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  1. Anal Sex for beginners, any advice?

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    Tigerlilies [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree with Malteaser that buying a set or kit would be an excellent idea. It's also worth investing in a lubricant that is designed for anal play. I recommend Sliquid http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11373

    This kit has plugs that are slightly less adventurous with a tapered end for £14.99:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12389

    This set has some unusual shapes for £19.99

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16919

    A kit designed for beginners with a vibrator included for £26.99:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13504

    Play safe and have fun.

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    Malteser81 [sign in to see picture]
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    Oooooo, love the look of the second set TL http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16919

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    Malteser81 [sign in to see picture]
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    headsouth wrote:

    Interesting advice, thanks! Those are some funky shapes... I'd wonder about mess with such intricate shapes, but they do look like fun!

    That Tracey Cox kit does look interesting, might be a good investment.

    Does you partner own a Douche..... if not then these are fantastic. A few squirts of warm water and half an hour l8r away you go without any worries. This one I own and is pretty simple and does exactly what its supposed to http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=952. There are others with attachments such as http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9035 and if ud like to clean a bit further than can try an enema douche http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2957.

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    songsforpolarbears [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi everyone,

    My girlfriend and I are gonna use our new purchase tomorrow.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053

    We're planning on having some fun in the shower, but won't the shower wash all the lube away? I mean, water is slippy, but nowhere near as slippy as lube. Hope I'm making sense.

    Thanks!

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    songsforpolarbears wrote:

    Hi everyone,

    My girlfriend and I are gonna use our new purchase tomorrow.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053

    We're planning on having some fun in the shower, but won't the shower wash all the lube away? I mean, water is slippy, but nowhere near as slippy as lube. Hope I'm making sense.

    Thanks!

    Silicone based lube would be a good idea.

    We received that as a present from one of the lovely members here. Well recommended!

    Hope you enjoy yourself!

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    RealEnglish [sign in to see picture]
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    When it comes to Anal, its hard to use too much lube.

    Just take your time and listen to each other. It is incredibly erotic for both of you if done right.

    Mind you, some things are better to give than receive and I have hard time relaxing when the boot is on the other foot.

    My OH is now a BIG fan though.

    RE

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    SEXYGET 69 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hiya RealEnglish and welcome to the forums. Has anyone ever told you that you don't half look like The Rock? :-p SG

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    wetpussy [sign in to see picture]
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    me and oh tried some anal play for the very first time 4 days and i must say it felt amazing. didnt think i would of enjoyed it so much but i did. we was looking into to buying some anal toys but really dont want to now as last night we had full anal sex and allday ive been going around with a big grin on my face and keep saying 'WOW'. told him im up for more tonight and cant wait till he comes home from work and to do his magic!!!!

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    Vanquish [sign in to see picture]
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    Guys and gals, I have a few questions before I order one of these:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13333

    Is it too big for a beginner? I don't want my girl to shy away. I'll buy two so I can use one myself and make it easier for her. I'm also worried the base isn't flared enough. Is there a danger it'll slip in? Glass is so slippery. Thank you!

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    Vanquish [sign in to see picture]
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    Argh, something's wrong with the address, it's for the LoveHoney Starter Orgasmic Glass Butt Plug. This is a working one, let's hope it works this time: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13333

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    Muz333 [sign in to see picture]
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    Vanquish wrote:

    Argh, something's wrong with the address, it's for the LoveHoney Starter Orgasmic Glass Butt Plug. This is a working one, let's hope it works this time: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13333

    It's bigger than most starter ones but it's certainly not huge. I'm thinking of grabbing one as it would be much easier to clean and wouldn't have that horrid chemical smell to it.

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    Vanquish [sign in to see picture]
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    Okay, great.

    My main concern is the base. Is it wide enough so I don't have to worry?

