1. Need help choosing a toy

    Pwta [sign in to see picture]
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    Im asking for my wife, She struggles with having an orgasm, We have tried many ways including toys, What we have found is that she needs a toy with really hard vibrations. She has one that she presses very hard on her clit and with stimulation of nipples for ages. We some times get her to orgasm. But she tells me the higher the vibrations, The closer she gets. Has anyone got suggestions on toys we could try without buying the wrong ones. Or maybe better ways... Welcome to ask more info if needed...

    Jezebella [sign in to see picture]
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    I think a wand vibrator would probably do the job. This one is meant to be very powerful:


    KingGrthy [sign in to see picture]
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    Agreed, get a wand. Or a We-vibe Tango! The little guy vibrates so hard it’s a little difficult to hold onto lol!

    Ian Chimp [sign in to see picture]
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    It's tough to give advice on what someone else may like as every body is different, but I can tell you a bit about what my wife likes and maybe it may give you some ideas?

    My wife's favourite toy for her clitoris is the Lovehoney mini-wand. It's strong and small enough to use with other things, like her perfect curve g-spot vibrator or her beaded glass dildo (highly recommended). It can also be used while we have sex too, so it's very versatile.


    They also do the full size wand (both 'classic' and 'deluxe'). These ones are mains powered so have some serious kick.


    Her favourite rabbit toy at the moment is the Happy Rabbit G-spot vibrator. It's very firm in both the ears and shaft, so it feels quite girthy and there's more pressure on her clit than with the other, softer flickering rabbit ears on other models.


    A left-field suggestion for nipple play is the Tracey Cox Supersex Clitoral Vibe. My wife does like it on her clit though it is a gentler sensation than maybe what you're after, but we also use it on her nipples to great effect.


    We love to try out new toys, and with Lovehoney's fantastic sales and rewards we tend to pick a few interesting bits and pieces while they're discounted as this let's us explore so much more within our budget. And don't forget the extra 20% off when you buy two Lovehoney sex toys, it's well worth pulling the list up to see what's included (the same goes for lingerie).

    Lingerie and compliments are also a firm favourite of my wife, as feeling sexy and appreciated let's her relax into it a lot easier.

    Hope this helps.

    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    If she likes super strong sensations then I agree, a mains powered wand is probably the best route to go down.

    I like this one https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37263

    But the Doxy is highly recommended too https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37000

    LIL_KNOWN69 [sign in to see picture]
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    Wands are excellent and for strong vibrations a mains powered one is quite hard to beat, so I would defiantly invest in one! But I’m terms of clitoral stimulation I would go for a womanizer, they have a huge success rate for orgasm and give a suck and vibrate sensation which will get her toes curling:


    They are incredible and worth the money even if it does seem rather expensive at first glance, it’s rechargeable and super discreet compared to a wand.

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