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  1. My partner died and I threw away our toys!!

    Haras75 [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 2 Apr 2014 my life and toy companion died last month and the next day I binned our collection in my grief! I need to get some more,is there anything I should look at for solo play? Not too keen on anything needing batteries!!

    LadySpider [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey Haras

    So very, very, sorry to read of your loss, my love....sending lots of big comforting hugs your way, also sorry you threw away your collection, but its fab that you're feeling strong enough to start building a new collection.

    For solo play I LOVE this mantric rabbit style vibe - it's rechargeable too.

    I've just recently purchased this 'Womanizer Starlet' - again rechargeable but quite noisy! It's a fab little clit suction toy though... and delivers multiple orgasms easily!

    This Mimi clit stimulator is great too - and very powerful!

    And finally from me... the Tracey Cox glass dildo set... I have lots of glass toys, but these remain my firm favorite.

    Oh..and don't forget the lube! Plenty of that here, the Sliquid Organics natural gel is lovely, and you only need a tiny amount, it doesn't dry out quickly...and it's a big bottle so it will last ages!

    Enjoy, my lovely xx

    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Haras,

    I am so sorry to read about you loss, and I am sending my deepest condolences and some huge virtual hugs to you xx

    I love wands myself, so I would highly recommend the FSOG Holy Cow rechargeable wand, as this is one of my go to toys:

    If you want even more power, the Desire rechargeable wand is the closest I have felt to a mains powered one - not that the above wand is not powerful - it really is - but this one is just very, very intense xx

    And the Desire wand is much more weighty too x

    Lu SB [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Haras,

    Great suggestions above. Just here to say sorry about your loss and send you virtual hugs.

    Knight1119 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Haras,

    I’m very sorry to hear of your loss.
    Sorry I can’t advise you on toys, but I wish you all the very best.

    S&M sexy times [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Haras

    I'm just here to say I'm very sorry for your loss you have my condolences, big hugs to you.

    Sole [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Haras,

    I'm really sorry for your loss and all the pain you must be going through.

    As for recomendations it would be better if you could give some clues:

    Do you enjoy/want internal stimulation? would realistic toys be ok or freak you out?

    Have you tried suction air-pulse toys? oscilating toys? classic vibrations?

    Do you like pin point or broad stimulation?

    LIL_KNOWN69 [sign in to see picture]
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    Morning haras.

    Sorry to hear for your loss, I would definitely look at the recommendations above. But to help a little more you may need to give us a few more clues as to what really works for you?

    The Lovehoney classic wand is an absolute must for solo play so I would highly recommend one.

    Ragnar Lodbrok [sign in to see picture]
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    Haras 75

    So sorry to learn of your loss. Please accept our deepest condolencies at this sad time.

    Ragnar and Lethaga


    hampshirecouple [sign in to see picture]
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    Haras75 our deepest condolences for your loss.

    All our love x

    Laveila [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello Haras,

    I am soo sorry about your loss. I know it must be a hard time for you right now. Let us know if you need someone to talk to!

    As for suggestions, depends on what you like. I could recommend glass dildos, and from toys, I really enjoy the Lelo Nea - although it is bit pricy...

    If you are looking for something cheaper, but rechargeable, then I can also recommend this bullet vibe But you need to enjoy pinpoint stimulation, to enjoy this one, otherwise it can get too much.

    We Vibe Tango also has good reviews.

    Rabbit vibrators can be bit a hit and miss, but some women really enjoy them as well.

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