We've only used it the once. Its hopefully getting a run out again this weekend. After discussing my wife said she felt it was too much and also a bit painful. She is only 5ft 2 and pretty slim.
Have i been completely unrealistic and overshot the mark? My thoughts for the weekend where to try some foreplay with fingers and try and 'warm her up' down below before going in for the big fella. That and use shit loads of lube and let her penetrate herself. I did it last time and I was very slow but perhaps she'll be even slower.
Should I give up if we've can't get it right this time? Any tips. She did say she was willing to try with a smaller one if no joy - any suggestions? It needs to be suction cup as I want her to be able to ride it hands free ( part of my fantasy ). I love her so much for being willing to try again. Seems a shame to chuck it after one go