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  1. What toys are there for us men that can be worn while you are out and about.

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    wildjezz [sign in to see picture]
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    Its just not fair when it comes to sex toys there is far more toys for the women,Im so jeouls when it comes to toys what you can wear out,You women have so many...As far as i know you just have the Octopus&Vibraexciter for us men,Or is there some more toys we can wear out?

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    Lubyanka [sign in to see picture]
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    The vagina stops at the cervix, so wearing toys in there is much safer than in the rectum. The problem with wearing bullets in the rectum is that there is no limit how far in they go.

    Having said that, there are a lot of butt plugs available which can safely be worn out and about all day.

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    wildjezz [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi

    Thanks for your reply,Well i wasn't really thinking of ass toys,Just things to please the cock like the octopus/vibraexciter.

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    Lubyanka [sign in to see picture]
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    Ok, vibrating cock rings then. Have you browsed LoveHoney to see what they stock? They have loads of different vibrating cock rings.

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    Its easier to hide a toy on a women... an "effective" male toy could prove embarrassing on a bus!

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    wildjezz [sign in to see picture]
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    This is the problrm,There is many cock rings but thats not what im after as it cant be worn out,The two ive said is to be worn while you are out,I wouldn't want to even think what damage a cock ring would do if you wore it for a long time.

    I cant see how it would be embarrassing for us men if we were out,There is a way to hid things,But you are right its easier to hide things for you women.

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    Lubyanka [sign in to see picture]
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    wildjezz wrote:

    This is the problrm,There is many cock rings but thats not what im after as it cant be worn out,The two ive said is to be worn while you are out,I wouldn't want to even think what damage a cock ring would do if you wore it for a long time.

    Why do you think that you can't wear cock rings out? Quite a few of the vibrating ones have wired controllers which can go in your pocket. And cock rings which don't vibrate can be worn out too. Why do you think it's unsafe to wear a cock ring for a long time?

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    Because cock rings restrict the flow of blood to and from the penis it is not advisable to keep them on for long periods, much like the advice given to first aiders regarding tourniquets! A few hours should be fine, but I'd avoid keeping one on all day if you can help it!

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    Lubyanka [sign in to see picture]
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    That's true Ian, thank you for your input. What I was thinking was, if a person took sensible precautions, a cock ring which was the right size for them could certainly be worn all day. I've got some weighted leather cock rings and cock-and-ball rings which fit loosely enough for my partner to safely wear them all day.

    Also, as far as I know, cock rings only restrict the flow of blood out of the penis through one blood vessel (the one at the top of the shaft).

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Superficial_dorsal_vein_of_the_penis

    So as long as a person monitors their penis and comfort levels, I think a cock ring with the appropriate fit can safely be worn all day, and the correct size for that will vary between individuals.

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    Nexas wrote:

    Most of the cock rings I own state that they shouldn't be worn in one sitting for longer than 20 or 30 minutes depending on the ring.

    I think he wants some kind of sleeve or masturbator that vibrates that can be worn all day.

    Yep thats correct

    Women have so many toys made for fun outside the bedroom,Us men well most of our toys are made for indoors if you get what you mean.

    I would of liked something that you dont have to worry about,You just leave it on your cock for the day and have some fun without anyone knowing,Either you control it or somebody else can.

    The vibraexciter&octopus is ok but nothing like the womens toys,The vibrations are nice Mmmmm but not WOW,This goes for both of them if they were just that little bit more powerfull then they would be great and i think i would be feeling Mmmmmm very nice and WOW!!

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    Lubyanka [sign in to see picture]
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    I personally feel very little stimulation from a bullet vibrator in my vagina. I'm not sure what you mean by so many toys for women to wear out and about. Aside from bullets, which men have as well for their rectums, I don't know of any toys which work well for women to wear out and about.

    My experience of butterfly vibrators is that the straps don't work well for keeping them in place. So other than bullets in the vagina, I don't know what you mean by there being so many toys for women to wear out and about.

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    Lubyanka [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes indeed, there are. However, I personally have only experienced the "mmm, that's ok" feeling. I've never had the "WOW" experience from any toys for women to wear which wildejazz mentioned.

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    Lubyanka [sign in to see picture]
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    I think butt plugs count as "similar style", don't you? :)

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    Lubyanka [sign in to see picture]
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    Prostate stimulation does stimulate the penis. Women do not have a prostate, and I've never come across any G-spot toys designed specifically for women to wear out and about. I think that a desire to be covertly aroused in public is a specialised kink which not everybody shares. I know that the idea, whilst vaguely interesting to me, has no specific appeal.

