposite....all in the name of sex I guess ;)

    Adx

    Yes very much so

    I have to say MM that really there are no limits to what happens in s/d relationships. Infact you can go 4 days without water which is why he left her for 3, the fact she didnt have anything to drink or eat for that matter would men any waste products would be very minimal especially as she didnt eat that much when she was with him due to his control. As far as bed sores.... i'll give you that one, her bum did look just too good for sitting in pee for 3 days but I wouldnt think people would have found it as romantic if they showed a spotty bum =S =)

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    I really do need to watch Secretary some time.

    One film I do very much like is this one: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0101026/

    (worksafe IMDb link)

    Synopsis:

    "Just released from residential psychiatry, where he became an all-round handyman, gentle orphan Ricky pursues his sole pathological obsession. Penniless, hence without a chance to court her, he kidnaps porn actress Marina from the set of crippled director Maximo's last movie. At first she hates her abductor. Once she realizes he risks and bares everything for her, she gets feeling for him to. But won't she still escape and return to her family and career?"

    Dark, romantic and funny in places and an interesting take on things of a bondagey and formation of a D/s relationship.

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    most people in the kinkcommunity like the idea of tying someone up to a tree, especially the ones whove seen the movie

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    It's a movie so it's never gonna be correct the whole time. When Kate Winslet trys to commit suicide by jumping of the back of a fricking big ship theres a massive tattoo on her arm.

    I like it because I relate to her scars. That's me and I found someone who doesn't care about them too

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    I saw the movie for the first time recently and wasn't keen. I didn't like the self-harm aspect; it sort of felt like he was taking advantage of that, though I do see that he was helping her out of self-harm, too. (Yes, that does sound contadictory.) I think it's because I have self-harmed in the past, but am out of that now and for me spanking is purely sexual. So although I love spanking fiction like Philip Kemp (from whose stories I first heard about the movie), I shan't be watching Secretary again.

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