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  1. My first experience of male chastity (CB-3000)

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    Lubyanka [sign in to see picture]
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    I ask that you please refrain from putting words into my mouth. I don't know where you got any idea that I liked or did not like any information provided by your wife, and I don't know where you got any idea that I liked or did not like the idea that chastity play includes some health implications. I also don't know where you got any idea that my partner is not already under the supervision of his GP.

    Since you seem determined to invent adversarial conditions which I consistently haven't provided, I'll leave you to get on with it without me.

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    Gyrator53 [sign in to see picture]
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    I certainly don't think I have put words into your mouth. Your comment that I quoted above is in a post directly following one in which I mention that my wife is a doctor. It seemed to me that in that context you were suggesting I gain the opinion of my wife to refine the information you have. If you meant something else then I can't think what it would be.

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    Slave Malcom [sign in to see picture]
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    I do love the power Mistress holds over me because of my CB-3000, although it did take me a while to learn to really live with it.

    The stocking method didn't work for me, and i've also found that it took weeks, if not months to sort out the spacings and correct rig sizes. But now we have got that sorted, its fine. Make sure to lub up with something that stays wet for a while, and moisturise to avoid getting sores from rubbing. I can wear my CB for extended periods of time now, as Mistress also bought me a cleaning kit that allows me to clean inside the CB-3000 whilst its on.

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    How would you like a husband who you can teach to sexually satisfy you both manually and orally without the pressure of him wanting to jump on top of you? To have foreplay for as long as you like, and when you are totally spent, you can just lay down in his arms with him cuddling and stroking you until you fall asleep? That is exactly what my wife has.

    I have been locked up 24/7 for the last 15 months, with release about every 3-4 weeks. To earn release she has a weekly rota which includes washing up, ironing, cleaning the bathroom, cooking all meals on a Sunday, and even painting her nails. I do not know when the next release will be, but I do know that if I do not keep her happy it will be longer.

    For hygiene reasons she replaces the lock with a coloured cable tie when I shower, and every couple of days she puts ankle clamps on me, and I am then able to remove the CB3000, which I then clean under her supervision. Only when I have put the CB3000 back on will she then take off the ankle clamps.

    When we first started she locked me up for double the previous time, so 1 day, 2 days, 4 days, 8 days etc until I got used to it. The first week is the hardest, but after that you get used to it. She teases me all the time which keeps me on the edge by playing with my nipples while I’m washing up etc, which I love. She will also tie me to the bed, take off the CB3000, and stroke my member while she is using her rabbit on herself. When I am released it is normally during one of these sessions, so that she can replace the Cb3000 while I'm still tied.

    To many this may all sound barbaric, but now I love it. Before Chastity I tended to be sexually selfish, but now I want to please my wife, I have become a master at foreplay, and we have a very strong relationship. I would definitely recommend it.

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    diamonds [sign in to see picture]
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    hmm i like the whole idea of teaseing my man so much but him not being able to wank or have sex.... but i wouldnt want him locked up all the time and thats the whole idea of these.... plus i dont think my man would be intreasted in this at all! just have to tie him up every now and then instead :P.

    Dxx

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    Slave Malcom [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi CB man - have also been using a CB3000 for extended periods of time, I find the cell mates cleaning kit from Tickelberry (wish LH would stock this, bet they'd sell it for over half the price!) very useful indeed. It negates the need for having to have the cage removed every couple of days for cleaning as it allows you to clean up with it still on. Just remember to dry your privites thoroughly afterwards to avoid rubbing and sores!

    These devices are so simple yet so powerful, it really has been a revelation to Mistress and I. If you don't want to go full on D, get a chastity device that is only intended for short term wear, like:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8086

    Then put it on your man for maybe a few hours, see how things go. It depends if mr. D has any submissive tendancies in him or not as to how much he would enjoy it!

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    diamonds [sign in to see picture]
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    hey SM, that looks rather scary to me! then again as im the girl i wouldnt have to wear it :P lol. dont think i could get my man to put that on, think the best i can hope for is just being aloud to keep tieing him up :P (tho i do wish he would tie me up!)

