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  1. Strap on dido advise

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    cam couple 83 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hiya!
    Looking for advise on what's the best harness / double dido on the market? Both big fan if the bend over boyfriend for size texture and comfort, but looking for one that vibrates and a suitable harness to help it stay in place. I know the bend over comes with a vibrating option but tbh my previous one broke very early on and am not really wanting to get another if there are better made ones out there?
    Thanks for the advise

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    I have the BoB too, to be honest I rarely use it since getting a harness. It's easier with a strap on! And I like wearing the kit 😉

    If you're after a beginner's harness set search for them on here, Lovehoney have their own Basics one which I have, which is great. And there's an abundance of harness compatible dildos on here too. Just make sure you get a harness with a pocket for a bullet vibrator.

    I can't recommend a vibrating strapless strap-on though I'm afraid, hopefully someone else can then you'll have plenty of choice!

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    I would get a unisex harness, so you can both use it, but also because it has 2 lower harness straps, which go around both legs. You may find the single lower strap harnesses cut you in two, if you get what I mean.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27202 This one is both vacu lock, and "O" ring compatable, so you can use both types of dildo.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29433 this cheaper harness is just for "O" ring compatable dildos. It also comes with a silicone 6inch dildo.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30709 This silicone dildo has a space in the back to take a bullet vibe. and it's on offer ATM

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9619This one is one of my favourites, and now comes with a bullet vibe, mine didn't, and didn't have the hole to take one.

    Though both the above can be used with the vibe, I wonder if the end control button may cause problems with pressing it unintentionally during use.

    Silicone dildos are easiest to disinfect, but don't forget you will need a water based lube to avoid damaging the silicone.

    The double enders, the kind that have a part on the end to hold in the vagina duing use are notoriously difficult to keep in, even with strong kegels. And usual need a pair of rodeo pants, to help with this. if you want some stimulation for yourself you could try jiggle balls to use at the sametime, or a remote love egg, or a bullet vibe or this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33304, to put down the front of the harness.

    If you want a traditional double ender to ues on each other at the same time, I stick 2 suction cup dildos bottom to bottom, so you can both choose your favourite dildo, independently.

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    Some of the Rodeoh pants hold a strapless strapon well.

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