• Bondage for him - what do I do?

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    My OH hates tickling and is allergic to feathers - but he loves being scratched - random but is there such a thing as a scratching toy?!!

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    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

    I dont know how many men like this sort of thing, but I had an ex who was in to cock and ball bondage. Tying it up with ribbon or wrapping fishnet tights tightly over it always a big hit!

    My OH loves having his balls tied with ribbon, then me having control of tightening/loosening it.....loves that I can tug him where I want him!

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    see im tickleish BUT i find it differant when im tied up and blind fold and have it moved up and down my body its feels like heaven but everyone is differant!

    another good one to add differant feelings is to gently blow on them, saw that on the sex inspectors :P lol

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    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

    Yup! my ex loved that too! It was my "treat" as he called it to have my own back on him after being a "very good girl all week!" I could take my frustration out on his balls and he loved it! Not that I would do anything too rough, cuz being a sub, I just can't do it!

    I'm the same! Defoo prefer him being in charge, but from time to time it's a fun treat! Ax

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    diamonds wrote:

    see im tickleish BUT i find it differant when im tied up and blind fold and have it moved up and down my body its feels like heaven but everyone is differant!

    another good one to add differant feelings is to gently blow on them, saw that on the sex inspectors :P lol

    Dxx

    I'm farrr too tickleish, hate having my neck kissed when I'm in a sensitive mood for this reason! Feathers don't seem to tickle me that much though so they are fun!

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    AdnaW wrote:

    diamonds wrote:

    see im tickleish BUT i find it differant when im tied up and blind fold and have it moved up and down my body its feels like heaven but everyone is differant!

    another good one to add differant feelings is to gently blow on them, saw that on the sex inspectors :P lol

    Dxx

    I'm farrr too tickleish, hate having my neck kissed when I'm in a sensitive mood for this reason! Feathers don't seem to tickle me that much though so they are fun!

    Ax

    i find that while im tied up and blindfolded i love that stuff that i dont normaly like an example being tickleish and spanked.

    i think its all to do with how turned on you are and how naughty everything feels that you like stuff you normaly wouldnt.

    but thats just my thoughts.

    Dxx

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    Theres a difference between being tickled and being sexually tickled though isn't there? Well I find so lol. The aim is different so it's softer, more sensual (I regularly want to knee the bloke in the balls when he tickles me but run his stubble along my neck at the right time and I'm putty...)

    Scratching is hugely erotic! If you find a toy let me know masterandslave

    Do expand on the ball bondage. How's that work?

    And on the original point- have you considered by a massager? Or tying him up when he's laying on his front and induldging in a little candle play?

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    masterandslave wrote:

    My OH hates tickling and is allergic to feathers - but he loves being scratched - random but is there such a thing as a scratching toy?!!

    Absolutely, horsehair floggers are quite scratchy in a good way, or you could use a bath brush or nail brush, or one of those exfoliatey scrubbie things, like this:

    http://www.boots.com/en/Botanics-Waffle-Body-Buffer_8728/

    Scratching is good. :)

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    My nerves are kinda buggered, hate stubble rubbing on my skin because my skins too soft, he has to shave everywhere pretty much for me hehe! Like soft stroking like feathers and LOVE scratching, but tickling is too in betweeny and I don't like it, makes me squirm....but yes diamonds, being turned on definately makes things more pleasurable that are usually not that fun for me!!

    Ax

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    Also, this leather flogger made to look like barbed wire is also quite scratchy, it's the one on the bottom:

    http://ladylubyanka.wordpress.com/?attachment_id=15

    I don't use it too often because it's too light to control easily, but it is quite scratchy. :)

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    Lubyanka wrote:

    masterandslave wrote:

    My OH hates tickling and is allergic to feathers - but he loves being scratched - random but is there such a thing as a scratching toy?!!

    Absolutely, horsehair floggers are quite scratchy in a good way, or you could use a bath brush or nail brush, or one of those exfoliatey scrubbie things, like this:

    http://www.boots.com/en/Botanics-Waffle-Body-Buffer_8728/

    Scratching is good. :)

    Ooo I have a plastic version of that I use in the shower - never dawned on me to use that on him before!!

    Can't get your other link to work

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    Lubyanka wrote:

    masterandslave wrote:

    My OH hates tickling and is allergic to feathers - but he loves being scratched - random but is there such a thing as a scratching toy?!!

    Absolutely, horsehair floggers are quite scratchy in a good way, or you could use a bath brush or nail brush, or one of those exfoliatey scrubbie things, like this:

    http://www.boots.com/en/Botanics-Waffle-Body-Buffer_8728/

    Scratching is good. :)

    My OH asks me to not shave so I can scrape my chin and face all over her body, she loves it and I like to do it too!

    SG69 x

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    Have done that before when he's blindfolded and it always goes down well - just wanted another texture to throw into the mix to confuse him!

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    Whenever i gently scratch my OH, he's goes crazy, all tingly and goosebumpy, i love it ^_^

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    Mwahahahaaaaa! The power!!!!

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    masterandslave wrote:

    Lubyanka wrote:

    masterandslave wrote:

    My OH hates tickling and is allergic to feathers - but he loves being scratched - random but is there such a thing as a scratching toy?!!

    Absolutely, horsehair floggers are quite scratchy in a good way, or you could use a bath brush or nail brush, or one of those exfoliatey scrubbie things, like this:

    http://www.boots.com/en/Botanics-Waffle-Body-Buffer_8728/

    Scratching is good. :)

    Also, this leather flogger made to look like barbed wire is also quite scratchy, it's the one on the bottom:

    http://ladylubyanka.wordpress.com/?attachment_id=15

    I don't use it too often because it's too light to control easily, but it is quite scratchy. :)

    Ooo I have a plastic version of that I use in the shower - never dawned on me to use that on him before!!

    Can't get your other link to work

    Sorry, try this one:

    http://ladylubyanka.files.wordpress.com/2007/04/floggers3.jpg

    Hope that's better.

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    Ahh I had an inkling that it might be the one in the banner across the top of the page!

    Looks very enticing!!!

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    Sod this light scratching malarky- the OH went to work the other week and was proudly showing off the welts! Made me giggle at the little exibitionist he is!

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