    Dxx

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    CB-Man [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Slave Malcom, thanks for the info. I take it that these Cell mates can only be used once which means that you need to keep buying this kit very regularly?

    Hi Diamonds, you seem to have made plenty of visits to this forum for someone who is not that interested. Only you know if chastity is something that your man would be willing to try and would benefit you. Perhaps if you locked him up for just a few hours you would both see the heightened sexual chemistry that it would have between you. I'm sure if you teased him and made him perform oral sex on you, he would see how powerful it is.

    My wife is not the dominating type, and I can't see that she would ever be, but for her it is something that takes minimal effort on her part, but the rewards are great. She realises that after I come I lose my libedo and not so loving for a period of time, but if kept in chastity I feel this overwhelming desire to please her. From reading various books this seems to be a medical thing that after a certain time a male who has not come will become consumed with thoughts on achieving this. If this means doing as your lover asks, then that is what you will do!

    One last point, there has been times when I have got too consumed and a little too amorous. Believe me, when she tells me to stop or risk adding more time to my confinement, I stop!!

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    diamonds wrote:

    hmm i like the whole idea of teaseing my man so much but him not being able to wank or have sex.... but i wouldnt want him locked up all the time and thats the whole idea of these.... plus i dont think my man would be intreasted in this at all! just have to tie him up every now and then instead :P.

    Dxx

    You don't have to have him locked up all the time for it to have an effect. Just being in one, unable even to touch his cock will certainly get his attention. I never knew how much I touched myself until I was put in chastity (thankfully not all the time). Especially when it stops him getting hard, he'll be reminded of you.

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    Hi CB. The cellmates sticks wash up perfectly well. They are like cotton buds but the have little sponges on the end. so they don't fall apart - just use with normal shower gel and rinse using the shower head (make sure you dry your member properly after and re lube!). I've been using then for about 6 months and have only needed to one set of the sticks, still got 5 i haven't touched so they last ages!. ( i didn't bother with the wipes or lub refills, as I can get much cheaper lube of LH and much cheaper wipes from superdrug!)

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    Slave Malcom [sign in to see picture]
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    Here's the link btw (sorry, i know its non LH!)

    http://www.tickleberry.co.uk/p/chastity-hygiene/cellmates-cleansing-tips/chs035.html

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    Slave Malcom [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi CB-man

    Just a thought i've had and am going to try based on what people ahve said in another thread about oils - baby oil might be a good bet for lubing the inside of the cage whilst on. I find that if you have been 'incarcerated' for a lengthy period of time - upon release (or should i say parol to conitnue the theme!) your member dries out pretty quick and lots of moisturising is required. Baby oil is pretty good for the skin, so maybe this will sort that out. My only concern is the number of times i'll need to lube up a day to keep everything moist! Will keep you updated!

    sm

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    Oil based lubricants provide a good environment for bacteria to thrive. I'm sure for short periods baby oil would be fine in a chastity device. I should really add a section on lubricants to my prostate milking resource, but I haven't done it yet. During my research, I did find many good hygiene-related reasons why using only water based lubricants is preferable.

    The fact that an oil based lubricant persists on the skin is what makes it possible for bacteria to thrive there. So for any longer than a day in the device, I'd recommend using only water based lubricants.

    Tom Allen of http://vanillaedge.wordpress.com/ says it well in a comment on my blog:

    http://ladylubyanka.wordpress.com/2007/12/24/experiences-in-chastity-episode-1-fitting-wearing-and-keyholding/#comment-679

    I really must try Sliquid's range of water based lubricants sometime soon. :) For now, Liquid Silk has given me the best results of the water based lubricants I've tried (even though it does have a small bit of silicone in it).

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    Slave Malcom [sign in to see picture]
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    Ahh, thanks Lubyanka - might re think my baby oil idea now! I;ve been using liquid silk now for a while as well and it serves fine - the problem comes when i'm let out for a while. I guess the solution for Mistress is simple - unlock me less!

