1. Butt plug virgin

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    You could buy a set ? That way you have 3 sizes...a small one to start off with and then 2 progressively larger ones to work up too. I have this set and its great x

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=3539

    Remeber to take things slowly and use plenty of lube x

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    Boogaloo [sign in to see picture]
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    I was going to start my own thread, but this one has popped up in my search.

    So... after doing the mojo upgrade quiz it seems that both my partner and I are interested in me wearing a butt plug during sex, but I have never used any anal toys before. I have had anal sex twice but really wasn't that keen (It just felt like I had to poo!), so hopefully with some warm up I'd be able to manage a plug. I'm thinking of trying a glass one first, as glass dildos are my favourite and so easy to insert and clean.

    Has anybody tried this, and do you think it's suitable for a butt plug virgin like me?

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32887

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    Reg90 [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm planning to start using a butt plug. This one looks like a good one to start with.
    Think this is the one I'm gonna order.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30704

    Any advice from anyone with this one happily received 😀

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    Boogaloo wrote:

    I was going to start my own thread, but this one has popped up in my search.

    So... after doing the mojo upgrade quiz it seems that both my partner and I are interested in me wearing a butt plug during sex, but I have never used any anal toys before. I have had anal sex twice but really wasn't that keen (It just felt like I had to poo!), so hopefully with some warm up I'd be able to manage a plug. I'm thinking of trying a glass one first, as glass dildos are my favourite and so easy to insert and clean.

    Has anybody tried this, and do you think it's suitable for a butt plug virgin like me?

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32887

    We have this one. My oh loves it and he dosent like big things up his bum ! lol Its nice and comfy but a bit too small for me. I'd say its fine for you Boo. Its a nice tapered shape so will be easy for you (or your partner) to insert xx

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    Boogaloo [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you Terri that's great 😁 next time I get a voucher code I'll be buying!

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    lovingnewtoys [sign in to see picture]
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    I have it too - here is my review if you are interested

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32887&reviewid=174756#customer_reviews

    I say in my review not for absolute beginners, but as you have already said you have tried anal a couple of times I think you will be fine. And obviously because it's glass it is so easy to insert and a great shape too. Like Terri said a bit small for me too but that doesn't stop me wearing it because I love the coolness and that bit of weight.

    Let us know how you get on xx

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    Dickiebird [sign in to see picture]
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    This is my next sex toy I am considering. Recently tried Urethra sounding and want to try a butt plug. I will be inserting the plug myself.
    Is it as easy as stated in the reviews and can anyone offer advice of the best technique to use to insert the plug.

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    NikitaMaxine [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm with you on this. I never have put anything up that end. Honestly try it out, if you don't like it, don't do it anymore. That's the best advice I can give on anything sexual.

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    My husband says that the best way he found was to be on his knees with his ass in the air. He says it opens his cheeks up, making it easier to insert. He has inserted it standing up (in a toilet cubicle for example) but you do end up having to open your cheeks, and it can be more faff.

    I tend to just lie on my side, or I have my husband do it for me - what a chore for him!

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    For inserting, any position that opens up your anus and cheeks will work, lying on your back with legs spread, on your side, knees up, I even do it sitting on the toilet.

    Usually I insert the tip and push gently until I feel some resistance, just hold still at that point with pressure still applied but not trying to push further. Let it sit there for a moment or 2 then back off the pressure and let the plug come out a bit, then, reapply pressure and push back in, again keep going until it meets resistance, hold, withdraw and reinsert, rinse and repeat as required. You will find that each time you reinsert, you will be pushing past the posiiton last time and eventually (2-4 goes normally) you will have the whole plug inside you.

    You may find it helpful to re-apply lube on the plug after the first time or two when you withdraw, it just depends on the lube / toy.

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    Blottson [sign in to see picture]
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    Senator wrote:

    For inserting, any position that opens up your anus and cheeks will work, lying on your back with legs spread, on your side, knees up, I even do it sitting on the toilet.

    Usually I insert the tip and push gently until I feel some resistance, just hold still at that point with pressure still applied but not trying to push further. Let it sit there for a moment or 2 then back off the pressure and let the plug come out a bit, then, reapply pressure and push back in, again keep going until it meets resistance, hold, withdraw and reinsert, rinse and repeat as required. You will find that each time you reinsert, you will be pushing past the posiiton last time and eventually (2-4 goes normally) you will have the whole plug inside you.

    You may find it helpful to re-apply lube on the plug after the first time or two when you withdraw, it just depends on the lube / toy.

    Thank you for this. Kinda answers what I was going to ask. I recently ( only a week or so) bought a begineer level plug. Became intriqued by the idea it would add something to solo play. Not as icky as my initail concerns. Had a few goes, but don't seem to be able to get past a certain point. Maybe I'm trying to run before I can walk. Maybe I'm also not allowing either enough time or be as relaxed as I could be. So far been giving it a try after a long days work, when feeling a little horny and/or see it as a pleasureable experience to to enjoy after the stresses of a working day. Maybe a different position might bring the end I'm hoping for. At the moment my body is rejecting it if I manage further than I can comfortably get it. Usually it's the legs spread, bum elevated.

    I'd like to see how much fun and enjoyable this kind of play is, having never ventured this far before.

    Any advice would be gratefully received. Hope everybody out there is good. Been struck by the friendliness of everyone out there.

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    Just Tease Me [sign in to see picture]
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    Ive just started using anal plugs too. My first was a basic silicone, then my cute glass rose bud came today and its fab. I also wore mine for an hour or so around the house today. They do feel amazing and my husband loves sex when im wearing one as its so much tighter. Unfortunately I cant go any larger due to complex bowl surgery years ago(my plumbing is a bit different) Its just not worth the risk. Shame as I would love to increase in size.

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    Hi blottson, I'm assuming you are using PLENTY of lube. The most important piece of advise as you will probably have read several times already is to relax. Those particular muscles are (I believe) impossible to consciously relax so you have to just try to relax generally, when you get to the point where you normally have tonstop, still stop trying to insert further, hold where it is or pull it back slightly if it's hurting but try to to remove completely, hold where comfortable, take a minute to take a breath, adjust to the feeling a relax, keep breathing deep it will help relax, once you feel you have untensed again breath out a try inserting a little more. I have also heard advise on here from a gay fellow (can't remember if it was direct or possibly a friend of a forum member) that if you bear down a bit, as if you were having a poo, it opens those muscles.

    Good luck, in my opinion it's well worth it, definitely adds to solo play and adds variety to your play times with a different type of stimulation, particularly if you progress to dildos.

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    Blottson [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi AmyA,

    Thank you for your reply. I appreciate you taking the time to offer some suggestions which might ease my way further into this type of play, if you'll forgive the unintentional pun.

    I will try as you suggest. Look forward to it helping me. Was looking to add something to my solo play.

    Haven't felt any pain in my attempts. Perhaps my apprehension with trying this is also causing my tries to go further. All goes with relaxing, as you say.

    Once again thank you for offering some help.

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