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  1. Advice on toys please

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    Still quite inexperienced with sex so could really use some good toys to train and have a better/proper experience

    Would like some keggle balls for my partner. First timer to them so something suitable but that will last a while (weight wise not too light that they are outgrown quickly)
    A suitable male p vibrator. That's rechargeable and actually does the job. Tried a few things but only once did it work. Nothing ever specifically designed for it though.
    A rechargeable or wired magic wand
    A new g spot toy for someone with little experience in that area so something good strong with possibly a wide head to make sure it doesn't miss? I'm unsure really. Bought one as part of a 2 for £25 but it doesn't do the job. A thing to wash our bums too would be good idea I think

    I've tried to be specific to help the search. I really have no idea what toys are good or suitable or over priced unfortunately. Also with so many want to make sure it's right.
    I was hoping a budget of a £100 would be enough but don't mind going higher (maybe as high as £150 if really necessary) as really want some good toys that are proven.

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    Hi.

    I would recommend you the LOVEHONEY holydays kit that is now on sale. It has all you need to start exploring new toys and sensations. Including kegel balls.

    Enjoy!!

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    Whilst some of the things in the kit look good look good others do not.
    So I don't think that kits for us. Ty for the suggestion though

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    The lovehoney own brand wands are on special at the moment, utter bargain.

    I have had my eye on this and think it could be good for you.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38183

    It's a standard wand AND a gspot one!

    Lovehoney basics kegal balls are brilliant for first times.

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    RosyCheek wrote:

    The lovehoney own brand wands are on special at the moment, utter bargain.

    I have had my eye on this and think it could be good for you.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38183

    It's a standard wand AND a gspot one!

    Lovehoney basics kegal balls are brilliant for first times.

    Looks good. Saw this too an £80 set with a gsot attachnent and it's mains powered. https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36113 Not sure which would be better as your recommendation looks purpose built for internal use. But will it be weaker as it's battery (although rechargeable) either way 2 toys in 1 is great and both look good
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    Also saw a lelo wand that's dual purpose for £120

    I wouldn't mind buying 1 expensive toy that really is fantastic and buy the others later as it's her b day soon.

    Is a wand like this the best idea or is it overpriced? Or maybe something else would help a lady who struggles to climax infernally with ease.

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    Initiate wrote:

    Also saw a lelo wand that's dual purpose for £120

    I wouldn't mind buying 1 expensive toy that really is fantastic and buy the others later as it's her b day soon.

    Is a wand like this the best idea or is it overpriced? Or maybe something else would help a lady who struggles to climax infernally with ease.

    IMO lelo toys are always over priced. The LH magic wand is an absolute bargain at the moment,and can be used for back massage too: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37246 If you want a really powerful g spot vibrator I recommend this mains powered rabbit. I have it and it is amazing, the most powerful rumbly internal vibes I've ever felt. It's shaped to hit the gspot too: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36325 Can't really help you with the P spot toy, but I do know some people use silicone gspot shaped rabbit vibes as p spot toys of they are more experienced and can take a girthier toy. I don't have any personal experience of this though. Good luck with your search and enjoy your new toys whatever you choose!
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    Do others agree about lelo?
    Is the rabbit powered mains better? This is what I have so far to consider

    double ended rechargeable wand £55
    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38183

    Mains wand with attachments (not sure if attachments are any good) £80
    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32897

    Rabbit mains wand £80
    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36325

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    Funlover69 [sign in to see picture]
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    I have all three of the above and they are all brilliant choices. I would definitely say the Rabbit Mains Wand is the most powerful of them however the next extremely powerful Lovehoney Mains Wand can be used with a multitude of attachments which makes it very versatile.The Divine Rechargeable one is just that. Divine to use, less noisy and less heavy but still powerful enough to do the job.
    With so much choice on Lovehoney, no wonder you are struggling to decide. Good luck.

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    By the way I agree5 with Jezebella, the new Mains Lovehoney Wand is an amazing bargain at the moment and is both extremely powerful and offers loads of patterns and speeds.
    Can't wait to see what you decide on buying.x

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    Hello

    Why does your partner want/need kegle balls? Has she told you she wants them? Kegle balls mainly strengthen the muscles in the vagina. But also have a free roaming ball inside which offers descreet massage. But if she is inexperienced with sex like you are then she more than likely wont need them.

    I advise looking for vibrating love eggs, ones where you can keep the remote and surprise her when ever you see fit perhaps.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/love-eggs-jiggle-balls/vibrating-love-eggs/

    The difference between rechargable and mains powered wands is the power. Mains powered offers more power, so if you think one of those would be too powerful then look at rechargable ones.

    This is a very good rechargable wand https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33706 expensive because it offers great power, waterproof and the material is silicone, which is the best body safe material out there.

    If you're looking for a mains powered one then I recommend starting off with this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20464

    The attachments are a game changer. They are most definitely worth it.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22683 - I have this attachment, it perfectly cups the clitoris and directs all of the vibrations to that one area. Amazing orgasms.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25898 - I also have this one, this gives me a Gspot and clitoral orgasm/s. Very good.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28560 - male attachment, cannot give my opinion on this one obviously but thats what the reviews are there for!

    For Gspot toys I highly recommend this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30941 - I am a seasoned toy enthusiast and this toy gets me there every time, without fail. Use in conjunction with a wand and I achieve strong orgasms. It may be small in circumference however don't let this stop you, the bulbed head massages away at the Gspot quite nicely. Glass toys are a game changer also, as they are so rigid they offer direct massage and also very easy to clean.

