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  1. New Toys For The BF...Suggestions?

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    CatB [sign in to see picture]
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    My boyfriend and I are starting to look into anal play for him but we are having a little trouble looking for the right beginner toy. Does anyone have any suggestions of what might be good to start with?

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    Phelps [sign in to see picture]
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    I started off with this one and it was great to get me used to the feeling of having something up there. Also nice and easy to get in and its nice and cheap so it's easy to get your monies worth before moving on to something else if you enjoy it.
    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16665

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    I guess it depends on what sort of anal play you are looking for (just how far down the rabbit hole does he want to go?)

    Butt plugs may be a good place to start - https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/butt-plugs/beginners-butt-plugs/ or even prostate massagers https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/prostate-massagers/ Look for "beginner" sizes, I'd say somewhere around 3-4 inch circumference or so.

    There are also beginner strap on harnesses for pegging that include beginner friendly dildos (say around 5inch in length) although to go from nothing to pegging may be a step too far until he is comfortable / confident with how things feel for him

    Somthing like https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35236 this starter kit may be worth a look, has a bit of everything.

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    KingGrthy [sign in to see picture]
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    I still think the Lovehoney beaded glass dildo is a great start. It is not too big but also has the large end for when hes ready to push the envelope a bit more. The bumps really help to relax those muscles back there with some thrusting, and they provide a great deal of stimulation across the prostate as well.

    Defiantely get a good butt plug or three haha. Now what follows is really intended for if he is up for some really intense fun. I really like the Doc Johnson B-7 as a decent beginner/intermediate plug, it will take some working up to before he can fit the first bump comfortably but once there it is a great toy for transitioning to larger girths from the 4inch range up to the 6 inch, its also a fairly deep plug for a beginner and can start to get him going that direction too. As a bare minimum I think it is worth getting comfortable with this plug whatever his actual desires are in terms of how far down the rabbit hole he wants to go as Senator puts it. Being able to accomodate the girth and length will mean that he will be able to fully experience the pleasure of any smaller plugs or dildos without discomfort, that is important in my opinion, I can take a big girth but sometimes it is really nice to just take something not so big and just focus on all the sensation and enjoy that without the super intense feelings of being stretched and filled to the max (although it is pretty epic).

    With those two toys alone he can be well on his way. After the B-7 can be accomodated in full, then its time to move up to something a bit more aggressive like the Doc Johnson Master Tool and maybe a Extra Girthy King Cock. Its a bit of a stretch from the B7 to be honest but once he gets there you will be pretty close to being able to fist him.

    If hes just interested in wearing a plug during sex though, or being pegged, there is no need to go to such lengths beyond the B-7.

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    CatB wrote:

    My boyfriend and I are starting to look into anal play for him but we are having a little trouble looking for the right beginner toy. Does anyone have any suggestions of what might be good to start with?

    Honestly, your fingers make a great toy.

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