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  1. Anal Sex for beginners, any advice?

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    Wizzie86 [sign in to see picture]
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    smirnoff09 wrote:

    relax...lots of fore play and I find using a vibe on my clit while he enters me works amazingly well...

    I also use a vibe on my clit during anal sex and it really does help me to relax during penetration

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    I wouldn't use any desensitising creams or such, pain is a valuable message.

    I'll leave the insertion advice primarily to others!

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    BashfulBabe wrote:

    WandA wrote:

    Step 1: Aim for the Anus.

    Actually better advice than you'd think. You would not believe the number of guys who have battered me black and blue stabbing blindly and hoping for the best, like some deviant version of pin the tail on the donkey!

    To be fair to we guys it's hard to see where it's aiming at looking down at it. plus all the lubricant makes things slippy. Not that I'm saying I have a bad aim or anything...

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    Muz333 wrote:

    BashfulBabe wrote:

    WandA wrote:

    Step 1: Aim for the Anus.

    Actually better advice than you'd think. You would not believe the number of guys who have battered me black and blue stabbing blindly and hoping for the best, like some deviant version of pin the tail on the donkey!

    To be fair to we guys it's hard to see where it's aiming at looking down at it. plus all the lubricant makes things slippy. Not that I'm saying I have a bad aim or anything...

    I think some funnel system should be employed...

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    WandA wrote:

    I think some funnel system should be employed...

    I don't know what the other half would have to say about that. Perhaps a pen laser cock ring for a red dot site would be ideal?

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    Muz333 wrote:

    WandA wrote:

    I think some funnel system should be employed...

    I don't know what the other half would have to say about that. Perhaps a pen laser cock ring for a red dot site would be ideal?

    Or those parking reverse sensors.

    Beep. Beeep. Beeeep. Beeeeeeeeeeeeep.

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    WandA wrote:

    Or those parking reverse sensors.

    Beep. Beeep. Beeeep. Beeeeeeeeeeeeep.

    Haha, brilliant! You seem to give me a laugh a day!

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    Muz333 wrote:

    WandA wrote:

    Or those parking reverse sensors.

    Beep. Beeep. Beeeep. Beeeeeeeeeeeeep.

    Haha, brilliant! You seem to give me a laugh a day!

    Better than an apple, not as good as a cum. Meh.

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    The wonderful M&S got me this for christmas http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053 it's great - really squishy and tiny!

    Adx

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    AdnaW wrote:

    The wonderful M&S got me this for christmas http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053 it's great - really squishy and tiny!

    Adx

    Phew. Had me nervous for a while there.

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    WandA wrote:

    Phew. Had me nervous for a while there.

    And why would that be, surely your not admitting to being tiny here!?

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    Muz333 wrote:

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    Phew. Had me nervous for a while there.

    And why would that be, surely your not admitting to being tiny here!?

    Only for comedic effect of course.

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    Alicia D'amore wrote:

    The wonderful M&S got me this for christmas http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053 it's great - really squishy and tiny!

    Adx

    It looks really big! I'm looking for a first anal toy something not too scary!

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    Ilovemyman wrote:

    Alicia D'amore wrote:

    The wonderful M&S got me this for christmas http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053 it's great - really squishy and tiny!

    Adx

    It looks really big! I'm looking for a first anal toy something not too scary!

    No its about 5 inches long but not too round at all .And you don't have to ram it all in at once.Its quite a nice small one to start with just remember lube,lube and more lube just take it really slow and enjoy yourselves
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    I'm still convincing the OH to give anal another go! I think tonight could be the night, he is really horny today so he might be tempted!

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    Ilovemyman wrote:

    I'm still convincing the OH to give anal another go! I think tonight could be the night, he is really horny today so he might be tempted!

    fingers crossed and take it real slowly

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    Ilovemyman wrote:

    Alicia D'amore wrote:

    The wonderful M&S got me this for christmas http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053 it's great - really squishy and tiny!

    Adx

    It looks really big! I'm looking for a first anal toy something not too scary!

    Wow I never saw this back in August! The one I linked there is tiny! Not big at all - look at the video - definitely a good beginners toy.

    Adxx

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    Alicia D'amore wrote:

    Ilovemyman wrote:

    Alicia D'amore wrote:

    The wonderful M&S got me this for christmas http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053 it's great - really squishy and tiny!

    Adx

    It looks really big! I'm looking for a first anal toy something not too scary!

    Wow I never saw this back in August! The one I linked there is tiny! Not big at all - look at the video - definitely a good beginners toy.

    Adxx

    Have you used it while you are having PIV sex? If you have did it stay in? x

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    Ilovemyman wrote:

    Alicia D'amore wrote:

    Ilovemyman wrote:

    Alicia D'amore wrote:

    The wonderful M&S got me this for christmas http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053 it's great - really squishy and tiny!

    Adx

    It looks really big! I'm looking for a first anal toy something not too scary!

    Wow I never saw this back in August! The one I linked there is tiny! Not big at all - look at the video - definitely a good beginners toy.

    Adxx

    Have you used it while you are having PIV sex? If you have did it stay in? x

    I haven't no, but the shape ot being a plug with a narrower neck means it *should* stay in. I can't vouch for whether it does but I don't see why it wouldn't. It's a great plug because it's so squishy, it's fairly comfortable so I'd definitely recommend it!

    Adx

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    1st port of call is relaxation

    2- gentle rubbing around the anus or licking

    3-lots of lube

    4-a finger

    5- if you are relaxed enough start to introduce toys, basic butt buddy is where i started.

    Before long the experience gets a lot easier and less painful/more enjoyable for the both of you

    Insert slow .... very slow and listen to each other at all times.

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