    Women cannot enjoy cock rings without clitoral vibrators, or ball stretchers, chastity cages, sounds, cock-and-ball straps, ball splitters, and loads of other toys which are designed specifically for men. If a man wants to wear toys out and about and isn't worried about his erection being detected, then there are many, many toys for him to choose from. I think that saying that "Women have so many toys made for fun outside the bedroom,Us men well most of our toys are made for indoors if you get what you mean." is just plain wrong.

    Which toys for women are designed specifically for public arousal? Precisely how are men excluded from that?

    I just think that wildejazz has made erroneous assumptions about women, men, and toys which he has not researched. If he has a specific kink for covert public arousal, ok. If he feels that this kink has been neglected by the toy manufacturers, I think that's unfortunate. How is it useful to inaccurately inform us that his feelings of neglect must mean that all women are catered for? My experience of the octopus commander is that my male partner is incredibly stimulated by it in public when I use it on him. If that isn't enough for wildejazz, I think that's unfortunate, but it's hardly evidence that women are more catered for than men.

    I think that wildejazz would benefit more from investigating exactly what it is that he wants, and researching which available toys fit those requirements, instead of erroneously assuming that his feelings of neglect must be caused by other people being catered for at his expense.

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    Sorry i dont have much time

    But ive not just come on here and asked about it,Ive done my research the only toys that are made so we can wear it outside is what i said O and the vibrating thong which is rubbish.

    Ok it doesn't matter if the womens toys are not that good,But the fact is you have more toys made so it can be worn while you are doing everyday things.

    Im not interested in anal toys...Just something to please my cock hehehe

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    wildjezz wrote:

    Sorry i dont have much time

    But ive not just come on here and asked about it,Ive done my research the only toys that are made so we can wear it outside is what i said O and the vibrating thong which is rubbish.

    Ok it doesn't matter if the womens toys are not that good,But the fact is you have more toys made so it can be worn while you are doing everyday things.

    Im not interested in anal toys...Just something to please my cock hehehe

    1. Since your research was so thorough, I am surprised that you overlooked the details of women's toys, what they're for, and how effectively they function for women in the ways you're looking for them to function for you.

    2. Out of the hundreds of vibrating cock rings available at LH, you just wrote all those off without a second glance? Why?

    2. I answered your questions about the anal bullet part of the octopus commander, yet you appear to exclude this information from the conclusions you drew. Why?

    3. Despite your research, it seems clear to me that you have never enjoyed prostate stimulation, otherwise you'd know that anal toys do stimulate your penis.

    4. Since you haven't tried prostate stimulation, and since you choose to disregard vibrating cock rings, you are therefore arbitrarily excluding several entire categories of toys from your consideration. Why choose to voluntarily reduce your available choices almost to zero?

    5. I'd recommend that you limit your disparaging remarks about how poorly you and your public arousal kink are served in the sex toy market until you give prostate stimulation and vibrating cock rings a fair chance.

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    wildjezz [sign in to see picture]
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    Once again no time,Will reply better next week

    Your number 2 has nothing to do with this thread title

    Dont you understand cock rings can not be worn all day,If they could well then thats bingo because cock rings feel so good.

    Now comes to the octopus yes thats got a anal vibe but i did say in this thread im not wanting a toy thats for anal,Just cock pleasure,Please dont make me look like im 14 and have o idea about toys etc...

    I have plenty of toys,I have all the ones that is for cock pleasure which is for discreet use while outside,The octopus/vibraexciter is good,But the vibraexciter falls off when my cock goes limp,The octopus would be really good but it needs more power,The vibrating thongs well lets just say i just have the thong now.

    I will try the octopus anal vibe,But really its not a thing i want to do every time i go out,Then comming home and taking it out,TBH it would be a bit of a turn of after a fun night out,Hold on babe let me just pull thais out of my ass

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    Sorry forgot to add,I could see why you would be saying all those things ifmy thread said,There is hardly any toys for us men.

    But its actually about toys that please just the cock and what can be worn while im at work.clubbing etc..

    And the title doesn't say why isn't there many toys for us mean to please the gspot,Because there is loads of those toys to please our Gspot.

    I have read reviews about the womens toys like the vibraexciter and it seems its all good,My g/f loves the vibraexciter/butterfly/oyster.

    She really gets of on them,But the pleasure pants were a no go for her.

