1. need help with first toy

    Littletink90 [sign in to see picture]
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    i've never wanted a sex toy until now and i really don't know what i should get, can anyone help me out at all and give me a suggestion or 2?

    MissTerryCleavage [sign in to see picture]
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    Really depends what sort of thing you are looking for, which I appreciate is hard to know when it's your first, this guide is great http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/buyers-guide/how-to-choose-your-first-sex-toy/

    A lot of people choose bullets or rabbits for first toys cos they are easy to use, depends if you want something to insert or are just looking for clit stim?

    Have a read through the guide, and maybe let us know a bit more about what you're looking for, and people can offer their advice then. Am sure you will find something that does the job ;)

    Littletink90 [sign in to see picture]
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    thanks for the link, i'll take a look now and see what is best for me

    Littletink90 [sign in to see picture]
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    i think i want something insertable...if anyone can help please let me know

    CurlyCoupleWife [sign in to see picture]
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    I love this one - it's great if you're after a vibrator that teases your G-Spot http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16030

    These are a great deal if you fancy trying out something smooth, insertable & non-vibrating http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17187

    In either case I'd probably buy some lube too - this one's my favourite http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=7163

    Let us know how you get on.

    CCW x

    Laveila [sign in to see picture]
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    well. my advice would be to think about the size you want to have. How girthy etc you want it. I personally prefer toys under 5 inches in cirfumference. My largest is about 4.75inches in circumference. whether you want vibrator or you want to try dildo. Flexible or firm? I guess thats those basic questions.

    As for lube, it depends on what your body can take.Most lubes can cause trush for me, if they contain glycerin and paraben. But most people are ok with durex or liquid silk. I personally go for Sliquid or Lelo, as those are the lubes my body can take and not suffer a nasty reaction.

    Littletink90 [sign in to see picture]
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    thanks for the help

    SweetSubmission [sign in to see picture]
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    How about this?


    Good for both insertion and clit stim, and as it's Tracey Cox, you're guaranteed good quality. Hope you find something you like, let us know what you go for in the end!

    SS xx

    Purr-fection [sign in to see picture]
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    For my first I bought this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2

    Something cheap and cheerful. Insertable and can be used as clit stim too, plus if its not for you, you've not taken too much of a hit!

    kinky.kitty [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm new here but I also have a query about buying a new toy, however my situation may be slightly different from others.

    I'm still a virgin. I stimulate my clitoris but have not penetrated yet. Can anyone recommend something for me to try for penetration please? I think something flexible, not rigid, i don't know how big though. I would love to see if i can orgasm through penetration as my clitoris only has been my best friend!

    By the way, i'm loving lovehoney! there are so many things here, especially for plus size girls like me!


    innocent-on-the-outside [sign in to see picture]
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    i was a virgin when i got my first sex toy, i ended up getting this - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=408 once you've found a toy you like i would definatly recomend putting a towel down when you first use it! i also looked at this which i think would be good - Slender Wand Mini Rabbit Vibrator

    if you enjoy clitoral stimulation a rabbit would be good - i have one now and its my best friend

    kinky.kitty [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for the ideas! It will help me make an informed decision. =D

    innocent-on-the-outside, I saw in one of the other threads that you still live with your parents, i live with parents too for the moment, so how do you buy toys without them wanting to know whats in the box being delivered?


    HellsBells72 [sign in to see picture]
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    tell them it's a mail order christmas gift for them

    that'll shut em up at this time of year.

    Me personally, I've just ordered http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14420 which is something I've been lusting after for a while.

    But I have to say I have quite a collection. I love my http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1546 that i got for a fiver as a deal of the day a while back (or another offer - brilliant value for a fiver)

    But I also have http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15592 (don't like it)

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21234 (LOVE THIS - just about my favourite toy)

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9239 (this is good because you can use the head for clitoral and gspot use - so perhaps a good choice for a first toy)

    Got a few other things too - wevibe, a couple of bullets etc. I personally don't like ladyfingers.

    Can't wait to get my mr big - i'm sure i'll get it on tuesday or thereabouts.

    Hope you have some fun

    Elle_S [sign in to see picture]
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    My first toy was from Love Honey. I wanted something that looked nice, was easy to use and waterproof so I went with the Doc Johnson Vivid Dreams Lanny vibrator http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16778

    I still use it, and love it.

    Finger rings are also a good buy, and cheap too.

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