1. Using sex toys to ‘simulate’ / roleplay a threesome?

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    Earl Grey [sign in to see picture]
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    Like many couples out there, the fantasy of a threesome is a pretty hot turn on, but neither of us has any appetite to progres that to the real thing. We recently got a suction cup lifesize dildo and have been thinking about using that to simulate a MMF threesome. We’re also considering buying a flashlight to use to simulate a FMF one as well. Has anyone else tried this? How did it work out? Any tips on how we can make this as ‘real’ as possible, whilst firmly remaining a fantasy? (Also, just to say, nothing against those who do partake for real! Pleased that it works for you in practice!)

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    Earl Grey [sign in to see picture]
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    Sorry, don’t know why all the formatting got lost in that post into one giant block of text!!

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    Earl Grey [sign in to see picture]
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    Also, probably should’ve said in our post above that we’ve already used the dildo (and other toys) for DP - we’re trying to work out how we can make use of them to seem a bit more real!

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    Mr-and-Mrs-B [sign in to see picture]
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    We find the idea of a threesome hot too but neither of us us wish to do it for real. We found that if my wife wears a blindfold during the mmf simulation she could let her imagination run wild.

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    Earl Grey [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks Mr and Mrs B! We’ll give that a go 😀

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    If you got a strapon harness, for you to wear, then it would feel more like a different guy to her, than you using the dildo on her with your hand. It feels more like sex with someone, than using a toy, because it's attached to a body, and you feel their hands on you, their body thumping against you, just like you were having sex. Only she will not feel you, inside her. 

    The blindfold idea of Mr and Mrs B is great too, and you can also, use positions like doggy, so she can't see you.  If you don't speak, that will help maintain the ilusion too. 

    I don't know how you did DP, but if you got this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35052

    It would hold the dildo for her to straddle, Like another guy, and you could come in from behind. 

    If that is pushing the boat out money wise, you could get a similar effect from fastening this around a pillow, or rolled up duvet, https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=7332

    Or if you lay on your back, and bring your feet up the bed towards your bum, then she kneels between your feet with her back to you, and moves back unto your cock letting her feet go under your raised knees. Then you will be able to activly use a dildo on her anally, as if it were another guy.

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    VioletWolf [sign in to see picture]
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    Suction cup dildo (like the realistic lover) if you’re wanting to introduce oral, so for example you could either stick the dildo to a chair, go with the blindfold option and let her work your peen while she sits on the dildo, or stick it to the wall and have her work that while you bend her over to take from behind. Just be careful with that not to thrust too hard, don’t want any concussions 🙈 Also with the blindfold idea, wear a leather glove on one hand, alternate touches 👌🏻

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    Lots of ideas on here which look great to try. We have used the blindfold along with an under bed restraint kit, a rabbit and a dildo to simulate triple penetration.

    However, it’s not easy to concentrate on any sort of rhythm when my old chap is being vigorously pleasured by my OH’s tongue!

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    Hey Guys! Sorry about this but I'm a student doing research into peoples experience with sex toys, would anyone be interested in filling out a survey?

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    Avia wrote:

    Hey Guys! Sorry about this but I'm a student doing research into peoples experience with sex toys, would anyone be interested in filling out a survey?

    The giving out of any form of contact information is not allowed on this forum, I don't know any other way for you to do this directly with any forum members. So I would suggest you contact customer services and ask if there is any way that they could help you find people to fill in your survey.

    I know there have been studies, which were put up on the forum, by the forum moderator: asking for volunteers, on behalf of the people doing the studies. So this maybe possible for your study.

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