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    I don't understand this, but I'm under the impression that you feel that I am trying to create a confrontation with you. You have been asking for help with adding to the pleasure in your life by adding to your sexual stimulation in public. And I have been doing my best to help you by contributing information which I thought would increase your ability to discreetly pleasure yourself sexually in public.

    And then after I post my information, your replies seem unresponsive to the actual content of my posts, except for the parts which you felt were confrontational. What I don't understand is, if you really wanted answers to the questions you asked, why did you feel that my contributions were less helpful and less relevant than some of the others?

    In response to some of the things you said above which contradicted information which I gave you in previous posts in this thread, I will reiterate what I said there in case you missed it before. If that isn't enough for you, then I'll bow out and leave you to find your solutions without me.

    Lubyanka wrote:

    2. Out of the hundreds of vibrating cock rings available at LH, you just wrote all those off without a second glance? Why?

    3. Despite your research, it seems clear to me that you have never enjoyed prostate stimulation, otherwise you'd know that anal toys do stimulate your penis.

    4. Since you haven't tried prostate stimulation, and since you choose to disregard vibrating cock rings, you are therefore arbitrarily excluding several entire categories of toys from your consideration. Why choose to voluntarily reduce your available choices almost to zero?

    5. I'd recommend that you limit your disparaging remarks about how poorly you and your public arousal kink are served in the sex toy market until you give prostate stimulation and vibrating cock rings a fair chance.

    wildjezz wrote:

    Your number 2 has nothing to do with this thread title

    Dont you understand cock rings can not be worn all day,If they could well then thats bingo because cock rings feel so good.

    [...] I have plenty of toys,I have all the ones that is for cock pleasure which is for discreet use while outside,The octopus/vibraexciter is good,But the vibraexciter falls off when my cock goes limp,The octopus would be really good but it needs more power,The vibrating thongs well lets just say i just have the thong now.

    The title of the thread asks what toys men can wear out and about. The octopus for men has a vibrating cock ring. My partner has safely worn it for 6 hours. I think that demonstrates that some vibrating cock rings can be worn safely all day. So I think that my number 2 is everything to do with the thread title.

    Also, to protect themselves, companies will put on their packaging that their cock rings are not to be worn all day, just in case of any accidents or subsequent legal proceedings. It's clear to me that a correctly fitting cock ring with a vibrating bullet, such as the one on the octopus, can be safely worn for hours, and therefore is a solution which is worth your consideration.

    I also wrote:

    Lubyanka wrote:

    [...] if a person took sensible precautions, a cock ring which was the right size for them could certainly be worn all day. I've got some weighted leather cock rings and cock-and-ball rings which fit loosely enough for my partner to safely wear them all day.

    Also, as far as I know, cock rings only restrict the flow of blood out of the penis through one blood vessel(the one at the top of the shaft).

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Superficial_dorsal_vein_of_the_penis

    So as long as a person monitors their penis and comfort levels, I think a cock ring with the appropriate fit can safely be worn all day, and the correct size for that will vary between individuals.

    So I don't understand why you think my number 2 was irrelevant. I will expand on that.

    If you are creative, I think you can put together a toy which will fit your requirements. Although all individuals are different sizes, cock rings with a vibrating bullet sleeve also vary in size, and are inexpensive. So if you bought a few different vibrating cock rings, and found one which fit you like the one from the octopus (or even used the octopus cock ring), and then replaced that bullet with a bullet which vibrates as you prefer and has a wired controller, I think that is your solution.

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    Now comes to the octopus yes thats got a anal vibe but i did say in this thread im not wanting a toy thats for anal,Just cock pleasure,Please dont make me look like im 14 and have o idea about toys etc...

    [...] I will try the octopus anal vibe,But really its not a thing i want to do every time i go out,Then comming home and taking it out,TBH it would be a bit of a turn of after a fun night out,Hold on babe let me just pull thais out of my ass

    Regarding cock pleasure, I wrote:

    Lubyanka wrote:

    Prostate stimulation does stimulate the penis.

    Which it does. I don't understand why you think that

    A. you can't leave the the anal bullet in place for sex after you come home after a night out

    B. removing the bullet from your anus can't be part of the fun of sex

    I hope you found that helpful. If not, then I wish you luck in finding your solution.

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    The Lelo BOB is beautifully comfortable, and as it's a buttplug incredibly discreet... I've got a review on my blog at http://bit.ly/SZUPH or on the LH product page for the Lelo BOB when the review is approved :)

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