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  1. Pegging.. Do women enjoy pegging their man?

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    chisel [sign in to see picture]
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    We have parties at our place, probally 8-12 people at a time. Majority of the ladies bring their own strap-on's. Generally when they use them on other ladies they use them lovingly and gentle. ( I just love seeing my wife cum with the other ladies ). There is one lady there who is very dom. and because I am my wifes sub. grabs me and straps me down over the spanking chair and uses her strap-on with such force and vigour it nearly knocks me off the chair, she really loves doing it to me.She also uses such bad language to me ( some I've never heard before ) . As she is slamming into me she uses FSOG ruler over and over my bum cheeks until I'm nearly in tears. It upsets her becauce I will not say my safe word to her. So to cut a long story short, Yes , they do love pegging both ladies and gents.

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    KatieS <3 [sign in to see picture]
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    love it, whole different experience

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    S&M sexy times [sign in to see picture]
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    My other half loves doing this to me, I love it to, wish we did it a bit more often.

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    Peggingand fun [sign in to see picture]
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    Sexy time I understand my wife is down for it once or twice a month I wouldn't mind it once or twice a week

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    tom 3680 [sign in to see picture]
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    we love it the first time we used a strap on i was a bit worried but as we got in to it wife and me loved it i really enjoy the look in her eyes and she likes the way it makes her fell like shes in charge and if she wants to go fast or hard shes in charge

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    Funlover69 [sign in to see picture]
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    This is something I have never tried so can't be sure how much I would or wouldn't enjoy it.I would be keen to try but never had the opportunity yet.

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    BigishBen [sign in to see picture]
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    I would love to try it. No chance with the wife though......

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    Gyrator53 [sign in to see picture]
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    BigishBen wrote:

    I would love to try it. No chance with the wife though......

    I would certainly have said the same of my wife but having plucked up enough courage I picked a suitable moment and just asked and she said yes which was a total surprise. This incidentally was about 18 years ago when it was a whole lot less common than it is today.

    What have you got to lose?

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    Sex Squid [sign in to see picture]
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    BigishBen wrote:

    I would love to try it. No chance with the wife though......

    I fist asked 10yrs ago and wife said no. She came round to the idea though :)
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    Gyrator53 [sign in to see picture]
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    I think it's important to be totally open about what you want. I think guys sometimes try to do a little face-saving in the way they ask, you know, asking say, “have you ever thought you might like to peg me?” which is just begging for the answer “no”. Why should she risk saying “yes” when you might then say “really? - wow, gross”. There is nothing like “I hope you won't think less of me after this but I really want us to try pegging...” - that way you are laying yourself open and vulnerable - which should get you brownie-points even if she says no and will be good practice for the wide-open vulnerability you will feel if she says yes!

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    BumbleZeus [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm totally in love with the idea, I've convinced my OH to play with some vibe plugs for both of us to use..Hopefully she'll like doing it more and more and one day we'll reach pegging :D We're both switches so hopefully she'll end up liking it!!

    Turned on by just the thought!

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    Mysteryman1994 [sign in to see picture]
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    Of course, every male should experience getting pegged. I am now experiencing a new type of pegging where my dominatrix will dress me up heels and lingerie and also tie me up to further show her dominance over me.

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    BigInBerks [sign in to see picture]
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    We've just started anal play together. Yesterday she followed me throught the front door and as I paused to grab the dog she thrust up behind me. I asked if she was interested in that, and she most certainly was.

    A quick discussion about the fact there are 2 main types of toys for this, and we'll leave it there for another day.

    Pegging has been a fantasy of mine for a while now, and I know it's lucky I'm going to be on the receiving end. Can't wait.

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    KinkCouple [sign in to see picture]
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    We love pegging sooo much.
    Suck a turn on for us both.

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    BigInBerks [sign in to see picture]
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    A great read - a woman's view on pegging. Very hot...

    https://www.bustle.com/articles/135261-ive-tried-pegging-with-my-male-sex-partners-and-this-is-exactly-what-it-looked-and

    The pictures are actually her! Afraid the link doesn't work automatically, so copy and paste.

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    J&K2016 [sign in to see picture]
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    We have used fingers and butt plugs and we both enjoy it. Looking to purchase and use a strap on which we can't wait to try out

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    British DJ [sign in to see picture]
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    I have brought it up with the OH a few years ago but she thinks anal is for bi/gay guys and isn’t really keen to do it to me as she doesn’t enjoy anal. She’s put a small vibrator up me no more than 10 times and that was years ago. But as we live apart I was interested and enjoyed anal and started buying dildos and plugs as time went on. I always had an urge and crave for anal if it went over a week or two, and always wanted to buy new toys to try. Now I have a small suitcase full of them going up to huge 3inch diameter toys. And hoping to move in with her next year I don’t know how to bring it up that I’ve been using these toys all this time and want her to do it to me! I should’ve been honest from the start but if your partner thinks it’s weird and straights guys shouldn’t do it, then it’s hard to say that you absolutely love it

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    Gyrator53 [sign in to see picture]
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    @British DJ   If you can I think it would be best to be open and honest about how you feel. I don't think it should perhaps be the first thing you try to discuss when you move in together but I'm sure you can gauge the moment. As for the “you must be gay to like anal sex” thing and the “it must be messy” thing - these have all been trashed so many times over the years (here on LH if you search some of the older threads about pegging, but also on many other sites).

    Perhaps you could pick out some useful links for her to look at in advance of broaching the topic so that you don't need to get into a big defensive discussion about it. She may be happier to do her own research and make up her mind independently - most of us do!

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    British DJ [sign in to see picture]
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    @Gyrator53 that’s a good idea to give her some links to show her as I have told her many straight guys do enjoy it but until she sees for herself I don’t think she’ll believe it! Also will need to do something with the suitcase full of medium - huge dildos. Just want her to play as well but don’t think she’ll be keen. But thanks for the help!

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    Corset_is [sign in to see picture]
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    I would love to meet a guy who would enjoy this. It's one of my fantasies to give a guy a good seeing to with a strap on and enjoy his pleasure.

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