    I guess i'll just have to stick to using a moisturiser when I'm let out.

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    Slave Malcom wrote:

    I guess i'll just have to stick to using a moisturiser when I'm let out.

    Oh, I misunderstood you, I thought you were talking about lubricants whilst locked in your device, ooops, sorry. When you're out of your device, I'm sure baby oil is absolutely fine. But a water based moisturiser is probably better. :)

    Also, antibacterial cleansers, as well as being very, very evil, are really harsh on the skin so I would avoid those completely.

    Ok, I'm stopping now. :p

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    Slave Malcom [sign in to see picture]
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    Sorry for the confusion Lubyanka. No need to stop! I learn more from your comments on the forum then in hours of web surfing!

    I only use anti-bac cleaners on the device its self when I'm unlocked as I figure its nice to get it as clean as possible before it goes back on. As for a moisturiser - I thknk i'll stick with my E45 - it seems to do the job so far!

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    Slave Malcom [sign in to see picture]
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    And i love the book/box you put together for kvetch!

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    Lubyanka [sign in to see picture]
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    Please, if you give any credence to my advice at all, take all your antibacterial cleansers, no matter what they're for, and throw them away. I give you my personal guarantee (if that's worth anything to you) that regular cleansers are every bit as effective as antibacterials. Not only are regular cleansers just as clean, but they are also much gentler on your skin. Ask any doctor.

    I have an entire section of the prostate milking bibliography devoted to the evils of antibacterial badness:

    http://ladylubyanka.wordpress.com/dim-sum/resources1/refs/#Soap

    And thank you very much for validating my ramblings, and for your kind sentiments about kvetch's chastity kit. :)

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    Lubyanka wrote:

    Oil based lubricants provide a good environment for bacteria to thrive. I'm sure for short periods baby oil would be fine in a chastity device. I should really add a section on lubricants to my prostate milking resource, but I haven't done it yet. During my research, I did find many good hygiene-related reasons why using only water based lubricants is preferable.

    The fact that an oil based lubricant persists on the skin is what makes it possible for bacteria to thrive there. So for any longer than a day in the device, I'd recommend using only water based lubricants.

    Tom Allen of http://vanillaedge.wordpress.com/ says it well in a comment on my blog:

    http://ladylubyanka.wordpress.com/2007/12/24/experiences-in-chastity-episode-1-fitting-wearing-and-keyholding/#comment-679

    I really must try Sliquid's range of water based lubricants sometime soon. :) For now, Liquid Silk has given me the best results of the water based lubricants I've tried (even though it does have a small bit of silicone in it).

    I started experimenting with chastity in January by getting a Curve (have only just got the bf round to admit he enjoys the idea) I have been experimenting with lubes, started with water based but quickly moved to baby oil as I found I needed some form of lubricant for the nocturnal hardons pulling on the scrotal skin and making it quite painfully stretched and the water based was drying out long before this.

    With baby oil I quickly discovered the issue lubyanka mentions here of it being a perfect place for bacteria to thrive, to say the least, even after thoroughly cleaning the Curve including using some diluted Dettol it quickly became quite smelly in the area within hours.

    I've since moved to Silicone lube, it stays moist enough to lubricant as necessary and doesn't dry up. It does require cleaning up and re-applying as all lubes would do, but crucially, the BF has mentioned he loves how soft and smooth it makes the skin on my cock feel. (A side effect I love as well)

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    Lubyanka [sign in to see picture]
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    Heh, silicone is non-water based, so in that sense I consider it part of the oil-based group.

    One helpful tip I discovered is that whilst I will only use a water based lubricant within the cage portion of kvetch's device, I find that any kind of lubricant at all can be used on the scrotum, and the slippier the better. Because the scrotum is not enclosed in the way the penis is in the cage, I find that oil based lubricants are fine to be used in that crucial place underneath the scrotum where the ring can chafe.

    And silicone certainly does leave the skin feeling nice, at least for awhile. :)

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