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  1. Anal Advice

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    SilkySarah [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm thinking about purchasing this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30946 but one of the things I'm worried about is it looks like it could easily be slipped in fully. I've never had anything go in all the way before and I'm worried it'll get stuck or I can't push it out. If that ever a problem? If it goes all the way inside could I get it back out again?

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    2Dogs [sign in to see picture]
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    Did you look at the size??

    "Curved shaft with 7.2 inch insertable length and 5.6 inch girth"

    I doubt it could accidently slip in under normal conditions.... How do you plan to use it and are you agressive / push the limits in back door activities?

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    Quiet ones are worse! [sign in to see picture]
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    It's not really intended for anal use, there is one similar with a ring on the end that may be slightly safer, but I would recommend a butt plug type overall, far safer, that said I've had all sorts up there over the years and survived!

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    VanessaTG [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Sarah,

    What goes in must come out is the simple answer to that question, after all that is what the hole is for to let things out. I have had things go in all the way so the best thing to do is relax, Just pretend you are going to the toilet and give a gente push, maybe squating or part sitting will help as well. If you have used plenty of lube this will help as well with less friction. But is should come back out as easy as it went in providing you relax. If you were to purchase it and are worried, maybe tie a ribbon or something on the end if you are worried. That way you can give it a gentle pull as well.

    Hope this helps

    Vanessa xx

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    Aims85 [sign in to see picture]
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    I have this but I haven't used it anally, should be fine as long as you're careful not to insert fully, in saying that I would be too worried as I love things deep so would end up loosing it!! I will grab a link for the glass one I use anally and it's lush.

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    Aims85 [sign in to see picture]
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    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32885 this is the one I have. Though I've realised it's slimmer so in theory could loose it, never have though, the flared lip stops it.

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    SilkySarah [sign in to see picture]
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    Well I'll try and elaborate on what I'm looking for as these are a little new to me. I don't know if there is such a toy but I'm looking for something that can be slipped in and forgotten about for a while. Movement etc would trigger stimulation but I don't want anything falling out or poking an awkward shape through clothing. Is there such a thing?

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    myrkari [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes, a butt plug will do what you want - maybe try one of those pretty ones with a jewel in the end if that's your style? They won't slip out and the bit that sits outside your body is inside your bum cheeks so won't show through clothing.

    Something like this one maybe: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6336 - there's a whole category of them though!
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    Quiet ones are worse! [sign in to see picture]
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    How about this;
    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37178
    Goes in, stays there, feels nice, nice for others to look at whilst in use? Won't get lost, don't get one too small too.

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    SilkySarah [sign in to see picture]
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    Ohhh those are cute! Actually I think I saw one that caught my attention but I didn't click on it. I'll keep those two and compare and look for some more :)

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    What about this one? https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37925

    Great for beginners, comfortable, stays put!

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    Aims85 [sign in to see picture]
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    OK got you, plugs and anal beads would be what you need... There's some amazing ones on here depending on what you're after xx you can search by length and circumference etc, have fun 😀

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    SquirtyPanda [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello

    I share your fear of my bottom swallowing a dildo you're not alone 😄

    I use this glass dildo for anal https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30945

    Butt plugs of course offer that reasurrance that they shouldn't get swallowed up however if you are after that penetrating anal sex sensation then a plug wont do that for you. Given the above comments you need to work out if you want the stationary feeling of a plug or penetration from a dildo. I am greedy and enjoy both. 😄

    With the glass dildo I hold the bulbed end whilst using it so therefore it cannot go inside me

    I also hold my wand to my clitoris to help relax things whilst using the glass dildo and it gives me amazing orgasms too 😃

    🐼

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    BigInBerks [sign in to see picture]
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    I have had the originally mentioned beaded 8" glass dildo up my bum a few times - I can assure you there isn't too much chance of it disappearing (felt great though!).

    Why not buy the clear glass and the black one in the £30 offer? Try some DP ;)

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    I have the 8" glass beaded dildo and I absolutely adore it up my bum.....large end in first. I honestly don't think it could disappear....it really does feel amazing, particularly if my oh is in my vagina at the same time xx

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    AsYouWish! [sign in to see picture]
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    Just keep hold of one end!

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    KingGrthy [sign in to see picture]
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    I can fully insert the beaded glass dildo either way until it is completely inside me. Never had any issue with it trying to migrate too far up because of the curve I think. The larger bulb is pretty good size anyway so if your not sticking that end in it works as a good flared base.

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    BigInBerks [sign in to see picture]
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    Terri JJ wrote:

    I have the 8" glass beaded dildo and I absolutely adore it up my bum.....large end in first. I honestly don't think it could disappear....it really does feel amazing, particularly if my oh is in my vagina at the same time xx

    There's a few reviews which mention the large end first too. I'm truly staggered (in a good way)!

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    Simon & Jules [sign in to see picture]
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    Terri JJ wrote:

    I have the 8" glass beaded dildo and I absolutely adore it up my bum.....large end in first. I honestly don't think it could disappear....it really does feel amazing, particularly if my oh is in my vagina at the same time xx

    I agree with Terri JJ, I don't think it will completely disappear, it's a fairly large dildo. We wrote a review of it a while ago here: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30946&reviewid=193001#customer_reviews

    The wife uses it on me anally and it's awesome for stretching you out. She's not tried it anally yet but she's been doing anal training with smaller toys and is ready to give it a go. Definately great if you are into anal!

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