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  1. Butt play newbie

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    Lone Ranger [sign in to see picture]
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    So after all the comments on here about butt play, thinking about branching out here.

    as i love cock rings, thinking this a good starting point. Any suggestions?

    its that or a prostate massager, not sure which to go for though.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32822

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    *sexybabe* [sign in to see picture]
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    I can't recommend a prostate massager as a female but I can discuss bum play with you as I'm a fan too! Personally, so chose something very basic and simple for my first experience. If you've never tried anything bum related before, you might want to start off with a small plug? They're easy to use and great as a starter. I progressed to vibrating plugs, vibrating beads and I've also got a small dildo I use for anal. But I took my time and increased slowly!

    Entirely your choice, but a small silicone plug is one place you could start. Enjoy!

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    Aims85 [sign in to see picture]
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    Looks good, you can always return it if it's not right for you.

    Start small and work your way up, hubby loves it, as do I 😀

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    mamz [sign in to see picture]
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    Agree with sexy babe. This one plug may be too big to start with, maybe get something a bit smaller and work up to this one toy that you're eyeing! There are plenty of beginner plugs out there. I also like the tracey cox prober as it goes up in size and allows a good streching abd warm up. It also allows for working up fron one size to another. You can readmy review here https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32085&reviewid=153046#customer_reviews it's also in the 2 for £15 butt plug offer, so you could get a small plug with it too like this one https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21767

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    TandG [sign in to see picture]
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    Both Mr T and myself are fans of bum play. We started off with the very basic butt plug and beginners anal beads. Most definitely as others mention start off with the simple small things then work up. I'm almost certain you won't regret it. I know Mr T doesn't regret our purchases and now he is the one looking at getting more exciting anal products. So a win win from me as I'll get to try them too.

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    Senator [sign in to see picture]
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    I purchased the roll play beginners plug and butt tingler vibrating plug for my first venture into butt fun. The plug I find good for PIV sex as it stays in place and I get nice sensations in my ass, the prostate massager is good for foreplay, but doesn't stay in during sex.

    Took a few times to learn how to get it to feel good, but I now prefer with than without.

    next adventure is to go out to the pub etc with both of us equipped

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    Olli [sign in to see picture]
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    Definitely start gently, don't expect too much too quickly, or you might have some discomfort afterwards.
    Something that can be smaller but also has a larger end if you progress quickly...

    .https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2041

    My main warning is that you'll probably get addicted once you start...enjoy :)

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    Davy Brown [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree with all that has been said. I was very unsure to start and worked up slowly so to speak. Small silicone butt plug and beads are a good addition.
    Very addictive and a massive turn on!

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    Blue Steel [sign in to see picture]
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    Lovehoney Booty Buddy Silicone Butt Plug
    Average customer review 4.5 out of 5 stars This 👌

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    Buns_ambient [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey! I was new, and I got something called the love honey booty buddy vibrating butt plug. Very cheap, lots of lube and goes in nicely, when the gf and I use it she can see the effect it has on me, and even when alone is great too!

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    chisel [sign in to see picture]
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    Whatever you stick up your bum go easy , plenty of lube and enjoy it.

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    assblaster2000 [sign in to see picture]
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    If you enjoy the pain / pleasure combo id start with https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28912

    just ease onto it, get off and keep going until you get past the wide part n the feeling you get as it gets sucked in was amazing first time i did it

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    KingGrthy [sign in to see picture]
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    assblaster2000 wrote:

    If you enjoy the pain / pleasure combo id start with https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28912

    just ease onto it, get off and keep going until you get past the wide part n the feeling you get as it gets sucked in was amazing first time i did it

    That is a bit big for a newbie at 7 inches circumference. I remember getting a dildo that was 5.5 inches even after several months of regular butt play and thinking it was massive. I don’t think pleasure/pain is quite enough to overcome this for someone inexperienced. Better to start smaller and enjoy that, pain comes later if he wants to go big!

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    Michael777 [sign in to see picture]
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    KingGrthy wrote:

    assblaster2000 wrote:

    If you enjoy the pain / pleasure combo id start with https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28912

    just ease onto it, get off and keep going until you get past the wide part n the feeling you get as it gets sucked in was amazing first time i did it

    That is a bit big for a newbie at 7 inches circumference. I remember getting a dildo that was 5.5 inches even after several months of regular butt play and thinking it was massive. I don’t think pleasure/pain is quite enough to overcome this for someone inexperienced. Better to start smaller and enjoy that, pain comes later if he wants to go big!

    Totally agree with the above. The girth would be way too much for a newbie. I've been playing for years and still find max six inches girth is plenty for me.
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    GemGem90 [sign in to see picture]
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    As the others above have said, start small build up to the bigger and more adventurous stuff. The link you posted looks quite big, I would say start with a basic plug and one that doesn't vibrate. It can take a little while to get used to the feeling. Oh and LOTS of lube.

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    Quiet ones are worse! [sign in to see picture]
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    This starter set would be a great first outing;

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=3539

    I will bet the first two will get "just some" use and then get thrown away, you'll quickly find its easy to work up in size to as far as you want?

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