    A thing to wash your bums with is what you call an anal douche. If you are going to do any anal play than it is paramount to invest in an anal douche. It keeps things clean and hygenic and helps to prevent any poo mishaps. Jess has demonstrated how to properly use one in this video: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/buyers-guide/how-to-use-an-anal-douche/

    If you are into recieving anal then I suggest purchasing two as sharing an anal douche wouldn't be hygenic either. I use this anal douche and have done for several years now, I highly recommend it: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=5181

    You haven't mentioned lube. Lube is also very important, especially with any anal play. I urge you to stay clear of any lube containing Glycerin. I highly recommend these lubes:

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35808 - vaginal
    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35809 - anal.
    Save 20% when you spend £15 on lubricants this week.

    I understand you have a budget, but in my opinion toys are 'you get what you pay for' kinda deal. So if you pay cheap you will get cheap. Cheap in regards to, cheap and unsafe body materials, battery operated = less powerful and so on. It is worth to wait for the 20-25% off vouchers and splurge then. Or order bit by bit and work on your Oh! points. Don't forget that if any toys from Lovehoney don't work out then you have up to 1 year returns policy. Lovehoney offers customer service like no other.

    Good luck and let us know how you get on!

    🐼

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    Funlover69 wrote:

    By the way I agree5 with Jezebella, the new Mains Lovehoney Wand is an amazing bargain at the moment and is both extremely powerful and offers loads of patterns and speeds.
    Can't wait to see what you decide on buying.x

    I'm to in decisive. Can't even choose between chocolate bars. Maybe a few more will offer their opinion to help :( You said rabbit is most powerful. Is it the best all rounder? Maybe the LH deluxe mains and buy a few seperate atatchments. Or is the purpose built dual rabbit better. Is it all about the power?
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    SquirtyPanda

    Not quite as inexperienced as I or we may sound. The inexperience comes in regards to larger better or more expensive toys and with gspot pleasure. I have been successful in stimulating her there but not as often as either of us would like. Only really started trying with new things and gspot a 6 months ago. And with children it's not always easy. The keggle balls are to strengthen the area. It can sometimes take a little work for my partner to climax internally, With squeezing or pushing. OH enjoys strong vibrations and enjoys toys on the outside whilst I stimulate inside. I know the terms but don't use them much as being open is still new to me sorry so it's not easy.
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    As you want a few toys to get into a more adventurous sex life I wouldn't spend fortunes as trial and error is part of something like this. Plenty of toys with a high price tag are just more "premium" and don't always give better sensations. Also just like all things in life, there is no magic toys which will do all the hard work, you just need suitable tools for the job. Below are just a few of our favourites and highly recommend toys. Check sizes and reviews before making your purchases:

    Keegle/jiggle balls:
    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32948

    These are an excellent choice for both weight and size, also on offer at the moment and with a good lubricant they are silky smooth! Great for a beginner.

    Prostate massager:
    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37302

    Instead of vibrating toys, just try a stimulator with some extra stimulation from your partner or pop it in just before you have sex. The one above is great and gives you a really intense pressure to your p zone.

    Wand:
    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36056

    This wand is excellent as it has the same power and abilities as the bigger wired Wanda but is rechargeable and travel size for convenience. It's also not intimidating for anyone new to toys.

    G-spot vibe:
    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35525

    This vibe has great reviews and an excellent partner adored it. The size is excellent for anyone new to the scene and the curve of the head fits snug against the Gspot, if you want to make your partner squirt then this did work wonders but only on someone who had previous experience of squirting.

    Anal douche:
    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=952

    Simple and basic douche with a bulb big enough to clean anyone, two session of this before play will make sure your ready.

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    Just need to decide on which toy for OH. Decided on everything else

    Mains wand? https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20464 they also have sale on £80 with several attachments include gspot

    Rabbit wand https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36325

    Glass https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30941

    Swan wand https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33706 (have actually looked at this before but never sure if you get value for money)

    Or maybe glass and mains (w/o attachments)

    To me they all look like great options

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    I would go with the mains wand:
    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20464

    The rechargeable one in my list above is just as powerful but a little smaller. But the mains one Is an excellent choice and would recommend for anyone wanting a wand, also you get a free mini wand with it at the moment!

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    Initiate wrote:

    Just need to decide on which toy for OH. Decided on everything else

    Mains wand? https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20464 they also have sale on £80 with several attachments include gspot

    Rabbit wand https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36325

    Glass https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30941

    Swan wand https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33706 (have actually looked at this before but never sure if you get value for money)

    Or maybe glass and mains (w/o attachments)

    To me they all look like great options

    They're all great choices! Probably the mains wand is the most versatile. Its hard to know until your partner has tried them which kind of sensation she would like the best. I have both the mains rabbit and the mains wand and I really prefer the rabbit, but I am a fan of strong internal vibes and precise clitoral vibes. People differ in their sex toy taste so much that you will never get consensus. I'd say read the reviews and go for the one you're drawn to the most. If its not a hit then you can return it and try something else on your list. Have fun :)
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    h@ppyhusb@nd [sign in to see picture]
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    For the kegels you can get some which have changeable weights so they can be tailored somewhat to her ability. https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30892
    We haven't used these ones so cant speak of quality though. I would say avoid the basics kegels we found them super light and a little cheap. Not poorly made just not premium but the price tells you its not a top line product. On the other end of the scale, the fsog metal kegels are very pleasing to the eye, they are the same as in the movie bit my god they are ridiculously heavy over 200g next closest on LH is just over 100g.

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