1. Female ejaculation

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    wizadora [sign in to see picture]
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    is it good charcole?? i always tell the girls its rivalling the rabbits but cant afford to try it myself yet...! one day maybe, one day!

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    k1mmie [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for that advice. Let me know how you get on with the latest purchase - looks interesting. Will definately get it if it works! I know what you mean about them being that big at the end for a reason, but sometimes I do wonder if i am in the right spot. literally lol. Will continue to practise, but cannot get the relaxation bit right, so tend to spasm up like a normal orgasm.

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    k1mmie [sign in to see picture]
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    Hubby laughs cos he says you just spent 40 mins making it and storing it and then you go and wee it down the toilet. Sounds about right for me..............lol.

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    I have been wanting to F.E for ages now, read all the literature,. tried all the training etc learned all i could but to no avail, then today i was with a guy that fingered my g spot exactly as directed in the Axel vid and i 'gushed' a "lot" but in saying that it wasn't all involuntary and i manually assisted the release of fluid but didn't orgasm. The bed was totally drenched and soaked.. So question is was this real F.E?? or was it wee????
    PS didn't really smell like wee, but there was some odor, but very faint, hard to tell what it really smelled like. Sheets were gold so cant tell what the actual colour is of the fluid.
    Help!

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    GrayMatter [sign in to see picture]
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    Sounds like you ejaculated to me. The next time you try, don't force it and see what happens. It'll give you a better idea of what's happening.

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    Sounds like you did ejaculate, yes. I find that it does vary between a gush and a squirt sometimes, but youve been trying so hard you should be celebrating!

    The fact that you didnt orgasm is possibly down to not being completely sure what was happening (if you thought you were peeing) So as graymatter says give it a go again and try to relax.

    Ive mentioned in posts above that I orgasm after the ejaculation, perhaps you'll find the same if you keep going after it and try to stay relaxed.

    hope that helps
    frisky

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    sassyangel [sign in to see picture]
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    well to be honest i wasn't actually enjoying what he was doing.

    backtrack:
    at first i was so excited cos i was thinking oh yes this is what they did in that vid, its sure to happen!! but then well the first time was nice but the subsequent time he did this to me, it became uncomfortable and painful (which didn't stop the gushing any) but yeah its was'nt as fun as i had been hearing and expecting all this time.. no big O, what a let down!! lol
    but yeah ill be more proactive next time about instruction about what feels good and what doesn't and letting it 'happen' naturally

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    Whoopeee! i did it! i did it! managed it friday night on my own with the aid of 2 vibes. I hadn't intended to pursue it but, hey, when the feeling is right who am I to complain?

    Just wish I'd put a towel down........

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    GrayMatter [sign in to see picture]
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    I'll have the gf doing it tonight. She's been away for ages and I've been saving myself for her. So turned on all the time, longest I've been without masturbation in a long time.
    I think she'll appreciate the massive load I give her though.

    It'll be a long night in. Going to watch Secretary, and then to bed.

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    sassyangel [sign in to see picture]
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    so even though i didn't have an orgasm from it, it was still ejaculation? bugger... lol i want the great intense O that comes WITH ejaculation..
    Any advice?
    I have never had trouble having orgasm from clitoral stimulations and they can very incredible intense. and i have twice had vaginal orgasms (minus the gushing) and it felt really honestly no different to a clitoral one...

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    Onafriskymission [sign in to see picture]
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    Try combining more clitoral stimulation with g-spot stimulation when you get closer to feeling that you're going to ejaculate. If clitoral stimulation is what does it for you then the best idea would be to try to balance the two kinds if stim, the other thing you could try is to use clit stim/a vibrator/oral sex straight after you ejaculate so that you get your orgasm as a grande finale! I'd recommend a rabbit vibrator so that you're getting both vaginal and the all important clitoral stimulation.
    frisky

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    k1mmie [sign in to see picture]
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    Well think - I may be getting nearer. The other day whilst using a vibrator on my clit and gspot I felt like I relaxed enough to release and actually had the sensation of weeing. Although it didn't squirt there was certainly a nice wet spot afterwards. Still felt the urge to wee afterwards, so am wondering if I had carried on would I have more to release. Still having fun practising though.

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    Onafriskymission [sign in to see picture]
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    Good to hear it sounds like you're well on your way to getting the technique perfected!

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    CharCole [sign in to see picture]
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    sorry its been a while but in reply to the rock chick question, at £30 from lovehoney a must to try and hell yeah its better then the rabbit. i find that the rabbit is just to solid and doesnt hit the g-spot at all whilst the rock chick is designed to hit ur g-spot every single time. look at it on http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2561. my review of it with tips is there, have fun trying it out. most people have probably purchased the rabbit before, but for £30 for sum it might seem alot of money, but trust me i use it most days and i cant openly praise it enough. so please read my review of it, otherwise i will repeat myself on here x

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    Onafriskymission [sign in to see picture]
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    Ive just discovered the wonders of the following:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13309

    Funfactory Curve silicone dilo, It is just perfect for G-spot stim for me,and I'm pretty sure others would love it too. Havent written a review yet as I want to do a bit more testing before I can really do it justice but its amazing! Just the right firmness without hurting, shape and just everything...
    It gave me a fantastic G-spot orgasm and as for the all important ejaculation I squirted three times the first time I gave it a shot (as it were) first time just a little, then a lot, then loads, its my absolute favourite toy so far. To those of you trying hard to squirt I'd definately recommend it! fantastic! I'm off to try it under water...
    Frisky

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    wizadora [sign in to see picture]
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    ooh ive got that on my wishlist! hmmmm ok frisky, thats definitely gonna be saved up for! thanks!

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    How will you know, under water?
    Isn't that a bit like "In space, no-one can hear you scream!" ?

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    Onafriskymission [sign in to see picture]
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    -wizadora- I got the funfactory curve a few days ago when it was 19.99, I see its been put back up to 26.90, now I feel bad for telling you how good it is when you'll have to save that bit longer...oh dear! Sorry, I hope you enjoy it as much as I do when you get it though,
    Frisky

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    xprincessx [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm 18 and I have ejaculated quite a few times. I haven't squirted with a guy yet but I have with a girl, she was more interested in my body and where to touch and I was more turned on then I have ever been. We werent using toys when I squirted though she was licking my clit and fingering my g-spot at the same time. It was the most amazing, intense and satisfying sex I have ever had. :D

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    wizadora [sign in to see picture]
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    its ok frisky - im skint and will be for at least the next few months so will just have to be a dream for now!

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