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    Aims85 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi all,

    The husband and I have been enjoying trying new things..anal is something he has wanted to try with me for years and I was really just not feeling it...well how wrong was I, got some toys to try thinking I would hate it and I actually love it so I need a few new ones to help train my ass, as he is very well hung.. we are leading upto that and I am just enjoying using plugs etc. We are yet to try sex with my wearing a plug as he has been away with work and I have been using my alone time wisely haha. SO we have these....basics plug, beads and the anal dildo.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24636

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36683

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32885

    I fancy a vibrating one and a glass plug, also love the gem one with ball in, as I am a sucker for anything that sparkles.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32751

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26278

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34295

    Do you think these a good step up from the above or should I be looking at something else? Thanks xx

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    AsYouWish! [sign in to see picture]
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    The FSOG steel plug is great.

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    Lovehoney - Emkapa [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Aims85!

    I'm glad you and your husband have found something new to enjoy!

    If your goal is to train yourself to be able to comfortably accomodate your husband, the Beaded Plug you already own is great for that - work your way up through the beads, and, once you've mastered the 3.4 inch max circumference of the last bead and want to keep going, try something with a bigger circumference, like: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2066 - this has a max circumference of 4.25 inches.

    The circumference is always listed in our product descriptions :D

    If it's to increase sensations during sex for both of you and just have a bit of fun, then a vibrating plug would be perfect - the Booty Shaker you've linked is great for that, and our Butt Tingler range would be good too. They come in small, medium and large sizes, and the small one is about as wide as the widest point of your Beaded Plug, so would be best for you at this point: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28501

    Glass toys are always good to have for anal play as they're non-porous, so mega hygienic, especially as you can put them in the dishwasher or boil them. They can also be used for temperature play, which might be something new to try with your husband too!

    As for anything sparkly - if it's your thing, then go for it! A set might be good for you as you want to train as well: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35663

    My tip would be, know what you can take comfortably and gradually work your way up. Hope this helps - and have fun!

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    Aims85 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks, will look at all of those.

    The 3.4 bead is absoutely fine so I need something bigger I think, not massively though.

    We often to temperature play, Iove the glass toys so will get some more of those.

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    SquirtyPanda [sign in to see picture]
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    Glad you are venturing into anal play it feels so good I love it!

    I just purchased this butt plug

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37178 - This plug sounds like decent enough circumference and has a narrow neck with a cute little gem to boot. Great price too, can't go wrong really!

    A general consensus is that plugs with narrow necks tend to stay put during intercourse and when you climax. Plugs with more wider necks tend to get pushed out easily come orgasm. The gemmed plug you linked is a good step up however I dont personally have that particular plug so cannot comment on it.

    Vibrating plugs don't tend to work out for me, they dont really vibrate enough for me to get off from it. However might be opposite for you and definitely a road to go down to see if they are for you.

    Also dont forget if the toys dont work out, with Lovehoney you can get upto 1 year refunds!

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    Quiet ones are worse! [sign in to see picture]
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    You will be amazed how big you can go, if you want to, play as you are on your own stepping up in size over time, as a guide take a trip of paper and roll it to about your partner size, the unroll and measure the circ that way you can get a plug of a similar size? Stepping up in size can get adictive?

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    Sparky 1 [sign in to see picture]
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    Graduating in size is addictive,trying bigger and bigger plugs and dildos is great fun as felling the lager ones glide in or pop in if there beaded is lovely and very sexy, especially if the oh is helping you but it takes time to build up to larger toys so don't rush it use plenty of good lube,silicone or oil type ones are great for glass toys but not for any latex are similar type toys remember take your time and you'll enjoy it try to rush it and you won't and it will be painful and could put you off from enjoying something really enjoyable

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    Aims85 [sign in to see picture]
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    Yeah I will measure him when he gets home, will order a few around 4/5 circ and see how I go with those first.

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    Aims85 [sign in to see picture]
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    So turns out I absolutely love anal play... Even the hubby is enjoying it himself and on me 🙌


    Question though I can't seem to shake the feeling that a plug is going to disappear all the way in as I don't seem to have any issue with bigger toys now... How do I get rid of this worry....

    Actually excited to finally have anal sex without it hurting... We're going slow before we try that again... He's rather large 😀

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    KingGrthy [sign in to see picture]
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    If a plug goes in it will come out, just be careful about the plugs you use, when you get a bit more experienced you won't be able to use thin plugs or those without a good flared base as they can either go all the way in or at the very least will be very uncomfortable. I've yet to lose anything up there haha, so don't worry too much, just make sure it's of a shape that you can get out without too much pain. Mostly avoid those toys that are risky, I have a few plugs I can't use anymore.

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    SquirtyPanda [sign in to see picture]
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    Aims85 wrote:

    So turns out I absolutely love anal play... Even the hubby is enjoying it himself and on me 🙌


    Question though I can't seem to shake the feeling that a plug is going to disappear all the way in as I don't seem to have any issue with bigger toys now... How do I get rid of this worry....

    Actually excited to finally have anal sex without it hurting... We're going slow before we try that again... He's rather large 😀

    The plug shouldn't disappear inside you as long as it has a long, narrow neck and a wide base

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    Aims85 [sign in to see picture]
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    Yep they're all from LH with long necks and flared bases... I'm worried about the gem ones going in... No idea why It just feels like it's not there, but there in a good way... Not sure how to explain.

    I'm sure they won't actually disappear it's just a fear!!

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    KingGrthy [sign in to see picture]
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    The narrower the neck, the less you will feel it when it is in place but also the less likely it is to slip in as well.

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    Aims85 [sign in to see picture]
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    Okay .. Makes sense... Thank you ❤

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