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    BashfulBabe [sign in to see picture]
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    How 'beginner' is she? Like have ye done any anal play at all, or just not with toys? A lot of the fear comes from the idea of stretching too wide, and even though that's billed as for beginners, at nearly 2inches, I'd think that'd be a bit too intimidating for someone already a little nervy. A lot of folk love the BASIC one: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053 and that's a lot slimmer, even if it's not as pretty. Might be better for getting her used to the idea of having a toy in her bum, so she'll be happier to try something nicer like the glass.

    The flared base isn't a problem, really, you tend to end up gripping on the neck and the danger's more from the muscles sucking back - so something slimmer would slide in no bother - than gaping open and swallowing anything not nailed down. Bigger bases do make it easier to grip when you're removing them, but the glass one's thick as well, so should be easy to get a firm hold.

    It's a very pretty one, but unless you've been playing before she might find it a bit much to go straight from nothing going up there to an almost 2inch stretch (and it looks very solid, which might be intimidating), so slimmer stuff might be an idea to ease her into the idea. If ye've done a bit of anal play, used fingers even, then she should be fine to use it.

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    Muz333 [sign in to see picture]
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    We recently got that basic one (as you can tell by the review there) and it's decent enough but I really don't like it's chemical smell. Probably an idea to use that before investing in a larger glass one. I can tell you that my other half isn't that keen on the glass one as it looks a bit big but she's a real beginner at this and not really into anal play. She did say the basic plug felt strange but not uncomfortable and also added to the sensation of sex. I think once she's gotten used to it a bit I'll grab the glass one and chuck the toxic smelling basic plug.

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    Vanquish [sign in to see picture]
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    My SO has already had anal sex, albeit quite a while back. But she's into it. Hasn't yet done it wit me but this could be a nice intro into anal sex for us. She could pop one into me, then I'd pop it into her and so on. Yeah, it's not the smallest thing, but it's just a slither slimmer than my cock so it should stretch her just enough. I'd start off with fingers, of course. Not keen on the basic one. Glass seems more upscale. ;). Like I said, she has done anal before.

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    Muz333 [sign in to see picture]
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    Vanquish wrote:

    My SO has already had anal sex, albeit quite a while back. But she's into it. Hasn't yet done it wit me but this could be a nice intro into anal sex for us. She could pop one into me, then I'd pop it into her and so on. Yeah, it's not the smallest thing, but it's just a slither slimmer than my cock so it should stretch her just enough. I'd start off with fingers, of course. Not keen on the basic one. Glass seems more upscale. ;). Like I said, she has done anal before.

    Let me know how it all goes then, I'm really interested in that glass plug and have it on my next five to buy list.

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    Wizzie86 [sign in to see picture]
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    It is larger than a standard starter butt plug and with the glass, it obviously won't be flexible. If you want to build up to anal sex then I would recommend the Tracey Cox Advanced Anal kit, which contains one medium and one slightly larger butt plug. They are a really nice soft and flexible material so they are easy to insert and comfortable to wear. They are also very easy to clean. You can also place a bullet vibe inside them to make them vibrate, which feels really good! You could use one and your partner could use the other? If your partner hasn't had anal sex for a long time then it might be nice to try anal beads? You don't have worry about the size and it allows your partner to get used to the opening/closing sensation associated with anal sex. You can pick up a set cheaply and they are a lot less daunting than most butt plugs. Whatever toy you decide to use, I recommend that you also use a good anal lubricant. Many of them contain ingredients to help relax the muscles, which is important when you are not used to it! Using fingers to build up is a very good idea. Hope that helps x

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    smirnoff09 [sign in to see picture]
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    relax...lots of fore play and I find using a vibe on my clit while he enters me works amazingly well...

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Step 1: Aim for the Anus.

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    BashfulBabe [sign in to see picture]
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    WandA wrote:

    Step 1: Aim for the Anus.

    Actually better advice than you'd think. You would not believe the number of guys who have battered me black and blue stabbing blindly and hoping for the best, like some deviant version of pin the tail on the donkey!

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