1. Clit vibe with the best 'fit' for during missionary

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    Darth [sign in to see picture]
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    I LOVE my Satisfyer (SO MUCH) but it is entirely the wrong shape to use when my partner is on top of me. I love feeling his weight on me and then the toy needs to go because it's in the way. Having my hand in between us does work, but I have severe RSI and manual stimulation isn't very possible.

    Surely there is a handy little clit vibe that fits between our bodies without stabbing, that is easy to keep hold of (and keep in place) and powerful enough to get me there? I'm picturing something with a curve to fit over my mons and maybe something like a spoon shape to fit over my clit.

    Any advice? Simple bullet vibes are too slippery/hard to keep in place, and rounded hard things can get painful pretty quickly with the pressure of his weight/thrusting

    (I tried an older gen We Vibe with a previous partner but it wasn't powerful enough sadly)

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello!

    You have so many options for clitoral toys, finding one that works can just take some trial and error. Here are a few that come to my mind:

    The Lelo Sona https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38999 is similar to the Satisfyer in that it surrounds the clitoris but the Sona operates via sonic pulses rather than suction or vibration. I have the Cruise version of this and the sensations are unbelievable. The sensations delve deep below the surface of the clitoris and are very powerful. It's smaller than the Satisfyer, rounder and can be held so that the handle is facing the belly button. I've used mine during missionary with no problems at all.

    An ergonomically curved vibrator like the Lovehoney Desire Clitoral Vibe https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33304 could work well for your needs. I've found this shape of toy works well during penetration, particularly in positions where I'm on my back.

    There's also the We-Vibe Touch that has a similar shape and curve to the one I mentioned above. https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30319 - If you want powerful then the Touch is fantastic for that. This one also has the most give to the material which should remove that hard pressure feeling whilst he's thrusting or putting weight on you.

    Last but not least, there's the strap-on or butterfly vibrator. Something like this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38198 that's hands-free, provides powerful clitoral stimulation and doesn't get in the way of vaginal penetration. Lovehoney just released a butterfly vibrator for their Desire collection which is more expensive but it may be a better shape for you?

    Hope you find what you're looking for 😊

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    Darth [sign in to see picture]
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    thnk you for your ideas, I have both the Womanizer and the Satisfyer, so I can't really justify buying the Sona.

    the Desire Luxury vibe is probably closest to what I was picturing. Sadly rather above the budget I was hoping for. Same for the We Vive Touch :-/

    I've tried something similar to that butterfly once but it was awkward and not nearly powerful enough, so I don't think that's the way.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37515 seems like an option in terms of shape. Sadly no word on the power level and I don't fancy spending 30 quid on yet another thing that just tickles me.

    Maybe I just need to buy a finger sleeve and the world's most powerful bullet vibe?

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    The Sona is rather different to the Satisfyer and Womanizer in terms of stimulation. I was expecting it to feel the same but it doesn't. It is good though.

    If that one you linked looks like an option then Tracey Cox also has a similar one in her Supersex range? https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27581

    It has more reviews than the other and scouring the first page I saw the words powerful and packs a punch so there may be hope there? You could always send it back if it doesn't work for you though.

    I've often found that finger sleeves just dull the sensation of the vibe even if it's powerful so I don't know whether that would work. :(

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    LIL_KNOWN69 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey! Have you tried a micro wand?
    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24632
    This bad boy packs a punch and really does give Strong vibrations above any bullet we have tried. It’s also small enough to fit in your bag if your travelling. Not sure if this helps but it’s a great little product

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    Lovehoney - Sparkle [sign in to see picture]
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    I would reccomend the We Vibe Wish or the We Vibe Touch. I have the same issues as yourself during sex and I find these ones really help! The Lelo Nea is a cute one too which I have used lots of times during sex.

    Otherwise I will use the TENGA Iroha Yuki though unfortunately we don't sell it anymore. Shame as it is one of my all time favourite toys

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    I highly recomend the 'Desire Luxury USB Rechargeable Bullet' (most powerful bullet I've ever tried! - and lots of lovely patterns to play aroud with!) https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36366, I've used it several times when having sex in the missionary position - and found it easy to hold or rub on my clit and and not at all intrusive - no more so than must my hand being there. The vibes are so strong he can feel them too :D

    If it;s not a bullet you're after, you could try Lelo Sona https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38998 - half price at the moent too :D I absolute love mine...it's easy to hold no matter what position you're in because of the lovely curved shape:D

    Good luck - hope you find what you're looking for, lovely! x

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi there, I would highly recommend the Lelo Nea 2 - it just fits so perfectly to my body and is so powerful for it's size:

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34536

    Also these cock rings are really amazing and very powerfiul too:

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34697

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33306

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    I love the we-vibe Tango or the Lovehoney Desire bullet (mostly the Desire as I prefer to feel the silicone against my skin, rather than ABS plastic).

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    Darth [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for the ideas! I think I've found the perfect shaped toy for what I want: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36307

    It's even flatter than the normal Desire clit vibe. I've no desire to wear that in my knickers but it looks ideal for holding in place between our bodies. Remote handy but not necessary. Sadly it is not an ideal fit for my budget :-/

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