• How you use a dildo on OH

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    EngAz [sign in to see picture]
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    Something I've been contemplating for quite some time is getting a glass dildo to use on OH for after I've finished but she needs more. I'm terrified of hurting her with it though.

    We're in our mid 30s, we've only ever slept with each other and neither of us have used one before. What position is best? Pretty sure I can figure out angle, depth and speed on my own.

    I really want her to get more out of sex. I get the feeling she could use more, but she never says anything about it.

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    NaughtyNerd [sign in to see picture]
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    Glass is really nice. Go for one that has a curve so its not too pokey
    Can't got wrong with the Tracey cox set
    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17187

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    Heidi920 [sign in to see picture]
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    Glass is amazing! I can recommend this double ended one https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29221

    On the other hand though if she hasn't tried any type of dildo before, maybe you should start with something a little more giving like a silicone one. Also make sure it's something she would also want to try too.
    Although glass gives an amazing sensation the bulbous head can sometimes take me a moment to get use to when inserting but but very comfortable once in place especially a g-spot one.

    Good luck experimenting

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    Reg90 [sign in to see picture]
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    Both my partner and I love our glass dildo... I think it slips so nicely into a nice wet space 😜 Enjoy giving it a go!

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    Lil_Red_Kinkyboots [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi there,

    You may find her lying on her back in the missionary position would be the easiest. You can lie at the side of her or between her legs to really see what you are doing. Whilst glass is really lovely it is very different to an actual penis, so may not be the best choice for a beginner as Heidi suggested silicone may be a better option, or better still ask your wife what she would like to try.

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    EngAz [sign in to see picture]
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    Heidi920 wrote:

    Glass is amazing! I can recommend this double ended one https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29221

    On the other hand though if she hasn't tried any type of dildo before, maybe you should start with something a little more giving like a silicone one. Also make sure it's something she would also want to try too.
    Although glass gives an amazing sensation the bulbous head can sometimes take me a moment to get use to when inserting but but very comfortable once in place especially a g-spot one.

    Good luck experimenting

    As far as size goes she seems to like girth. I'm average length I suppose, but she's stated she likes the full feeling of mange. I'm somewhat leery of silicone for being intimidating for her, plus glass is pretty and I like that it can be warmed cooled for play. Do you have silicone suggestions? It's kind of nuts, I've seen our kids slide out of her, but to have this kind of conversation between us would mortify her.
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    Heidi920 [sign in to see picture]
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    if she would be mortified with the conversation about sex toys im not sure springing surprises on her would be a good idea maybe try and have the conversation away from the bedroom or even over dinner and few drinks (even if it's just at home one evening when the kids are in bed)
    Not all silicone toys are intimidating I would recommend something like this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22769

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    That's a good silicone suggestion from Heidi. I would recommend using a good coating of lubricant with it though as the material has a bit of a drag to it. It can be uncomfortable without.

    Also, glass can feel bigger than it is due to the firmness of it and the lack of flexibility. It doesn't hurt at all, unless you're manouvering it too quickly and accidentally hit the cervix with it and she's sensitive. I think these are great options for first-timers. Missionary is generally the best position to start out with but if she doesn't mind depth laying on the side can be great too.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17187 (particularly the clear one!)

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22160

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32877

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29223

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    bondagegod [sign in to see picture]
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    I think the suggestion of a silicone dildo is a smart idea and is worth considering. If you are set on a glass dildo and nat&tom suggestion of this glass toy is an excellent beginners glass piece. We do own this one and do feel it is more aimed at beginners than experienced uses in glass toys.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29223

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