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  1. Fleshlite confusion

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    Hunnyluver [sign in to see picture]
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    Always thought male sex toys wer naff so I've never really bovered bar the odd buzzin cock ring , fancy a change from my hands as good as they are n decided on a fleshlite but no clue which one to pick , how can u possibly know without trying them all out ???

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    Couple looking to spice things up [sign in to see picture]
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    Short answer is reviews. Good luck choosing.

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    Lovehoney - Leanne [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey HL, 

    Welcome to the forum firstly! 

    Yes sometimes having too much variety can be a little daunting but we do have some great descriptions and pics of the internal texture inside. Have you tried a male masturbator before? 

    We do have a guide on Fleshlights too that may be a good starting point: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/buyers-guide/lovehoney-guide-to-fleshlights/

    With Fleshlights you will need to take care of it with cleaning, restoration and storage to get the best out your toy so do take a look at this cleaning guide: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/buyers-guide/how-to-clean-a-fleshlight-sex-toy/

    The other insight to each Fleshlight is the reviews as CLTSU has mentioned. They are written by members that have used and tested the toy.

    Good luck with selecting and don't forget we do offer a 365-day return policy! 

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    Cutecountrygirl [sign in to see picture]
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    My partner has one from before we met. We don't really use it often, mostly because of the faff involved cleaning it and storing it, my well lubed hand does a good job with much less mess and hassle. Something to bear in mind.

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    Badger73 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi there and welcome. I know where you are comming from, tried a few of the cheaper strokers and masterbaters and they never really did anything for me. Was lucky enought to be sent a Doc Johnson Main Squeeze Sasha Grey Ultraskyn Realistic Vagina Masterbator and all i can say is compleatly blown my mind. There is also a shower mount for it so you can use it hands free.

    My review is there on it if you want to read it. As stated above there is also the brilliant returns policy.

    Hope you enjoy it on here.

    Mr Badger.

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    AlexS94 [sign in to see picture]
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    We absolutely love using our fleshlight, as you said it makes a welcome change from using a hand. As mentioned above it can be a faff cleaning after use, but for us it is worth having to do that, as every orgasm i have had using the fleshlight has been immense. You will find it a completely different sensation to standard masturbation, or sex.

    In terms of choice, from my experience the fleshlight girls range is where i would look first, as these seem to have a better material. Their are a wide range o patterns and body moulds, so it is really down to what tickles your fancy, and as others have said, check iut the reviews! Its what they are their for, and it is always our first port of call when choosing new toys.

    Good luck, and enjoy

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    Onlyones [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi and welcome to the forums.

    I have tried quite a few different masturbators including a Fleshlight

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37909

    If you have never tried a masturbator before i would in all honesty start with something other than a Fleshlight.Something from the Thrust Pro range, (Eva is a great toy) would be a great starting place before jumping straight to a Fleshlight.Having said that Fleshlights are great and you can also purchase a showere mount.If you are set on a Fleshlight go for one from the Fleshlight Girls range,Lovehoney have a deal at the moment where you save 20% if you buy 2.

    Have Fun

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    MK7 [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't recommend fleshlight brand fleshlight at all. A stroker or a sleeve gets the job done if not better, and tenga flipholes are just infinitely superior. The only reason I'd recommend a fleshlight is for the actual look of a vagina or anus but then thrust brand ones are more affordable than felshlight brand ones for the same result.

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    bondagegod [sign in to see picture]
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    Have you looked any further into purchasing a fleshlight?

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    Lovehoney - Paige [sign in to see picture]
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    I would definitely consider trying a cheaper option before going all out with a Fleshlight, that being said, we have our awesome returns policy so if you want to go to the King of male masturbators go for it! haha.

    If you wanted to try something a little cheaper I would highly suggest the THRUST Chloe or Holly as they are a decent size.

    The thing with Fleshlights is they are pretty much all the same except for the outside and patterns inside them, there are a few longer in length than others too. I find the Vibro Pink Lady is a good one to consider as well, you get added stimulation with the vibrations and the pattern inside is quite detailed too (that being said this is why its the most expensive one). Otherwise, The Fleshlight in a can range is pretty cool for a starter option as well as the Stamina STU.

    Good luck :D

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    BigInBerks [sign in to see picture]
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    Question on sizes - I want a see-through version, the Go Torque at https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33985 which is 7". If I'm 8" then should I be looking for larger?

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    LIL_KNOWN69 [sign in to see picture]
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    Big in berks you should be fine with the above unless you really want to use your entire length. I'm packing quite a large member and have never struggled with any of the fleshlights.

    To the original poster, Paige has hit the nail firmly on the head that most fleshlights do feel exactly the same. The pornstar range which have a few of the most popular names in the scene are sculpted to their exactly proportions so if your going for realism then it may be worth having a look at these. Alternatively you can try one of the Thrust strokers as these have great reviews and are supposed to feel just as good as the fleshlights at a much cheaper price

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    Lovehoney - Leanne [sign in to see picture]
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    And with the THRUST range we have a handy guide to find the best one for you: 

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/buyers-guide/choosing-and-using-thrust-realistic-toys/

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